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my problem is pretty simple, but i think that one wrong move in it will make everything fall apart. ok, so, this is my story. december last year, a day after one of our school dance, a friend of mine told me that my crush wanted to ask me to dance and then ask me out. my crush didn't but i e-mailed him saying that i like him and i was hoping that we would still stay good friends even with thte whole crush thing. i did this because after the day of the dance, me and my crush barely talked which is very unlikely because we always talked. that's why i e-mailed him. nowadays, it's been improving between us. i can still feel a tension between us, but i'm glad it's still improving. but just yesterday, the same friend that told me that my crush wanted to ask me out IMed me saying that he heard from somebody that my crush was gonna ask me out by the end of this week. i was really happy, but at the same time, i didn't want to keep my hopes up, because if he doesn't ask me out, it'll just hurt more. what should i do around my crush now? i mean, i'm trying to keep it normal between us, but sometimes i just don't know what to do. what do you think?
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Well hun, what I would do is just act the same. Just act like you havn't herd anything from anybody and maybe it will make him feel more comfertable around you. I could be wrong but I think the guy who is telling you things about your crush might be playing with you because he knows you like him a lot. Just first try acting like nothing is going on and then maybe he will lossen up a little bit. If this works send something to my inbox to let me and. Also you can send me something if you need anymroe advice about this situation or anything else. Hope I helped you!!!!
Love Meggs
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ok my problem is i have liked this girl for a really long time and i dated her 4 like 3 days then i called her 1 day and she handed the phone 2 her sis and her sis told me she said it was over but then a couple days later she called me and told me that she was really sorry that she mad a HUGE mistake and she wishes that she could rewind time then we had a very long talk about some stuff and she is sayin that i understand her like no1 else does and that she has never had any1 understand her like me. and we got back together and now she is bein all sweet and sayin she really loves me and she thinks that it is really TRUE love but how do i kno if she really means it or not? please can someone help me? (link)
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Well, if she was a big enough person to call you back and tell you straight up that she made a huge mistake and ask you to forgive her, she totally loves you. If you neer mant anything to her she never would have called you back and been all sweet to you like she is now. I think she does truely love you and wants you to forgive her. Just enjoy being with her and have an awesome time with her!! Hope I helped you
Love meggs
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Ok so I finally did it with my boyfriend. We have been going out for about 6 months now. It was my first time and he said it was his first time also. Now that we have had sex that is all he wants to do. And I'm not down with it. I've told him before but he doesn't listen and keeps trying. What should I do to get it in his head? (link)
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Well hun, tell him you are not wanting to do it that much. Tell him you want to make that a romantic thing and not all the time. Explain to him you love him and enjoy his company you just want to wait a while before you do it again. Hope I helped you!!
Love Meggs
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hey!! ok, i really need help. I like this guy. ALOT. and my friends said that he probably likes me because he stares at me sometimes and gives weird signs that he likes me. The Problem: I have never talked to him. He is VERY shy so he won't talk to me, but i'm shy also. I want to talk to him but i dont want to be ackward and i want to maybe even become friends with him. I just want to get to know him, and become closer to him but i dont want him to think im weird. please help me, what can i do?
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Well if you just want to get to know him I would ask him if he would maybe like to talk sometime. If he would then just sit by each other and ask some questions you are wondering. Even though you both are shy you could ask him like do you have any siblings? pets? things like that. Get to know him and let me know how it goes. Hope that helps ya hun!!!
Love Meggs
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I am 15/f
How do you show someone how madly in love you are with them? No matter what I do..he still doesn't believe me. He says he loves me, and I do believe it..but how do I get him to believe me?? Help me please! I will rate!! (link)
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Just do whatever your heart tells you to do. If I love you doesn't mean you love him and you have to prove it to him, make him dinner take just talk. Just make him feel like he is wanted. Hope i helped you
Love Meggs
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Well I like this guy Adam, me him and a bunch of other people went to see When a stranger calls and threw the whole movie we were flirting and you know the rest. Well Carly, the person who organzied the little get together. Well her mom came and she has a van it was really cramped up front so, a couple people (Me, Adam, 4 other friends) moved to the back and we laid down because Carly`s mom had a old van and it was able to turn the back into a bed so we did that. I was tired so I used Adam as a pillow and then I got up to fix my shoe (I had sandles on) and then I laid back down and he put his arm around my waist. & from about 11pm-2am we sat there kissing, holding hands so forth. Then I was confused because I didnt know he liked me like that so I called him and he said we should keep that to ourselves so I was like okay. Then he asked out Danielle ( a good friend of mine, she didnt go to the movies ) and I was lost because he just held my hand and kissed me then asked out my best friend. She hasnt said yes or no yet, but I really want him. I dont know how to get him to be mine and not hers. Please help ! (link)
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Well I think you shoud tell himm how you feel. If you don't tell him how you feel he will never know. After that if he still wants to go with her then let him. When they brak ujp give him a couple of days or wekks maybe and then ask him or flirt with him. Hope that helps ya
Love Meggs
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i want to impress my bf of 4 1/2 yrs. for v-day. and i want to do something fun a special. i want to go to dinner and wear a sassy dress and everything. but after that what should we do, that will make him feel loved. (link)
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Take him back home to a candle lit room and just sit on pillows and talk while sitting next to each other.
