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I'm going out with this guy and we barely ever get to see eachother, We can't do much 'cause we're only 13. Could you give me some advice on how I could see him? Here's some stuff that might be helpfull: I live in a VERY small town.There aren't any movie theaters or anything here.We have a public pool called the (city pool) but he's always busy with Baseball and I was busy with softball but now softball is over for me.and plus he's grounded from the phone right now! So could you Please help me?
~ChRiSsY~ (link)
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Go watch his baseball games. Stick it out it gets better. xoxo Shuree
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umm i like this dude nd hes not like hott but reli sweet nd every1 hates him but im goin out with him neway....should i stay with him nd be laughed at, or just break up? (link)
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Are you hat shallow that you have to ask that question you should be ashamed. xoxoxo Shuree
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well i've liked this guy for a very long time and we've gone out and recently hes been flirting with me alot, well today a friend of mine was having a bonfire and me and my friend we'll call her "person x" were the only girls there. Well my ex has been known to flirt so he was casually doing it with both of us. then him and i break off from the rest of pack and we both get the wild idea to go swimming in the river. so we both strip ( not totally )and the whole time im scared hes holding me really close to him and he even carried me back to the house because someone lost my shoes. anyways at the end of the night he takes "person x" away and i already knew what was happeing and you guessed it he asked her out and she said yes after knowing how much i like him. Its not just that but in the morning she'd been telling me about how the love of her life "was being a dick" but she couldnt help but still like him and then when i asked her if she really liked my guy she said yea and i asked her more than the other guy and she said "as of right now yea, cuz hes being an ass". I dont know what to do! she's known for being fickle about the guys she likes. she like a guy alot and then after they go out for a couple weeks decide she really dosent. Also at the party she kept saying how much of a retard my guy was and she always makes fun of him, like what he wears and what music he listens too and they hav almost nothing in commen they're so different. I'm just so lost on what to do! HELP! (link)
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She is a guy taker watch your back. Now your gonna have to just be extra flirty and let that guy know your better than her and that you really want to be with him.It might not even be bad to loose the friend. xoxoxo Shuree
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This guy, I don't know if he's just messing around with me or if he likes me or not, but everytim I walk by him, he always says the samething, which is the first time we met. He'd even yelled it out across the field if he catches me.
And when he's sitting down he does the samething but after that he'd look at me for long periods of time.
After Spring Break he actually ran up to me just to say the same thing (he usually only says that when I walk by), and his friends would laugh at him and yell out to him that that was 4 months ago. His friend even told me he's single.
What his friends also do is point out my presence when he's not paying attention.
But I asked my friend who sits with him at lunch sometimes and she told me that he liked someone else and he just does that kind of stuff. (link)
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Umm he kinda sounds like a player. But you never know he might like you or he might just be messing next time he says something like that just ask him jokingly be like are you serius and then you'll know if he's palying or not. xoxo Shuree
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okay, so i'm really confused because there's this guy i really like. but he has a girlfriend. see most people would just be like oh, he's taken whatever, ya know? but the thing is, me and him have been friends for a long, long time so we talk even more than him and his girlfriend talk. so that wouldn't be a problem in most cases but the confusing thing is, he knows that i like him and he says that he likes me back and hes ALWAYS flirting w. me like crazy. so then when i asked him about if he liked me why was he dating this other girl, he said that he liked her too but that when they broke up that "you never know what might happen" so at first i was like okay ill just wait but now they've been goign out for a long time and it doesnt seem as though they are gonna break up anytime soon. but he still continues to flirt and i flirt back but now im beginning to feel like his girlfriend, Kristen knows that somethings going on. should i tell her? and should i continue to wait for him? please help!
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I think you need to tell her and then you need to find a real guy thats not gonna play you like a fool. Girl don't put up with that shit he's a player if he is telling one girl he's likes her then he has got a girlfriend. That's a bunch of bull cause you can tell that's just wrong and why would you want to be with a guy that if you two got together he could do the same thing to you. I hope I helped! Shuree
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ok so theres this guy named kevin who i've liked since 2 years ago. We dated for like 6 months and i honestly have to say i loved him. I miss him alot, its so hard to realize were actually over. He says he misses me too, and talks about driving down to see me. but it never happens. My birthday i didnt even have a party because he was suposed to come and take me out. And he didnt even show up. He called the next day and told me he couldnt that he forgot. It was really upseting. He does live like 2 hours away or so, and i know it really shouldnt be worth it, but for you girls who know what love is actually like , its hard to try n "forget about him". I used to have so many problems at home and he was the one i could talk to. At one point he was the only person i trusted with anything. He knew it all. and now its diffrent, but i havent told him yet how much i still love him and care about him. I just need some help on how to tell him. I wanna do it while i have the chance, so if someone could just give me an idea on how to tell him, if i even should tell him or what they think.
