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My names Carlee. im 15 im about 5"2 (yeah im short you dont have to tell me) i just recently moved to virginia. Im a pretty outgoing person i get along with everybody and if you dont get along with me then theres ovbiously something wrong with you lol. I've been through a lot in the past few years. you name it and i've probably been through it.

advice

Does anyone have any tips on how to be more romantic and cute around my boyfriend. He'll like hold my hand, or wrap his arms around me, but I never know what to say or do! I always think of something cute and clever to say afterwards!

when your boyfriend grabs your hand look at him, kiss him and just smile, to let him know that you like being with him. and as for when he wrapps his arms around you just hold on really tight. just let him know you appreciate the affectionate things he does.
hope i helped =)

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Ive gotten to like this girl. Shes beautiful and has a nice personality. I want to say something nice to her and let her know how I feel about her. Im not keen on love letters, asking through friends and things like that, and I can't seem to find the right time because shes always with her friends everytime I want to talk to her. Ive heard that compliments work a treat. I need a list of compliments that are from a girls point of veiw that girls like said to them. Could you give me some girls advice or steps on asking her out or using special body language. 5's deffinately will be given out for really great advice/steps. Girls only.

try calling her one day and inviting her over your house. just the two of you, that way you can actually talk to her without her friends there. as in for body language look into her eyes but not accessively and just smile a lot. it all depends on the girl. some dont like very touchy feely guys towards the beginning of talking to a guy.

hope i helped =]

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my older brother who is a senior has a good friend. i am a freshman, and recently me and my brothers friend have gotten very close. we began to like eachothe, and soon wanted to take things further. i told my brother who was ok with it, and my parents. he told a few close friends. we think a good way to break it to others is to go to this school semi formal together. (freshman-senior..is that strange to you?) anyway, we're planning to go. but he is very afraid of reactions, people thinking he is a creep, etc. anyway, do you have any advice? if so, please let me know. i could use as much as possible. thank you very much.

at our high school you see freshman-seniors all the time. its nothing abnormal i dont see why anything would think it was weird.

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What do you do when a boy that you dated and is now with somebody else still acts interested, he cheats on his girlfriend with you several times and tells you that he wants to stay with her to see if it works? should i tell his girlfriend, leave it alone? I don't know what to do i have all the proof that something did happen and more than once, he also tells this girl that he loves her and tells me that he also loves me but as a friend right now what do i do?

i would def. tell his girlfriend bc he ovbiously doesnt love her like hes telling her if hes cheating on her with you. Second of all you need to stop messing around with him until he figures out what the heck he wants. I would bust him before he ends up hurting one of you even worse.


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can anyone think of any reason why a bf wouldnt be happy for his gf if she found a job that she really liked?
I'll right anyone who answers with a 5. Thanks!

Its possible that hes scared that your gonna meet a new guy at your work or that you will be too busy for him. reasure him that your with him for a reason and for him not to worry.

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Ok well here it is there is this girl that i like and i have told her i like her and asked her if she saw me as frinds or more and she said frinds for now and i jus wanna kno if there is anything i could do to make her not like me as much as a frind but more than that and i really like her
I will rate high thnx peace

Just give her some space but not too much bc that wont make her like you. And just let her know that your there when she needs you but dont let her think she can have you whenever she wants.

i hope i helped =]

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What do people mean when they say "opposites attract"? Is this statement true?

it means that like this person is like the total opposite of you. or it could just be some things that yall are different on. i think it is bc if you think about it. all the good girls want the bad guys ya know?

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okay well i like this guy and i have liked him since last year.. well He came up to me ,because i made hima picture last year and he came up to me today and he was like " I still have that picture you gave me and then he showed me and then we just talked about stuff... do you think he likes me and if i asked him out if he would say yes???? please answer this question nicley and i will give you a 5 Because i need the help!!! with this

love Brittany

not to get your hopes up but that doesnt necessarily mean he likes you. before asking him out why dont you ask around and see if he likes you back just to be on the safe side.
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I'm wondering, I'm only 14 at the moment, but girls my age seem to go for the bad guys and the biggest jerks. Why is that? I am a gentleman and I am as nice as can be and they always tell me that but why do they go for the jerks?

Some girls go for the chase rather than what they really should be going after. I also should take my own advice lol but the bad guys will end up hurting them and the good guy will be there waiting. Good guys dont finish last.
Hope i helped

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Sometimes I like a guy for a while, then I REALLY like him, then I don't think I like him at all and I see him again and I like him...agian. This all happens in one day. Is this normal?

It is perfectly normal lol in fact in going through it right now. I know in my situation its kinda like your talking yourself out of liking him bc your afraid you'll get hurt. At least thats what im doing sometimes. Just kinda go with the flow and if you find yourself REALLY liking him. tell him =]

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This kid I know from school has become really good friends with me. He's average looking...but we have enough in common. He just admitted he likes me, and I admitted I kind of felt the same way. We dont wanna go out because we know it would ruin our friendship. Im just confused...i agree about not going out...but where to from here?

maybe its better for the two of you to be friends or maybe even try the whole "friends with benefits" deal but either way even if you guys do end up dating just make it clear that your not out to hurt him or vice versa and flirt with him. Maybe in a later time you guys will have a change of heart and end up dating.

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lately i've be really sad because i feel like i'm not pretty and the boy i've liked for so long likes my friend and he hugs her and everything and i feel like no one likes me and i know i won't get a date to homecoming



i need some advice

signed depressed

im kind of going through the same thing right now. but recently ive realized that i dont need a guy to be happy. i go out with my friends every weekend and have fun no attachments. Think of the bad things of having a boyfriend such as you cant flirt with every guy you want without getting in trouble and such and when you least expect it a guy will come along.