Have a good time with him by just sitting there and talkingt to him. Hope that helps you
Love Meggs
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This might be a dumb question, but whenever my boyfriend gets mad about something, or when he is in a bad mood, he always takes it out on me, and he's just in a bad mood so it makes me in a bad mood, and i was just wondering what I should do about it, like is there something that i can do about it to not get so upset about it, or like tell him or anything? I just don't know what to do. The help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks. ♥ (link)
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Well if it is not violent then just listen to him and then later on when he cools down go and talk to him about it and very nicely explain why he shouldn't take it out on you or anyone else for that matter
Hope that helps
Love Meggs
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me and this guy friend of mine kinda had this fling going on recently, where we werent quite going out but we both liked eachother and knew it and acted like we went out it just wasnt offical. He lives like 30 minutes away, so thats why we werent official, we hadnt gotten a chance to go on a date yet. Anyways, last night i told him that i didnt want my firt real boyfriend to be someone i barely see. And i do like him and he told me he loved me, but when i told him he said he was thinking the same thing and thought it wasnt the right timing. So i guess what im asking is how can two people love eachother and just leave the relationship? And well he said everything will be fine and that we could always go out when the timing was better, but i cant help feeling really depressed and guilty and i dont know like im making a mistake. how am i sopposed act with him now? please help i rate high and im really confused! (link)
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Well with the whole acting around him thing, act the same. He likes you because of who you are, not who you think you should be. If you act all different around him he might think u want him to ask you out or somehting like that so just be really good friends with him. Act just the way you do now and he shouldn't think anything different. Hope that helps
Love Meggs
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me and my best friend...well shes a girl...when we first became friends i liked her..and she liked me...we talked for a long time...but we she wouldnt date me i didnt kno why...i mean we had the best chemistry and everything it was almost perfect...well wen i did get enough courage to ask her out..she said no..and i was like wut...well she told my other friend...a guy..that it was bcuz i was black..well shes mexican..and that she doesnt think she could do that...she really cares wut other people think about her...well now we blew that off we neva dated...we juss stayed really good friends..but behind the curtain...we were preety much two love birds...now i still hav feelins for her and she has a boyfriend...i get the most jealous feelings...its crazi...theyyve been datin for 2 months now..and she told me today..and like i tryed to start a new subject..and she gets mad and tells me that i dont care..well my question is..i kno this is serious long...well ive told her that i dont like her no more..and she believes me..well the question is...wut should i do..tell her i still hav feelings for her..and tell her i dont care wut otha people think..i love you and you should b mine...or jus ignore my feelings and like another girl?? (link)
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Well in my opinion you wilol never stop loving the persom you are closest to. I think you should tell her how you feel and then still like her and everything but try to find anything gurl who makes you just as happy as she does. If you can't well then you will know that you two are ment to be she just hasn't seen it yet. Hope that helps
Love Meggs
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ok well theres this guy that im sorta goin out with...his names daniel. He asked me out in november, but then he got grounded and I havent talked to him in like 3 months. So i considered us broken up. I started liking this other guy, steffon, and yesterday my friend told him that she knew who liked him (i asked her to) but she didnt say my name...I went online after school and i got an email from my friend, saying that daniel wanted to take me to my schools valentines day dance. I feel awful now, becuase I dont know what to do. Either way, someones gonna end up getting hurt, but Im not sure who I should go with. I like daniel a lot, but im afraid that if we officaly start dating again hes gonna do the same thing. Please help me! ♥Danielle
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Well I thik you should go with who ever you want to go with. If someone is going to get hurt who would you rather get hurt him or you? If you go with him and have an aweful time well then what was the fun in that? nothing I think you just neeed to figure out who you like more
Hope i helped you
Love Meggs