i rate good for good advice.
thanks,
-me. (link)
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This is exactly what's happening to me right now so i feel your pain. Really you just need to ask him straight out what's going on between you two. But you defiantly need to ask him, because if you don't then you will be always asking yourself what if? And that's not a good feeling. Goodluck Shuree :)
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OK so there is this guy I really like and I told him that I had some feelings for him well a few nights after that he starts to flirt with me and stuff and saying he wouldn't mind if I held his hand or kissed him than the next day I get an email saying "I have you blocked, sorry, I don't really want to talk or meet with
you.. it will jsut cause too many problems for me, it's not you. I
just don't go with al the stress, find someone else to love, I am not
the one for you.. sorry about all this, but this is how I want it.
Maybe in a while we can be just friends.. we shall see." and i emaild him back saying that its ok and i dont mind but when i check to see who all deleted me off msn messenger he was one of them on the list. and i really do like him i just dont know what to do I mean i dont even care if he likes me or not just being friends is enough for me. How do I get him to re add me and talk to me again like we used to?????? (link)
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Well don't give up pursue him. It sounds like something is bothering him. Try to talk to him about it all and if he has blocked you make a new screen name. Tell him you wan to know what you did.And that he can not treat you like a toy and be friends with you and drop you when ever he pleases. Good luck :) Shuree
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Me and boyfriend have been going out for 5 months and 17 days. I guarantee im in love with him and hes the ONE. Im only 13 (goin on 14) but i honestly love him. The only problem is... my parents. They think im too young to be in love and everybody else says that too! Its sooo annoying and just wish they knew how me AND my boyfriend felt about each other. Thanks bunches... (link)
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So what exactly is your question? shuree
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How can I get this guy I like in jr.high that is 12-13 to notice me even though he says he does not like me? (link)
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Start acting like you don't like him it gets them every time though still flirt with him but when he does it back kinda blow it off. It should work.
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do you think its possible to acctually fall in true love in the 7th grade? i know everyone always says you dont find love until youre older, but i think ive found the perfect person. seriously... if someone asked me to change somethinmg about him, i would say no, he needs no changing. ive gone out with him three times and all three times we broke up for stupid reasons. hes always there for me, and always makes me feel like the smartest, prettiest, most unique person in the planet. he is willing to listen to my views on things, and trys really ard to make me happy. he is artistic, yet hes also a football player. hes really hot but i SWEAR thats not why i love him. well, i think you get my point so ill be quiet now. Tell me what you think! thanks - i rate high unless your response really sucks. (link)
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Yes it's posible to fall in love in seventh grade I fell in love in eighth grade and we broke up 11 times so yes I think it's possible and it sounds by the way that you talk about him that you really are in love.
Shuree
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hey i'm a female and i'm 14 yrs. old and this guy that i've been really good friends with since i was 11 has been flirting with me and we did some stuff the other day. I don't regret it at all i mean it wasnt that bad but my friend has asked him if he likes me and he said he thinks i'm really hot but we've been friends too long. I can't let this go though because i dont have many guys liking me and he has never cheated on anybody and he would be the perfect boyfriend. He's really hot and i like him so much. My problem is that we've decided to just be friends more than once before but we always get together and flirt and do stuff and this happens all over again what should i do?
Luv,
~Very Emotionally Confused~ (link)
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I would tell him that you really don't wanna do stuff with him if your not dating because your going to like him more and more like that and he really doesn't want a relationship so you don't think that you two should flirt anymore.
-shuree
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For the last few days a bunch of boys in my class have been looking at me funny. At first I thought that I mite have had somthing weird on my face or maybe my outfir looked redicules to them. Then they all started talking to me. Not at once, but boys would come up to me all threw out the day and talk to me. This one boy even said that his best friend (one of the boys who wouldn't leave me alone) had a crush on me. I didn't belive him. Another one, was always trying to make me laugh, anouther one was always starring at me. The boy I have a crush on is really cool and always talking to me too. I can tell he has a crush on me. I think all the other boys have crushes on, and it really freaks me out!!!!!! A bunch of girls have been giving me the cold shoulder, or being really mean. My crush is my best friend too, and we are always together, some stupid boy calls us the love birds. I really don't know what to do. Should I just stay away from all boys in general. (link)
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Heck no don't stay away from them just cause some jealous girls are giving you thr cold shoulder. It's not your fault they all like you and if you like them then don't let a couple of girls get in the way.