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Hello...
i recently just broke up with my boyfriend.
now, i am a tom-girl. i hang out with ALL boys. and 2 of my best friends have a crush on me. my boyfriend was not okay with this... at all. he told me he broke up with me because he can't handle me hanging out with 2 boys (that like me) all the time. he just doesn't trust me. and he's already moving on. how can i make him see that i love him, and i only want to be with him? words aren't enough... and i just want him back.

Sounds like your ex got tired of competing with the other guys. im not saying give up hanging out with boys bc i do that too but try inviting him to hang out with you guys and maybe that will make him realize that there is no attraction between you and the other guys.

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well
i have a crush on this guy (Lets callhim bob) and we both happen to be going to the freshers party next week.
he said to his mates he wanted to get with me and they told me.
BUT
my best friend just told she fancies bob but she dosent know i fancy him too.
and she is also coming to this freshers party only because she knows im going and so is bob
i REALLY dont know what to do.
should i tell her i like him or shall i wait to the party and see what happens?
xoxox
i rate 5's

I would tell your friend before the party bc that way if she finds your flirting with him she will know that you cant really help it.

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I need your opinion:
I have been love for four years.
I am 17 now.
Some people say I'm too young and others say that seventeen is ld enough to know what you want.
I've always been mature for my age and when I told everyone I was in love at fourteen, needless to say, they didn't believe it. But it has been years and I am still in love.
Do you think I'm "old enough" to be in love? If I am, then wasn't I old enough when I was fourteen because back then, I was sure I would be in love forever and I still am.

In my opinion if youve been with the same guy for 4 years now it has to be some kind of love lol i dont know if i could do it at this age but i think you can fall in love at any age. not like these girls now a days and say i love to her boyfriend after a week. Good Luck =]

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ok so there's this boy we had gone out a few times before but we broke up because he cheated on me, he told me he really liked me and wanted to go out with me again and promised he'd never do anything like that again and i definitly beleive him, i know for a fact that he's changed so we went out again but then we broke up because of the distance he lives in a town close to mine but we only see eachother on friday nights and weekends. so we started talking again and we both really liked eachother but a week went by and we hadnt talked i still had feelings for him and i beleived he still had feelings for me i went to a football game and he was hitting on one of my friends when i thought he really liked me, she's absolutly beautiful but i really want him to get to notice me again, i got mad at him and we were in kind of a fight but i couldnt stay mad at him and i kissed him at the end of the night and i think he may have started to like me again. how can i get him to really like me? i know a lot of people say he's not worth it but i don't care i really do like him .. what do you think? yeh so i recently called this boy, due to some advice i received, and i told him exactly how i felt, the advice was right i felt such a releif -so i had my friend ask him out for me because my stomach was tied up in knots and he said no because of the distance .. he then asked to talk to me and actually acted very sensative he asked me how i felt, and was shcoked to find out how much i liked him, he told me he'd call me back but never did - i'm so in love with him but what am i supposed to do? i want him, please dont tell me im too good for him, cause i dont beleive that i am..

I understand your tired of the whole "your too good for him" crap! personally i am too but what i would do is since you feel that you love him talk to him again and tell him that you need to know how he completely feels about you and then you and him together because it sucks to sit and wait around for a guy who will never give you a chance again. As for the old flirt with your friend thing just act like it didnt bother you bc theres a pretty good chance that he was doing it to make you jealous. and as for the whole different town it shouldnt matter if you see each other on the weekends i dont see what the big deal is . all you can do is talk to him.
(sorry so long )

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when i really really like someone im soo excited when they ask me out that my stomach hurts. but then after about an hour i dont want to go out with them anymore because i think of everything wrong with them. wuts wrong with me? its really annoying. like im SO picky..

yes. girls are like that, One day i can be flirting with a guy and im like hey i kinda like him and then the next day im like ew what was i thinking. its just typical teenage hormones.

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i feel like i have come upon a dead end in my life. a boy that i like doesn't seem to feel the same for me and i don't think that i could work up the courage to tell him that i like him...what should i do aobut it?

your life hasnt come to a dead end just because a boy you like doesnt seem to feel the same. There will be plenty of other boys trust me. But if you think this boy is something really worth trying for just drop little hints and see if he flirts back most guys are scared to make the first move.

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Okay, Im kinda big if you kno what i mean but im not like huge and i cant get a boyfriend..but all my friends say im really pretty and everything but i dont think i am..is there anyway i can change how guys look at me ?? I wanna do it for me and not for them. I rate 5s
14/F ( if that helps )

I think every girl has gone through this before. Just try flirting a little more or dressing a little nicer when your around the guys. Try not to worry so much. You always find a boyfriend when you least expect it.

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Ok well I have a boyfriend but the thing is thatI like this one other dude too...Im not realli sure if this other dude likes me tho my friends say he does the case is dat this dude wants me to go sumplace with him and his friends and sum of my friends...I want to go b/c i just want to see if i actually have a a chance with him but im afraid i might end up cheatin on my boyfriend but i also dont want to break up with my boyfrind till im actually sure dat the other dude likes me...and wut i want
So pls help me im so confused right now
WHAT SHOULD I DO????

I dont blame you for not breaking up with your boyfriend until your for sure that the other guy likes you back or that yall have a chance with each other. Hey i've done it . i think you should go to this place with him and friends and just get to know him and see if you guys have some chemistry just try and not cheat on your boyfriend and if you do . tell him

hope i helped

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