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okay well this guy that i have like for 2 years decided to istant mesage me and started talkin to me and then one day he asked me if i like him....well i told him i did and now i have to im him first when he used to im me first all the time.....but now it's he is never on and if he is on he goes away real quick and he gives me this weird look at school. i don't know what is goin on. (link)
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he's prolly nervous and shy
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My bf came over to my place one day while I went to check my mail. I came back with all my mail, a couple of bills, and one letter that had no return address on it. My bf got very suspicous and asked me who could of wrote it. I said I didnt know, and that it was none of him business. He accused me of cheating on him. I got really mad and told him to leave. He said he wouldnt leave until I opened the letter. I told him no, so he grabbed the letter and opened it. It turned out to be my cousin. I told him we were through.
Is what he did illegal? I heard someone say once that it's illegal to open someone elses mail. Does anyone here know? (link)
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eww thats definately a violation of privcay, but idk if its so much to say illegal..i guess since you were standing right there its not..and i kno going through a mailbox is illeagal..but wat he did was definately out of line ..completley!
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15/f
I've been going out with this guy for about a month and a half, and everytime he's at my house he's messing with my younger sister. He's almsot a year oldger than me and she's over a year younger than me. She likes to aggrivate people espicially when I have someone over. And lately he's been acting the same towards her. He'll get up and chase her around the house until she runs outside then he'll sit back down until she comes in the room again and then he'll get a pillow and smack her with it. It's really starting to get on my nerves, what should I do to make this stop? (link)
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simply tell him stop or try and seperate the two wen you are at your house..oor suggest going to his house for a change..
he shouldmt be actin that way 24/7 wit ur sis tho..
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Okay theres this boy that i like and he likes me too.But he hasent asked me out at all? He sends mix signals and i never know if he truley does like me. I mean i understand if he dosent like me and dosent ask me out. But why would he say he did like me and than not ask me out? Its not like im going to say no, if i said i liked him. Does anyone have the slitest clue on what is going on? Im seriously confused.
Thankss a bunch. (link)
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he is either nervous and doesnt kno what to do..isnt sure if he wants to make the commitmetnt..is shy and isn't sure what he's doing..He's probably tryin to figure out the answers to all these questions in his minds. guys can be very indesicive and constantly changing..so who knows wat weill happen..if you'e brave enough maybe you can ask him!
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I am 17 years old and have never had a bf. People in my senior class make fun of me behind my back because of this. I even heard one rumour that I was a lesbian. I'm not a lesbian, I do like guys but I'm really shy and most of the guys in my class are really immature and just want sex, not a meaningful relationship. I've also made the decision not to have sex, or make love until I get married. Some of the girls in my class have slept with over 14 guys, and act like it's no big deal. Sometimes I get so depressed I feel like crying. The fact that tomorrows Valentines day is just going to make me feel worse. Do things ever get any easier for girls like me? Or does it just get worse when I go to college and into the work force? I'm beginning to feel like I'm the only person left with values. (link)
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aw man..people can be such assholes! Listen, i know this is tough..but try and not to pay attention to them..you are right in how you think..having values is completley right! you are very mature for your age.a.the girls who are having sex with like 23423 guys are..uhm..for a lack of a better word..sluts? and you will find that guy that completes you and makes you happy..in the meanwhile..since tomrrow is vday..go out with some of ur girls and just ddont think aout guys, keep yourself occupied and have a good time! Meeting a guy can happen when you least expect it soo just remember..stay true to your values and that special someone will come!
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So A fiew days ago I was really stupid and I gave my virginity to this guy. I really liked him and now I like him even more. He told me he was falling inlove with me and everything!
The problem is I dont think he really likes me I think he is just using me.. Even though he holds my hand in public and kisses me in public I really think he is doing stuff with other girls to. Actualy im almost POSSITIVE. I have heard things about him showing up with hickys and I have heard things about him being with other girls.
The thing Is I lost my virginity to him and Im stuck to him really hard...
WHAT DO I DO! (link)
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well..you can'tknow for sure if your guy is cheatin on ya..you can only trust him and hope that he isnt..unless you have absolute proof that he is, you can't really say much about it..cuz its very unlikely that he wodl admit that he was cheating..if he was. but for right now you can ionly hope for the best.he seems pretty attatched to you though and that he likes you alot..it doest like seem like he's using you either because he wants to spend time with you and shows his love for you publicly.
