Q: There's a really really REALLY hott guy in my class...let's call him...tim. Well, Tim is a really popular guy who is really nice and well, HOT :)...basically, if you looked at him, your heart would melt...lol. And, well i'm not a popular person..It's not like i'm a total geek or anything but i'm not the most popular girl in my class...im just normal...

ANYWAY...

At my friend's halloween b-day party, my friend told him "You and Em would make a great couple...you should ask her 2 dance"...
Tim didnt ask me or anything so I thought that he didnt like me....

Since then, he's talked 2 me a little bit and I even saw him looking at me a little bit...does this mean he likes me? I doubt this but what do you think? He broke up with his girlfriend a while ago but at the party i saw them dancing together...

Should I give up now while I'm ahead? Any advice would be GREAT!!!

Thanx!!!
*~*EM (13/f)

Q: so i met this guy ryan and we started talking and he asked me a bunch of questions and he was like do you have any questions for me? but i couldnt think of any so i was like ummm who do you like and he goes i like you and i go i like you too and he asked me out and i said yes but the problem is it doesnt seem like he likes me like we dont talk alot and he just doesnt seem interested at all whats up with him? does he like me or not?

Q: What do you do when your boyfriend tells you he wants to take a break because he has so much going on with work and homework and school and basketball and with his parents fighting all the time? but he still says he likes me and loves me and wants to be with me forever? I feel like i should respect what he wants but at the same time i feel i should be there for him and help him through it becuase after all thats what girlfriends are fo to help you through hard times and to give you advise and stuff. i love him to death and i dont know what to do! HELP im DESPERATE IN NEED FOR ADVISE!!!

Q: Okay so heres the thing my best-friend is going to the movies with me and her boyfriend is bringing a friend who happens to be my biggest crush...its only going to be us four and he already knows I like him and stuff and we talk all the time n always hangout but I have no idea what to say to him....should i just start talking to him or should there be sometimg specific i should say to him because i dont want to embarrass myself or make him think anything bad of me...

Q: My friend lou's haloween party was a blast and i made out with this boy i never though i would get the chance to talk to and that i thought was cute during spin the bottle. everyone of course at school found out and for the past 2 days my friend jasmina and mensur make fun of me about it in art where him and his other friend are! its REALLY funny but embarassing. they asked him questions like did you like it? was she good? would you go out with her? do you like her! and he answeres yes/yeah!/mhhmm to all of them! we even exchanged Numbers and he has my s/n (i THINK)but i barely talk to him and i dont really kno him but hes SOO cute but he doesn't do ANYTHING about it. WHAT IS HIS PROBLEM why doesnt he put in the effort to talk to me some more! should i talk to him on AIM? HELP should i go for it myself and if so waht do i do? or ditch this kid who won't make a move?

thanks majorly!

Q: 14/f. really complicated Q.
This guy who I've known for three years likes me as more than a friend. One year, I suspected he liked me (and I had an almost-reliable source tell me so) and I liked him. The next year, I completely did not like him. (I've never told him how I felt about him one way or another) and now we finalyl got to talking again and his best friend (who might be right or might be trying to start trouble) said that this guy like, loves me and is a great guy says I should give him a chance and kiss him.
Well I said that I'm not allowed to date and therefore nto allowed to kiss. (since it's true) and he was just like oh well.
Honestly, I don't think he's a great guy. I mean he's not like bad, but he is a couple of mont younger than me, I don't really think he's cute, he's interested in weird things I'm not interested in, and... I don't know.
I mean, I'm not gonna date him but can we still be friends even though he likes me?
He's told me a couple of times that he likes me but then he always tries to take it back and then says he actually does but blah blah blah blah.......
What to do?

Q: well i have a crush on this boy and i like him alot hes always flurting with me and playin around with me all my friends know i like him and say he likes me back. so i was going to talk to him but then i found out some one had areaddy told him that i liked him which didnt matter cause he would still flurt with me. Untill i tryed to talk to him about it i was in the hall and i went up to him and told him i needed to talk to him we said he couldnt talk cuz he had to go to class and to tell him the nextday (today) well all day he stayed away from me he didnt even want to cach my eye and to day we had a homecomeing pep rally and someone told me that he has been tell him all his friends that i like him that now thats making me really mad and i want to talk to him even more but if when i wanted to talk to him he ran away im scerd that if i try again that it will make this worce

Q: Well i am 17 and i like this boy chris as well who is seventeen. we are both juniors at the same school and were introduced this summer. my cousin who is 19, hangs out with his brother and i am usually with them weekends or close to every two weekends. so i know his brother very good. his brother matthew is really nice/goodlooking and always hits on me but chris is not very goodlooking or " cool" which i do not care about but i think he is very shy around me and i honestly do not know whether he likes me or not. one day i was waiting out side of school and he asked me if i needed a ride home, and i didnt. one day i called my friend brendon to see where the party was and he said he couldnt get me, so i called chris and he came right over to get me supirsingly. he never IMs me online, i always IM him and i dont know if i should because what if he doesnt want to talk to me? i always ask why we dont hangout and he just says lol or "i love you laurrryn" what can i do because maybe he just doesnt know if im serious or just playing around. what can i say thats not telling him i like him? thanksss

