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This kid in my grade just asked me out two hours ago and I don't know what to do. He's really ugly, annoying (at least to everyone else except me), steals things, and teachers really don't trust him. He has really bad grades and is proud of it! And not trying to sound mean, but he also completely bores me to death. I dread talking to him, he's so boring. I really, sincerely don't want to be his girlfriend, but on the other hand, I feel sorry for him because he's so unpopular and friendless. And I have a huge crush on this other amazing guy. I told him that I'd answer him on Monday so I'd have time to think it over. I'm so confused on what I should say. I don't want to go out with him, but I don't want to hurt his feelings. And I don't want to "just be friends" either. Should I reject him, and if I should, what do I say?
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Well it's quite apparent that you don't feel the same about him, and that's perfectly fine; it's certainly not a crime. If you don't like this guy, say no. I don't think this is something that you should be stressing over. I mean, honestly, it really won't matter WHAT you say, because if this guy TRULY likes you.. he will be hurt no matter WHAT your reasoning. Sooo, why not be completely honest, and tell him that you're interested in someone else? I think that would be a good route to take, because he might not feel rejection QUITE as hard, don'tcha think??
Another option: just tell him that you're flattered and you appreciate his offer, but you simply do not think of him in the same light. Then remind him that you are telling him no because a one sided relationship is unfair and pointless. Think of it this way: what's the point in giving your heart away to someone who isn't willing to give you theirs?? If you tell him this, I'm shore he will understand. It's a perfectly appropriate and gentle reply. :]
♥ Mackenzie ♥
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let him down easy not " i need more me time before we can have we time" but don't drop hints. some people don't get those. let it be known and out without being mean say"look i don't want a boyfriend right now"
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well if you dont like him, dont go out with him.
and if it breaks his heart, tell him you like someone else right?
peace out girl scout
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Holla Chickie
Umm well you really shouldnt care about what other people think but if you dont really have any interest in him then dont go out with him.cuz if you do go out with him, then youll be playing with him and itll get all confusing and hell think your really attracted to him, you should just go out with someone bucz you feel bad for them. If you really like him, then g for it, but dont play with his head. Just be staright foward with him. Or you can hang out with him a little aand see if you start having interest in him. hope i could help
xoxo Catieeroseee
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just tell him about the amazing guy you like and say you wouldnt feel right going out with him while you like someone or else you would ( we gotta lie sometimes ) hope i helped
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