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okay to start off, my boyfriend is my younger brothers best friend
and he's a grade younger then me
but hes still quite 'mature' and expects a lot out of the relationship
anyway, we got to second base, aka, he felt me up
and I asked him not to tell anyone, ecspecially my brother
that was a week ago, and i found out that he told everyone about it today
im quite bothered by that, obviously
i dont want to dump him though...im gonna have to have a chat with him, but i dont know what to say...any suggestions that will get the point across without making it sound like I want to end the relationship? (link)
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hmm, just basically tell him how you feel. Tell him that you're upset that he told eveyone and to next time please resepct what you say and not go telling everyone if you don't want him to. if he is mature like you say he is, then he should understand and nto do it again. If he asks if you're breakig up with him, say no but that yo're upset with wat he did and to not do it again...hope this helps
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ok so right now im 17 i use to like this kid alot when i was 15 nd he was older by about 4 years and i thought he was really hot and one day i got a lil too drunk and being an older kidd knowing i liked him i guess he took advantage of me and i ending up having sex with him .. and i lost my virginity to him .. after that i was like in love with him for the longest time but of course i was nothing to him nd now im afrraid to have sex with my boyfriend who i have been on and off with for awhile and now going out straight for about 11 months becase i don't want people to think im a slut because of the other kid (( which everyone found out about )) and i also dont want the other boy to find out because i don't want him to think less of me i know this sounds bad but this two both know eachother and i still occasionally talk to the boy i lost my virginity too .. my boyfriend i have now is totally in love with me i know he would never do anythink scumbag to me liek the other kid but i just dont know what to do ?? and i kno this sounds bad but i just dont know anymore (link)
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hmmm...what i think you shoudl do is what makes you feel comfortable. if ou feel like you can trust your boyfriend and its something you want to do, then have sex with him..if you're having doubts which it seems you are you probably shouldn't. doni't have have sex with him just becuse you think its the right thing to do or, to meet other people's approval. I hope this helped, if it didnt..ask me again in a diff way and i'll try and give ya a better answer
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alright so I like this guy but now he has a girlfriend..yea my friend =/ ...and my friend knew i liked him and she said yes anyways and the boy knew i liked him and asked her out right infront of myface..totally a BUMMER..i was mad at my friend but should i stilll be or should i act cool like i dont care..and the guy nows i was pissed off but this all happened a week ago...so should i stil be pissed or just be over it..and now how do i act towards the guy..
ill rate 5 for trying!! =) (link)
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hmm, that was really not cool on ur friends part, and the guy's for that matter...but anyways, id' say confront both at different times adn tell them how you feel adn how it wasn't cool what they did..if they don't seem to care or the just don't know how to react..i guess you should try and get over it and just understan that sometimes people do dumb things :/
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17/m
i was never circuumcized when i was a baby. my girlfriend wants to give me a blowjob but i dont know what to do. this might sound kinda nasty or wierd but whenever i pull the skin back and something touches it, even gently it hurts. even if its just water. i want a blowjob b/c all my friends say it feels really good. what should i do? (link)
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hmm...you can have her give you a blow job and if she meses wit your skin you can just gently tell her, be like oh don't do that..it gets irritated..or you can just tell her you're not ready yet,until you're ready to tell her that you're uncircumsized..which isn't a big deal at all..she probalby won't care..she prolly wont even pull it back wen she gives you a bj.
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I'm dating this girl. I'm really happy, and I love her very much. but theres this other girl that likes me, and she happens to be a close friend. She has a b/f and she's wants to dump this b/f for me. But how do I tell her I don't wanna be with her? I don't want her to get mad and stop being my friend.....idk....
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well, if she is really a good friend of yours she will understand how you feel and not get mad at you..tell her that it would be better as close friends and that you really like the girl you are going out with
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ok so me and my boyfriend were going out for exactly 2 and a half days. I thought our thing was going great untell the 2nd day. I went to fnl and the next morning I got a call from his X GIRLFRIEND saying he hated me and he did not wanna be with me and he needed a brake after two and a half days!! I cryed so much because i really liked him and i don't understand what i did to deserve this!! Please help me and this is the 4th time we have gone out is it over or wat? (link)
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well, i personally think that the x got jealous and called you and made that up..Doin't get too upset yet..call your bf and ask him wahat hte deal is.