Q: THERE'S NO GETTING OVER THIS GUY - i mean seriously, we broke up 2 years ago, 2 YEARS, and ever since..ive done everything possible, everything you're supposed to do, to get over a person,... burnt his stuff, cried, talked to friends about it, gotten closure, dated other guys, you name it - ive done it! YET, im not over him. I think about him all the time, i still love him and still need him, and still dream about marrying him ten years from now, i havn't let go.. even though ive tried, so hard, for two years, im beginning to think i'll never get over him, i dont know what to do, he's moved on, his screenname is always about a new girl, h flirts like crazy, has fun, and at the same time has deep meaningful relationships, HE'S MOVED ON so howcome i can't? all along i knew i loved him more than he loved me and it meant more to me than it meant to him, so i knew it would take some more time for me.. but he got over me in a matter of days, IT'S BEEN 2 YEARS FOR ME. help me please.

Q: At the beginning of the school year is when we met and we talked and flirted alot :-/ we became really good friends til he told me he liked me I didn't like him at the time cause I thought he was ugly and I thought we was to good of friends he liked me for awhiel til he gave up now it's near the end of the year and we still talk but not as much he kind of picks on me alot and everytime i say something to him he makes a big joke out of everything..It makes me mad but now im starting to kind of like it..He was such a sweetheart before he started acting like a jerk and I realize I really do like him.. I'm afraid to tell him cause he might just make a big joke out of it like everything else what should i do?

Q: hey iam sally well i have a bf and i love him more than myself and iam the kind of person if ihave a bf i make him all my life anyway i have a problem i think of him very day every hour every minute every second.when iam eating when iam out when iam sleeping i just cant get him out of my mind how can i just keep going with him but not think of him that much. and is it normal??? thanks and ill love to hear from all of you!!

Q: Okay, a week ago, this guy who I barely even know (I don't even know his last name) sent me an e-mail declaring that he loves me and wants to be with me. I sent him a very polite decline, because I just do not feel that way about him at all, and now he keeps on e-mailing me with guilt trips about how he thinks he's going to be alone for the rest of his life, and he keeps telling me that he loves me. I suspect that he thinks that if he keeps doing this that I'll change my mind...I don't quite know how to deal with this. So far, I've treated him like I would want to be treated were I in his position, but he's starting to make me feel really uncomforatble. What can I do??

Thanks!

Q: Ok so here is the problem I have a serious crush on this boy let's call him Kyle. I am 14 so it's not just some stupid little kid thing, and no he isn't super popular. He's just there. He's always teasing me he likes to call me a turuturu. (they are cute little made up creatures) The main problem is I know he doesn't like me as more than a friend because he's gay. I keep telling myself I don't have a chance with him because he's gay but I can't get over him. What should I do?

Q: I think I may like my exboyfriend again. But the thing is, we never really talk anymore. I think he likes someone else but I'm not sure. I know that if I ask him out, he'll say yes because I almost asked him to a dance a few weeks ago and he found out and asked me instead. Theres something stopping me from asking him out though and I just don't know what to do. What would you do in my case?

Q: I just got a new boyfriend the other day, and when we talk our convos usually start and end at "Hey you, how are ya?" ... What are somethings I could say to get the conversation to move on?

Q: i broke up with my boyfriend and said that i just wanted to be friends then he was saying that he loved me and stuff like that. i only feel like i still like him when he talks about other girls and stuff. well like yesterday he started going out with my best friend and she knew i still liked him. on his away messages he always puts i love sarah turner.
he never put i love paityn smith on his away message and we went out for almost 3 months and they have been going out for one day! we arent friends anymore because of this. and i really want to keep it that way.i dont know what to do , and im miserable now without him. do you think its just jealousy or do i really love him?
im in the 6th grade and hes in 7th i know this probably sounds stupid, but he is the only boy ive ever loved.
thank you for reading this
paityn

Q: 13/f. I know that around here there are loads of moronic girls saying stuff like "OmG diS gUy iS soOoOo hOT i wANt hiM! aM i iN luV???!!!" Now, I know that teenagers generally don't fall in love, but is there anything wrong with being
"infatuated" with someone? The way many people talk about it, they make it sound like a bad thing. Is it a bad thing? Because, I'm "infatuated" with someone right now. I try not to take it too seriously, but sometimes I can't help it...

Q: about 3-4 months ago my boyfriend and I split. I was so upset that he wouldn't let me explain my reasons for what had happened that I wrote him a long letter. I really did love him and I still do.I just didn't like what he said and did to me. In that letter I said some pretty nasty things. I have been thinking about him alot lately, and would reallylike to call him. should I? I mean after the letter that I wrote I'm afraid he won't talk to me, or if he does it will be to say some more mean things to me. What should I do? and If I should call him what should I say?

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