hi my name is Gabe I am puerto rican and very proud of it and i like to help people with there problems and i have also been knowen to give good adivce so u best listen up! lol but anyways i will talk to most anyone so if u got a problem and want someone to talk to im me on aim "Marrero12"
and yes i really and 15
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BlueEyedBlondie725
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Well my x-boyfriend and i were going out for like 4 months and we really liked each other we broke up like two times but only for like 7 hours then like out of no where he broke up with me i was so sad so we started dating other people and he is goin out with this girl but he texts me and tells me he misses me and still loves me and how he wants to get back with me and he said he would brake up with her for me but i asked him when were gunna get back together and he said i dont no then he asked me and i was like now and he said that this was not the best time. What should i do to get back with him really soon kuz i like him alot.
P.S. he lives 30min away from me (link)
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naw don't even waste ur time seems like he kinda misses you but there is something keeping him with that other girl so if u got back with him there would be somthin bringing him back to the other girl so he would play both of u
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i plan on calling this guy i like tomorow that i havent talked to in awhile... i kno he use to like me n stuff n i think he still does but im not sure if i ever showed him enough that i like him so basically im looking for sum hints n stuff to let on that i do like him n stuff like that (link)
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thats simple just tell him hey i really do like u and when ever u get a chance just get close to him like don't be like all over him when his friends are around but i mean don't be affraid to cuddle up to him sometimes
good luck
Gabe
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i jus broke up wit this girl that lives in my home town that is rlly clos but things didnt go good and i jus waznt feelin her after i broke up wit her she still luvs me but i like sum1 else and this person lives 1 hour and 30 minutes away but she is rlly coo and idc what ppl think of her there sayin shit and they dont even know her but neways idk what to do cuz i lost a best friend cuz of it and i miss her alrdy and she wont talk cuz she said what i did waz wrong......??? (link)
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well i had the same problem exzactly and i did the same thing u did i just said screw it they will get used to what i did and they never did so i would suggest doing what ever it takes to get that best friend back no matter what it means (as long it don't mean her walking all over u)
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omg! im so lost and confused right nowi met this guy ryan a couple days ago and i was asked is i liked him and he was asked if he liked me and he said yea and im cool..so i gave him my number he told me that he was gonna call me he never did so i called him and well i told him what my friend rachel had said and hes like yea ur cool..i wanna get to know u a lil better and see if ur cooler than cool im o ok then afterwards i havent talked to him..so i dunno he has yet to call
please help
Tracy (link)
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well a guys opion on this one would be that he is one of those guys that has phone-a-phobia that would explain why he don't call u and he is one of those guys that thinks he can get any girl or he really can but that would explain it all it prolly wasn't a good idea for u to call him but now that u did don't call him agian if he don't call u then forget him i am sure u ain't got any problems with gettin guys
good luck
Gabe
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SORRY THIS IS LONG BUT I REALLY NEED HELP Me and my boyfriend broke up on the first on August at night of course I cried I liked him but I was over him the next day I wasnt like in love with him Its just that I have a lot of time on my hand and have nothing to do I have to watch my little brother from the morning till 4 b/c my parents are at work then the rest of the day I dont do anything I just stay home for some reason and when I hang out with my bff she always acts like shes soo wonderful and perfect gets annyoing you know Im just wondering how can I like not think of him and just get over him and not feel bad that I dont have a bf and keep myself busy throghout the whole day? I mean this is really bugging me I dont wanna feel like I have a bad life I dont I just need some things to do to like keep me busy and not feel bad that I dont have a bf so please please please someone help me I mean really really help me thank you soo much and if you want me to rate then Ill rate if that will get me some answers thank you neone...sorry it was long but I really want to feel better and some ideas better then watch tv or get online please help me. ThankS (link)
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i would suggest doing what i did i was in the same slump i hadn't had a g/f in a year and i really didn't like it but the only thing i could do was just go and meet some new ppls to hang out with it will make u feel so much better cause then u will have someone to hang with and if it's a guy u know he will be jealious cause i am sure u are a really nice girl
good luck
Gabe
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how can u tell if ur a good kisser or do sumin bout it if u r kuz i dont want my bf sayin stuff now or after we brake^((i kno this sounds really gay but...)) (link)
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well no matter what u do about anything i am sure he will be talkin shit when u guys break up cause most of the time when people break up there is always some mudd slinging but i think the only way to find out is kiss someone and ask them but don't do it to someone who would be obligated to say yes
good luck
Gabe