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i need help talking to this boy i like.i no for sure he likes me,but we dont no eachother and i want to ask him to go with me or to get his # or something.i need some body to give me like exact words to say,like the whole conversation.and hand gestures too.i am good at being flitatious so i might not ned the hand gestures.i just dont no what to say (link)
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Hmm..Well i cant tell you like the exact gestures but basically just be really touchy..not too touchy though that it becomse creepy. just kinda of like touch his shoulder or somethign once in awhile..no randomly thoug, like maybe sort of touch him playfully if he says someting funny..or like make a comment about his hair and touch it..As for talking to him..just ask him to hang out flat out and see what he says
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hey so i like this guy and he lives 2 hrs away from me. and i saw him last weekend and i got nervous when i saw him and didnt know what to say. now he thinks im mad @ him. what should i say to him?? what could i say to him so im not so nervos???
i rate.
thanks (link)
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hmm i think that you should st tell him..be like sorry if i didn't talk much that day we met..buti was just really nervous to see yyou but i think you're an aesome guy and id reeally like to get to know you better and hang out more often. You could just tell him how you feel so maybe he will open up more so you will be less nerous
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I'm 17/f and my boyfriend is 18/m and he doea not understand the meaning of time. He is constantly late to everything. And I mean everything! I used to put up with it (we've been dating for almost 2 years) but I just can't anymore.
About a week ago, my dad threw a party for his company and instead of going with my family, I went with my boyfriend. My family left for the patry and I left to his house. When I got there, HE WAS STILL ASLEEP! I got him up and he had to take a shower so he did that. About 30 min. later, his parents were leaving for the party and asked me if I wanted to ride with them. Of course I said no. My boyfriend and I ended up being an hour and half late to the party. My dad was really mad.
The next day, we were supposed to go to the mall at 2pm. Of course, he wasn't on time. It got to be about 3:00 when he finally got to my house. I told him that I didn't feel like going anymore and we got into this big fight about how he's always late.
How can I get him to understand that it's important to not olny me but to ohter people as well that he get's to where ever he's supposed to be the time he says he will? (link)
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i think you really just need to talk to him..sit him down and tell him its really disrespectufl that he is constantly late to meeting you. It's rude and its not right and he has to stop..ask him how he would feel if you did it to him
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f/15
what should i do if im still in love wiht my ex-boyfriend and he likes me too but he doesnt really want a girlfrined right now and i want a boyfriend right now and there's this guy i kinda like and he asked me out and i said yes all i can think about is my ex but we dont talk that much anymore maybe once a week he doesnt know about my new boyfriend! my ex go's to a differnet school too so its kinda hard to talk to each other but we still like each other! i dont know if i should stay wiht my new boyfriend or what! please help (link)
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i tink its pretty unfair to stay with your current boyfriend now if you have no feelings for him..even if u still want a boyfriend just to have one, its not right to him. Plus, if this other guy goes to another school and you don't talk all that much it might be kind of hard to get with him unles you really wanna start talking to him al ot a nd trying it again..altouhg it seems like he's just not interested at hte moment. So to sum it all up, stay with the bf if you have feelings, but if not end it.
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how do you become a better kisser? i was making out with this girl and i kept licking her teeth. any advice? (link)
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aw..okay..
i think that to be a good kisser..is in the opinons of people..some like it kinda messy, some lke it with barely any tongue at all, an some like a lot of tongue..personally i think that it's better to have not enough tongue rather than too much..so wen you're kissing just slip your tongue in once in awhile, don't be too forceful and just sort of slide out..nothing to forecfuil or messsy..hope this helps
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So is it true what they say, that once you are friends with a girl you are trapped in the friend zone forever, and it will never grow into something more? or is it just a myth? (link)
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just a myth, some of the best relationships start off as just friends and go into something more..so ya completely a myth!
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my grilfriend lay on her back put my sprem fallout? (link)
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i dont' realy understandyour question, could you possible write it agian? thanks :)
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Im 13/f
There's this guy I really like. Last year, we were really good friends, especially since we had all our classes together. Now we're in the 8th grade, we have NO classes together (grrrr)! I barely see him during the day. Now we've kind of spread apart. What can I do? Do you think Instant Messaging could help in any way? (link)
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yea!! it could definately help..i tink that you should try and hang with him on the weekends and just try and keep in touch..maybe hang with him at lunch..or after school
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