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I am sure that this auestion has been asked before but I'd like some answers pertaining to my exact situation. I ussually hate online advice forums, but thougth I'd give it a try before I critisize it. Ok, so enough, here's my problem.
My best friend is a girl. She (and I) are 15 years old. I've known her for about two years now. We have been through so much together and help eachother out in so many ways that I see our friendship permanent unless I personally screw it up. When we first met, I immediatly liked her and wanted to date her. When I found out she felt the same way, I planned on asking her out. But some stupid girl found out that she liked me and proclaimed it to the school and also wrote a letter from me (which I didn't write) to her asking her out. Then this menace of a girl embarrased her in front of the entire cafeteria by starting a chant of "ask her out (then my name)". After that, we just became friends and never really brought it up again. It's been two years since then and we have both had at least one boyfriend or girlfriend. I am starting to really like her and it haints me that we never even gave it a shot. But I am not sure if she likes me more than a best friend or if she would agree to go out with me. She is the only person I trust and I can't give her up as a friend, which is why I haven't risked our friendship by asking her out. So, where do I go? What do I do? What do I tell her? What will she say? If she refuses to go out with me, will our friendship be awkward and ruined? (link)
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if you both like each other than go for it if your friendship is that strong if she says no you cn still be friends
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This kid in my grade just asked me out two hours ago and I don't know what to do. He's really ugly, annoying (at least to everyone else except me), steals things, and teachers really don't trust him. He has really bad grades and is proud of it! And not trying to sound mean, but he also completely bores me to death. I dread talking to him, he's so boring. I really, sincerely don't want to be his girlfriend, but on the other hand, I feel sorry for him because he's so unpopular and friendless. And I have a huge crush on this other amazing guy. I told him that I'd answer him on Monday so I'd have time to think it over. I'm so confused on what I should say. I don't want to go out with him, but I don't want to hurt his feelings. And I don't want to "just be friends" either. Should I reject him, and if I should, what do I say?
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let him down easy not " i need more me time before we can have we time" but don't drop hints. some people don't get those. let it be known and out without being mean say"look i don't want a boyfriend right now"
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This kid I know from school has become really good friends with me. He's average looking...but we have enough in common. He just admitted he likes me, and I admitted I kind of felt the same way. We dont wanna go out because we know it would ruin our friendship. Im just confused...i agree about not going out...but where to from here? (link)
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Still be friends and don't pretend it never happened but don't act okward because of it talk like you used to and act normal an don't talk about it unless you feel that you and your friend are ready
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