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okay so there is this guy (grant) who is 16 (and im 15)that i have been talking to for about 3 n a half months and before school got out he told my best friend that he wanted to wait until summer to get with me that way he has more time to spend on me since hes busy w. school and now..its like he doesnt have enough time for me. i like him sOo much and he knows it but it seems like hes even more busy now that school is over. i dont know if i should wait for him or find somebody else but everytime i look at another guy i compare him to grant and there is just no 2nd place. some of my friends tell me that i should give up and my other friends tell me that i should wait but grant is everything that i ever wanted in a guy..HELP! (link)
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i would say quit worring about it cause i think he wanted u to wait for him so he could get some from someone else or else why would he make u wait if he has less time now then he did originaly so i would suggest just moving on the later on down the road if he comes back to u i would give him another chance
good luck
Gabe
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ok theres this guy i've liked for a while and he knows that. well he always wants to hang out and be friends with benifits. well i told him that i actually want to have a relationship with him. he told me he doesnt want to rush into getting a gf bcuz he just broke up with his old one. but they broke up like 5 months ago. so he said lets hang out more. is this guy just using me? is he scared to have a relationship with me? i'm clueless.....please help me (link)
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they broke up so he don't wanna get back into that shit agian so he is going to use u to get some (the good part of his relatioship with his x)
good luck
Gabe
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i live in a small town and there was a rumor that i was a lez but it blew ova a while ago but i still cant get a boyfriend in my town but i go to allot of otha towns and i can get any guy i want in but i like guys in my town more that probably y i can stay in a true relationship....how do i get the guys in my town to like me? (link)
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well i know how u feel most of the girls that live in my town wont go out with me or wouldn't dream of it but i can talk to do what ever with any girl in the next town but i just gave up on people over here so i think thats what ur going to have to do or some how u gotta get with someone and they gotta tell everyone u are really good and for sure no lez
good luck
Gabe
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ok im into this guy and hes into me but we're not dating, and i havent talked to him in awhile and i talked to my ex recently who said he misses me and wants to get together, is it ok if somethin happens between us?
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i would say it's not cause like he will prolly get the impression that u aren't into him that much if u are off gettin with some other dude so i would suggest if u wanna get with someone get with the new guy not ur ex
good luck
Gabe
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i have recently been going out wit this guy i am totally in love with. he has cheated on me b4 but that was after i broke up with him. The first time we started going out everything was perfect and he told me he loved me and you could really tell he meant it. But we got in a huge arguement and he called me a bitch so i dumped him. He begged and begged me 2 take him bak but i wouldnt. Latley weve been goin out on and off and he cheats on me sumtimes. Is he doing this just to get bak at me or is he just not into me? (link)
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well for one how can he cheat on u if u ain't goin out??? and plus are u guys going out in like a friendly setting or is it like when u two were going out?? and if it was like u two were going out then either he is trying to get back at u or he thinks u don't know about it and if it is a friendly setting when u two are going out then it seems he is starting to think of u as more of a friend and he likes talkin to u he just isn't smart enough to know that u still like him or atleast i think u do by what u were saying
good luck
Gabe
PS: u guys wern't going out so if he is trying that hard i think u should take him back
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ok, what is the best way to reject a guy without giving the "lets not ruin our friendship" speech and not making them hate you? THANKS :)
annie
xoxoxo
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well i need to know circumstances of like who the guy is and stuffto really do that but just strait up tell them that u don't like them and i just for ur information please please please! don't give that stupid ass speach about i don't want to ruin are friendship
good luck
Gabe
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my girlfriend is amazing. i am truely honestly blessed to be with her, she is so perfect. the problem is sometimes we get in arguements over really stupid stupid shit, and when we do i feel so extremely guilty and torn up because she is so nice and sweet, she never deserves to be hurt. i know all relationships have things that need to be overcome, but i just cant take it when i hurt this girl. she is so sweet and great to be with, and she would never hurt anyone. how do i make myself feel less guilty about it? (link)
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well u can't help feeling guilty but ur prolly right if she is that great then u prolly shouldn't hurt her but it sounds to me like u guys are those type of poeple that start fights with eachother just for the make up cause i am sure u guys are alot closer and really like each other after u make up and if thats the case then u will jsut have to live with it or learn to keep ur mouth shut when she is startin shit or when ur about to
good luck
Gabe
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i need to no how u find a boyfriend...help me asap.
