Question Posted Wednesday October 5 2005, 10:18 am
Okay, Im kinda big if you kno what i mean but im not like huge and i cant get a boyfriend..but all my friends say im really pretty and everything but i dont think i am..is there anyway i can change how guys look at me ?? I wanna do it for me and not for them. I rate 5s
14/F ( if that helps )
bNicolex3 answered Wednesday October 5 2005, 5:36 pm: I think every girl has gone through this before. Just try flirting a little more or dressing a little nicer when your around the guys. Try not to worry so much. You always find a boyfriend when you least expect it. [ bNicolex3's advice column | Ask bNicolex3 A Question ]
Eva answered Wednesday October 5 2005, 3:12 pm: You can't always change how others look at you but you can change how you look at yourself. I am glad to hear that you want to do it for yourself cuz any other reason would be wrong. Any changes that you make to your body should only be for health reasons so make sure that you consult a doctor on anything major. As far as how others see you, look in the mirror, learn to like yourself, let everyone get to know that confident, beautiful person inside you and they wont be able to help but like you. Just be true to yourself.
dibrwi7 answered Wednesday October 5 2005, 1:16 pm: Well, if you truely are unhappy with the way you look like then you are probably not happy with yourself. What I suggest is embrace what God has given you or do something to change it. Like work out, take a walk, get a healthier diet. There is plenty (well maybe less) of guys that love bigger girls. I hope I helped you out. [ dibrwi7's advice column | Ask dibrwi7 A Question ]
mylinhthan answered Wednesday October 5 2005, 12:23 pm: anonymous -
Not all guys like skinny girls, let's put it that way. Guys tend to like girls that look healthy, which includes having a little more meat on them.
Half the time it isn't your looks that they choose not to like, it may be your personality, which you really cannot change.
My advice to you is just live life the way you're living it. If a guy doesn't like you, tough luck. Let one who does like you, find you himself. It's fun dating compared to a committed relationship anyways! [ mylinhthan's advice column | Ask mylinhthan A Question ]
qwerasdfzxcv answered Wednesday October 5 2005, 10:43 am: well i know guy like pretty girls but it a guy WON'T date you because you are not pretty enough or skinny enough you dotn want a guy like that. you should date someonje who likes you for who you are on the inside , not the outside [ qwerasdfzxcv's advice column | Ask qwerasdfzxcv A Question ]
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