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ok so me and my boyfriend went out for 9 months.. then the last 2 months all we did was fight and like we spent more time fighting than we did being happy. so we broke up, it was a mutual thing. okay well it was a week after and his exgirlfriend said that she wanted to go out with him. he asked me if it would be okay if he was with other people. he didnt specify that it would be his exgirlfriend. but i said yes just give it a week or so and it will be fine. instead, he asked her out(and by the way she's pretty much a slut), and he did it that same night like 15 minutes later. then i got mad and he got mad at me for getting mad because he said i never said give it a week but i did. i know i did. it's like i dont wanna be with him but i dont want him to be with her but i know i should just let it go. what do i do? (link)
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I think you should find somone to be with just like him. If he can get over you that fast maybe you should show him you are ok with him dating other people even though you arn't maybe he isn't ok with you dating other guys so i think you should try that
Hope i helped you
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Ok i'm 14/f and i have this bf who is 15 and we have been together for like ever. like 1 year and months but i know i need to break if off because he is the main source of my sadness and why i am always getting introuble. i can't though, its way to hard for. I really wish he would to me, so that i didn't have to do it, but that would probaly make me more upset and my mind would be so mad at myself. but i KNOW i have to, any idea's of how to make up my mind or know for sure if were meant to be truly? i love him so much and he understands me and can always make me laugh ectc. but when he's unahppy, i can never seem to make him happy, so he makes me unahppy.this is like alll the time. i hate it, but i can't ditch him for making me unhappy and depressed, can i? please help me out with sorting this out and everything, write me and i will write back with more information on the situation if you need more info. i just need some other opinons on this, because all my friends say to end it and no advice on the matter. thank lots
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Well this is the exact same thing that happened with me and my boyfriend. I didn't want to break up with him beause i knoew it would hurt him as much as it hurts me but he ended up breaking up with me. He now says he wants to get back with me but doesn't show it at all. I think you should not break up with him because he sounds like he really needs you to just be there for him. H eneeds someone who he can depend on as more then just a friend he needs you. If things are just not going well like at all then break up with him if you think it is the rigth thing to do but if you don't know it is probablly because you want to stay. If this makes any since and you need more help please feel free to write me back and ask anything else i am always here
Hope i helped you
Love meggs
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17/f
My boyfriend's favorite animal is a cow, and we have inside jokes about it. I was thinking of getting him a stuffed cow and chocolates for Valentines Day. But I was wondering, do guys like getting stuffed animals from girls? I mean he's kind of like a "man's man." And I've been dating him for 5 months, so do you think chocolates and a stuffed cow would be enough? Or should I get him more? Or maybe make him dinner along with the stuffed cow and chocolates? Or would that be too much? Help! (link)
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If he really likes you and you like him anything you get he iill like because it comes from you. If it comes from you and from inside your heart and you mean what you give to him he should love whatever you get him no matter what
Hope that helps
Love meggs
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im 13/f. My boyfriend beats on me. I have marks and scars on my arms and legs from him. Im a cheerleader so they always show. I really like him but i hate him when he does this to me. What should i do?
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If I were you I would dump him imediatly. You do ont need someone who hurts you. The right man will come who you do love because of how much he loves you fro who you are and doesn't beat you. You don't need him if he is going to hurt you like that.
Hope that helps you
Love Meggs
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I'm a 21 year old Female and I have a very big issue with my weight. This issue is affecting my happiness and love life. My question is how can I NOT let this affect me? (link)
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Well one thing you can do is exercise. that makes everyone feel better because it will get you in shape and it will also help lose so weight. Another thing is to eat right. eat some saleds,fruit,vege, stuff like that. By doing all of thaty you should see a dramastic change and feel even better about yourself because you did it.!!!!
Hope that helps:')
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ok...so theres this boy...lets call him Jimmy. and i've known him since kindergarden and i never really talked to him...like ever. and now we talk on aim a lot and hes 2 homerooms away from mine..and hes so hott. and i like him a lot. we have a dance on friday and i wanna ask him out before then but im afraid of rejection. what should i do? help...will rate 5's thanks
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Well I have been there before. You just have to ask them or if u are to scared to ask them to the dance when you get there just maybe ask him for an ocational dance.
Hope that helps
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