thxx (link)
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don't sit at home go out and do stuff
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Okay.. well Ive been with my boyfriend for 16 months (on wednesday) Anyways.. he got drunk last night and cheated on me with his ex.. and he said that he didnt even mean to, he was just drunk.. and that he loved me he just wanted to take a break.. and he came back online, and we were talking.. and it was like.. we were still together.. i mean he still called me "babygirl" and said I love you when he had to leave.. what should i do? :/ Thanks!~ (link)
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i think u should let him off easly cause he obviosly still likes u alot because he told u and didn't try to hide it from u but i have been drunk before thats no excuse cause if u are so drunk that u wont remember what happened the next day then there is a good chance he wouldn't be able to get it up so don't beleave that shit 9 times outta 10 he prolly just feel into the moment and did somethings he regrets now but i still wouldn't let him forget what he did but anyways
good luck
Gabe
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Ok so theres a guy I met like last year and I was actually 14 then. I met him when he was down on vacaion. We tried to make it work but it didn't because he never moved down because his dad found a job up there. I still know his AIM/Email. Should I try to contact him? What should I say? This sounds crazy but I think about him all the time and love him sooo much. I'm sure the love is strong enough the distance now wouldn't be a issue. What should I do?
Signed,
Sad and confused!
15/Female (link)
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the distance will always be a problem but i think u should contact him cause u never know some day it might work so just keep in touch and never know maybe u can like drive to his house one day or somthin once u get ur license
good luck
Gabe
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ok im 16 me n my boyfriend who is 17 have been going out for just over 2 weeks now.. everytime i think about him i get sweaty palms.. and all i can do is smile.. i feel like the only thing that could hurt me is him leaving me and i get all teary just thinking about it... am i falling to hard to fast?? i really think that im falling in love with him but ive seen so many of my friends go through the same thing and get hurt so im afraid to really open up.. am i being to guarded? should i end things before it gets too serious?? (link)
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i think u should stay with him cause u will never know if u would have gotten hurt if u don't wait and find out so i think u would be happier in the long run even if u get hurt when it's over cause u will atleast have a taste of what love is
good luck
Gabe
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hey okay ive asked a few ppl this...whats a cock ring? and also...im 14 and never really made out with a guy bc i dont want them to think im stupid bc i dont know how to...you being a guy...whats like the best thing a girl has done with her tongue that you really like...you know like how did she move it around to make you like it? (link)
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well a cock ring could mean alot of things the first thing i think of it being sexualy is when u are have haveing bondage sex (wips and chain) some times a girl will put like a rubber ring about a guys dick but it could also be like when when u are about to give a guy head u make ur mouth in like a "o" shape but who knows what the person was talkin about it all depends on the context
best thing a girl have ever done to me with her tongue was she gave me some head but if u don't wanna go that far since u haven't really made out i would say was when she was like kissin up on my chest in kinda of a kinky kinda way and like lickin on my neck before she gave me a fat ass hicky lol but whne ur makein out there is no real way to move ur tongue i just normaly try to like keep mine near theres but normally u move it in kinda a circlur motion but thats all up to u and the way the other person is doing it think of it like dance but just let them led
well good luck and if u have any more ? don't be affriad to ask
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Lets see yesterday my bf and me were at the park and he told me that he kissed my best friend of all time.. it was just a peck though and he said it ment nothing at all im glad he came out and told me but should i break up with him? i mean i dont want to but i dont want to get hurt anymore and have it be worse... (link)
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if i were u i would not break up with him for the fact that, that would just be to much punishment for the crime but i would just like keep a good eye on him and just like make him pay like when he thinks he is goin to be gettin some don't let him cause thats like the meanest thing u can do to him but good luck with that one
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allright there's this guy that i like a lot. I really really want to go out with him. I just dont know if he likes me back because he just broke up with this one chick and she's like still obsessed with him. me and him went out before but it didnt really work out. but i think this time it would be different cause i think i have been able to rely on him more often now. i just dont know what to do. should i ask him back out? (link)
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if i were u i wouldn't ask him back out i would wait and like flirt with him a bit and just like see if there is a connection there coming from both sides atleast but make it very obvious that u really want him back and then see how it plays out for a while and like if he starts to show signs of like flirting with u and all then go for it but it this girl is still really likein him then it was prolyl a bad break up so this would be the best time to win him over if it would even happen cause because this is when he has to go to someone to tell them about all the shit that is happenin with his personal life so if u are there for him that scores some major points! lol well good luck
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