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ok theres this guy i've liked for a while and he knows that. well he always wants to hang out and be friends with benifits. well i told him that i actually want to have a relationship with him. he told me he doesnt want to rush into getting a gf bcuz he just broke up with his old one. but they broke up like 5 months ago. so he said lets hang out more. is this guy just using me? is he scared to have a relationship with me? i'm clueless.....please help me
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Okay. This guy could be doing anything. If he wants to be your friend with benifets then i really dont think you should be with him because he said he didn't want a relationship. That's technically what a friend with bennifets is. I'm sorry but i really think he's just using you for some "fun" for himself. If he just wants to be friends then maybe his old girlfriend really hurt him and he is scared to open his heart. But from what i can see from your story..i'm thinking he's just using you for...well "a little fun" for himself. I hope i helped a bit. Good luck. :)
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I Think Hes Just Useing Yah Tah Get Whut He Wants BeCuz No Guy Is Scared Tah Have A Gurl He Just Wants Tah Get All He Can Get Out Of Yah Then Stop Hanging Out With Yah Or his Only Useing ya hUntil He Finds SomeOne Else Gurl Dont Waste Your Time Find A Real Man Whos Going Tah Have A Relationship With Yah And Not Use Yah
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i think that this guy is just using you. Find someone else out there that will give you what you need; including a relationship
Blake08
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Sounds like he just wants to use you as a semen recepticle and nothing else.
Friends with Priviledges is just another way of saying "I just want to fuck you." If he doesnt want to have a relationship then dont sleep with him, its that simple.
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Personally, it sounds like he's just using u. Friends w/ benefits is never a good thing, cuz most likely 1 of u (or both) is gonna get attached 2 the other and then get hurt when it all ends. I'd say 2 stay outta that situation and 2 wait until he wants a relationship, otherwise it's not worth ur heartache.
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The guy probably isn't scared of getting into a relationship with you, it is really rare if they are and most likely that is not the case. The good news is he seems interested in you. The bad news is he's probably just out for ass. Maybe you can try to talk about it more thoroughly with him.
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they broke up so he don't wanna get back into that shit agian so he is going to use u to get some (the good part of his relatioship with his x)
good luck
Gabe
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How long did this guy go out with his girlfriend when they broke up? if it was a long term relationship he could be scared to get into anouther relationship and get hurt. Give him time and i deff don't think he is using you.
xoxo Chels
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Bingo,he is using you because he wants to make out and be friends with "benefits", but he doesn't want to to tie himself down so he can chase other girls. He's not scared,he just doesn't want to. I'd say hang out with him more and ask him when he thinks he'll get over his old girl. You'll know this is bullshit,but make him give you a real answer. Ask him exactly why he doesn't wanna go out with you.
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hey, well that does sound kinda fishy so i would be careful! and if he does like you then yall takin yalls time for a relationship is the best thing i know from experieance cuz you dont wanna rush into things but you situation does sound a lil fishy so watch out and dont let him break your heart
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*I think he's just using..that's why he wants to be friends with benefits. He is def. not boyfriend material, find a guy that will start a relationship with you!*
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Whatever you do, don't do the 'friends with benefits'. It's alot tougher. Plus that makes me think he just wants some from someone.
Hang out with him, sure, but stick with what you said before, that you wanted a relationship. Don't let him sway you into what you don't want.
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