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best friends...or boyfriend
This kid I know from school has become really good friends with me. He's average looking...but we have enough in common. He just admitted he likes me, and I admitted I kind of felt the same way. We dont wanna go out because we know it would ruin our friendship. Im just confused...i agree about not going out...but where to from here?
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Well, shouldn't the person you go out with technically be your best friend? I mean, your boyfriend or girlfriend should be someone who you find it the easiest to get along with and share your thoughts and experiences at the most personal level. So really, you should in essence become closer friends by dating.
Now, it's not my fault when you break up a few months later over something incredibly petty and insignificant and you end up losing your best friend over it. That's just one or both of you being a bastard (or bastards). Dating has nothing to do with it. That's why you should date him. Most of the people here that say from personal experience that dating your best friend is a bad idea, most likely could be accused of the aforementioned bastardness.
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Get to know each other and it might grow into a relationship. Sometimes with friends, relationships comlicate things, sometimes it doesn't. Just decide do you want to stay friends or take it 1 step higher? Good luck! Hope I helped!
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well...if you dont want to go out with him then just become better friends with him. you'll see how it goes from there.
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If you like someone and really have feeling for them, go for it. If you are good enough friends and you break up, it will not affect your friendship if they are a true friend.
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if you said you wanna be just friends, your just friends.
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Still be friends and don't pretend it never happened but don't act okward because of it talk like you used to and act normal an don't talk about it unless you feel that you and your friend are ready
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Holla Chickie
The same type of thing happens in my school all the time. I think you should hang out with him like not really dates but liek go places and hang out with a bunch of people and then if you start to like him even more and he starts to liek you to you could go out or you guys could jsut be together but not be boyfriend girlfriend.
Hope i could help, if you wanna talk more im me on catieeroseee
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CATierroseee
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same thing happened to me last year. except i admitted to him i liked him. im warning you not to get into it because you could lose a really good friend. its happened to me 2ce. it really sucks and you could end up hurt. chances are youll become friends again eventually tho. it took 2 years to talk to one of them again and it took like from february to like now till the one boy started talking to me again. depends on how bad you want it. hope i helped
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stay friends guys are kinda slow in relatoinships sometimes just go with the flow
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maybe its better for the two of you to be friends or maybe even try the whole "friends with benefits" deal but either way even if you guys do end up dating just make it clear that your not out to hurt him or vice versa and flirt with him. Maybe in a later time you guys will have a change of heart and end up dating.
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