-Shuree
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lately, ive been thinking a lot about my first love. thes this other boy and we're pretty into eachother, but i havnt been able to stop thinking about my first love lately. its gonna be a year now that met and we fell in love over the summer. is this normal? is it just cuz he was my first love? or do i still have feelings 4 him? i really like this new guy. its just that i've been thinking about the first one. maybe, its b/c he represents a happy time in my life or hes very special to me or something. i dunno. do i still like him in a way?
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It's you're first love and nobody ever forgets there first love you guys probably had a really special ralationship. Probably now that you meet this new guy is why your remembering your first love because every one compares there new guy they like to that special first love but it sounds lie you should give this new guy a chance. Good luck :) Shuree
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I love my boy friend so much! He is one of the best things that has happened to me in a LONG time. I just moved more than 30 minutes away from him. My parents almost never give me a ride over there and no one in his house will give him a ride unless we pay them money. I love him but I feel like we are just growing apart. Should I break up with him or just see how things go? (link)
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This has happened to me before and you can still love someone and not be with them so if you think your growing apart maybe you should break it off and just stay really good friends. Shuree
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ok i like my b/f but i never REALLY REALLY liked him okay hes really nice and all its like i like the b/f thing just not the boy....... i mean ther is nothing there n e more well i kinda wanna break it off w/ him but like my friends dont want me 2 and our 1 month aniversary was monday and he bought me diamond earings i no weird 13 year olds wer do we get this money ?! n e way i have 4 classes with him... i wanna break up with him but i dont no if i should b/c i dont wanna make him feel bad and i just dont wanna go o/ w/ him n e more! so should i break it off with him or not and if i do how should i do it? (link)
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Well if you don't really like him anymore than you should break it off. There's nothing worse than not likeing someone and just dating him to make him feel good. Don't listen to your friends listen to whatyou wanna do just tell him you think that you guys are going in different directions and that you should just be friends. Good luck :) Keep me posted Shuree
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i've liked this guy for a while. lets call him bill. and we're pretty good friends. so lately i've been getting some signals from him. we took some pics with his head on mine and people made him put his arm around me but yet it stayed there until i got up to do something. then hes all "i miss u wanna see you" when he was gone. and lately we've been getting tormented cuz people think that we like each other. well i like him but that not the point lol. so lately hes been blowing me off not talking to me at school and barely online anymore. i'm so confused! please help! does he like me like everyone thinks he does or what?!?!! (link)
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Maybe you should just ask him. He could really like you or just be a big flirt but you'll never know unless you ask! Shuree
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Hey I'm 14/f and lately one of my best guy friends has been asking me out, i really care about him but right now i am dealing with other things in my life. such as trying to get into a good highschool, and my other hobbies that are really imortant to me. yet on the other hand, i really like him. my question is what should i do? i mean why should i risk a relationship when we are just going to break up sooner or later? what is the point in a young relationship right now? besides "having fun" because i know that loving someone is a lot more than "having fun" please answer, ill rate fives as long as you try to help (link)
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If you like him enough to date him then it should be at least a little important and how are you ever gonna find love if you don't date and have some fun? You never know when love comes it doesn't matter the age and you never know it could last give it a chance if you like him! Hope I helped! Shuree
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Ok I kinda like these to guys who are in the grade below me. I mean when I'm away them.. it's just my flirt meter goes off! And like I'm jelious when other girls are around this one guy. Is it wrong to like a younger guy? Is it stupid to go out with a younger guy? (link)
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No it's not stupid to like a younger guy if you like him age shouldn't matter.
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I like this guy and recently I told him I liked him, but now i kind of regret it because I know he is going to act different around me and its not going to be the same. What should I do? (link)
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Just try to make the best of it and don't try to think about it when your around him sometimes after a little while they'll act like you never even told them you liked them. Good luck :) Shuree
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I like this guy and i dont think he likes me he has a grl friend and i dream about him and i stare at him every day i cant get over him and i want to go out with him but i keep waiting for him to break up wit his girl friend but i dont know if i should keep waiting
what should i do????? (link)
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Well it seems like you really like this guy and think about it would you like it if some girl was waisting for you to break up with your man? Probably not so don't do it to that girl you should try to find someone who doesn't already have a girlfriend. Good luck :) Shuree
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