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Im Adri. Im 14 and my friends say im the go to person when they need help. So. I decided to make a advice thingy and see how that works. I go to WBHS and im in 9th Grade. Ask Me ANYTHING you need to know

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Is anyone else out there completely in love with someone who is far away for a while? This is so hard I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 19 and we only had a month to get to know eachother and fall in love. I have never met someone who made me feel the way he did. Hes away figuring out his life and getting a job he plans on being with me afterwards but its so hard. Im scared that this will break us apart.

I'm in a long distance relationship too.
I'm fifteen, my boyfriends sixteen.
We had a little longer to get to know eachother,
but he distance still does really suck.
Actually, It won't break you up.. if you both
really want to be together. Its all about how
much you really want to try. Because it is pretty
hard. My boyfriend just visited this weekend :D
I live by this quote :
"The best thing about long distance relationships
is that every kiss is like this first"

I thought that was so cute.
Anyways,
If you two really should be together.. then it'll
work. And if he is really committed.. isn't at
all interested in any other girls. Just ask him
to visit as much as he can. It hurts, but its
worth it when you see them. :)

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me and my best guy friend are both 14
i really like him, more than i've ever
liked a guy before,i've liked him since
like last december over the summer though
he came out to me and told me he was gay
i still like him though, and i really need
to get over him, what do i do?
& @ age 14 do you really think he could
be gay??

oh and i cant ask my friends, cos im the
only one that knows hes gay

wow!
i was in the SAME EXACT SITUATION.
and guess what?
i'm going out with the guy i liked,
the one who thought he was gay.
don't give up. really.
he might just be upset, or confused.

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Guys-

what do you think a girl does when she likes you? Like, what does a girl do that makes you think that she likes you (if that makes sense)... and what do you do to show a girl that you like her.

also, what are somethings that you dont' like a girl to do, or what you find unattractive.

thanks.

im a girl
but one of my friends, hes in college
he was talking to me one night
and telling me that
some turnoffs for him when it comes to girls
are things like drinking and smoking
and hooking up with a bunch of diffrent guys.

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i am 13 and the kid i like is 17 his name is will. we made out about 3 months ago. it was just a one night stand. =/ but ever scine then i can never stop thinking about him. like ill just be in class and ill day dream about him. at first i thought ill get over it. but it had been 3 months and i still havent. i only see him once every 2 weeks. whenever i see him i run up to him and hug him so tight. and some times he sleeps at my friends house with me. but latly he has been mean to me. i didnt do anything. i just want to stop thinking about him. anyone have any advice?

-confused.

honey hes seventeen.
my friend is in your exact position.
just be friends with him
dont make it more then it is.
but ask him why hes being a jerk.
and dont hook up with him agian
that wont help you get over him at all.

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ok well the thing is ive been going out with this girl for 6 months. im 15 so is she! i want to finish with her as she is too clingy and does not give me any room to breathe. the problem is she loves me more than anything and she might do something really stupid. ive also taken her virginity and is o broke up she would brand me as a user. how do i go about breaking up with her but not hurt her?

not sure if your gunna be able to break up with her with out hurting her, but i guess your best approach would be telling her you need your space.
and if she says stuff about you then fine. shes bitter and immature.
dont go out with her just bcuz you dont want to hurt her.. trust me. ive dealt with this same thing before. :)
hope this helps.

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hey my boyfriend is in the army and he had to go back to iraq today and he's already been shot twice.,... i just basically need help to keep going... im so scared that he might get hurt or worse ... not come back
thanks

you really need to have faith in him, i know its bad over there. my mom and step dad are going soon. you just need to beleive that its gunna be ok, you can get through this, surround yourself with family and friends that love you. keep contact with him, do whatever you need to do to be ok. im telling you, tell him your there for him, tell him yourwaiting for him to come home.
he will be more sure of it, and he will also be more careful.

you just need to have faith in him.

hope this helps :)

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There is this really nice guy who likes me and wants to go to the movies with me (he thinks I like him because I used to), but I don't really like him in that way, so how do I tell him I don't want to go to the movies and that I just want to be firends???
Thanks!!

just tell him that your simply not interested.
and if you can go to the movies as "friends"
it would be more of a comfertable situation for you.

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my boyfriend is 3 years older than me!! our parents are okay with it
but is it really okay or baaaad having a boyfriend three years older than you??

its totally fine. exspecially if your parents are okay with it. dont worry about it!

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So I have a crush on this guy I've been friends with benefits with. Good idea or no? and why?

If your starting to get feelings for him BAD IDEA. Im saying this because if you have friends with benifits type situation and now there is feelings involved somone can and will (trust me) get the wrong idea of it all. YOu need to talk to him. Dont keep being friends with benifits if yur developing a crush.

hope this helps.

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OMG ADRI okay so my parents hate my boyfriend (i'm a girl and you know me) (i'm fourteen he's almost 14) and i've been going out with him for like 10 days and i actually told them i was going out with him today so they knew i have been hiding it from them for the past week and a half... so i was at the pool with him and stuff and their friends also hate him because they all see him as "bad news" and a "trouble maker" and it really sucks! and now i dont think they'll let me go out with him or even hang out with him...but i'd do just about anything so that i could keep him and they dont even wanna give the guy a chance... i really like him too :(


oh kay. well i guess i could help if i know who you guys are.

just talk to them and dont push theyr limits.
hope this helps :)

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when me and my boyfriend are on the phone we can never think of anything to talk about. can anyone give me some things that would start a conversation with me and him? thank you ill rate and comment

ok. you can talk about the most random things.

just talk about anything! heres some ideas:
school
friends
family
summer
sports
eachother
anything that will get you talking.

hope this helps :]

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does anyone have any good things i could talk about with my boyfriend...we're both shy so its always quiet! i rate high!
13/f

~thanks~

Ok. With me and my boyfriend, we can talk about the most random things and be on the fone for HOURS at night just talking and talking. Your conversations dont even have to have direction. Talk about anything. Summer, School, Sports, Friends, Movies. Just start up a conversation.

Hope This Helps :]

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