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hey my names jody, im 15, i live in Beloit, Wisconsin and i go to Turner, im a freshman(supposed to be a sophomore) im not a mean person even tho i can be sometimes, im not a person whos known to fight a bunch of people, but i have gotten in a few...and havent lost ANY so im not really a weak person if you think about it...i dunno how good my advice is...but i try to give the best advice i can!
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how do you get over a broken heart?
you wont completely get over it, you will forget about it sometime, it will take a while, but you will,
ok im thinkin of having my boyfriend and 2 other friends who are also a couple, come over to watch a movie or 2 tomorrow. i think we wanna do a comedy and then romance. any ideas? 14/f
horrors good to...cuz then you get to act like you're scared and you're bf will act like hes protecting you...lol...thas what i always do ~hope i helped p.s. if you are gonna go with scary make sure its something REALLY scary...the grudge is good (only if you havent see it)
I wish girls didnt like me becuz of my looks I mean I try to find some I like and I am so popular at my school but they just like me becuz of my looks and the spread stories around that I have sex on the first date and stuff liek that and I do have a girlfriend and we been going out sence 8th grade and we are in the 10th grade now but the other girls always tells my girl friend that I am cheating on her and I am really not please help
this sounds REALLY fermiliar...this happend to me before...ill have to tell you the story later maybe you can im me sometime on aim xoxbabiiphatx69
~hope i helped
~jody!
my and this guy are just friends now. hes really nice and sweet and i like him a lot. the other day, i spent all of my class time talking to him. not romanticly, we were talking about what was going on that day. we didnt say anything about us well i didnt. he talked about his mom a little and we talked just talked like friends. i do like him a lot becuz he seems like a nice guy. so what should i do. becuz if he doesnt like me in that way, i dont want to screw up our friendship and i dont want him to break my heart
wait a little bit...cuz if yall is good friends...then that might be all you'll ever be...wait a little bit until you know FOR SURE...cuz otherwise it prolly will screw up your friendship
I'm taking the advice of those who answered my last question; I went through alot of stress dealing with problems wth one guy and a relationship that was almost official but flopped over and blew up in my face. Besides I'd like to have a boy friend.
Thing is there aren't lots of choices. I don't like asking guys straight up front to be with me, I'd rather pull them on gradually. Is this the right way to do it? And is it better to seek someone in your own social group, people you all ready know? I don't like any one romantically right now, but what kind of traits make a guy dateable, and how can you tell he might be made to like you over time?
yes it is the right way..thas what i do anyway
If a guy touches your arm a lot as hes talking to you, is this a good sign?
yes
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about three months. We havent kissed yet, but i think i want to. How should i tell him??
make sure you really want to....yall have been going out for a really long time...if ive been with a guy that long id go all the way...but yeah just ask him how he feels. and then youll figure it out
okk theres this boi lets say john nd i love him !! a lot hes my first love nd well he loves me too (nd i think its true cuzz i live 45 minutes away cuzz i moved) nd he still talks to me .. nd yesterday i told him that i wanted to see him one last time nd then i didnt wana see him agen and then he said why nd i was like cuzz i think its qwhat i shuld od nd he said i dont nd i said that i think it would be better that way nd then he said something bout space gives oppurtunity nd i get it but then he was like i dont wana lose you nd then we got in the big argument cuzz my friend got me to do it (if you wana or need to see the convo then IM me at
" theOnlyOne4me x " ) and well i dont kno if i made a mistake or not nd i really really need help on if he IMs me then shuld i go w/ it or shuld i stop what is tarted nd say i didnt mean it !! please help soon !! i really need it
xO - Confused
i wanna see that convo....my sn is xoxbabiiphatx69...anyway...yes tell him you didnt mean it...cuz he obviously really does like you if he doesnt wanna lose you...feedback is Greatly Appreciated thnx!...dont forget to rate!
xoxoxoxJody
ok, flashback like 2 years. there was this guy who i always thought was pretty cool, but i DID NOT like him. we weren't exactly friends... it was like one of those dumb " 6th grade-i-hate-you-i-hate-you-too" things. of course we didn't actully hate each other, we would just said that cause we were dumb little 6th graders (actually, we were always playing and goofing around and laughing all the time in class with each other.)but the thing is that around the middle of the year, all of his friends just started to tell me that he liked me a lot and stuff, but i never listened to them either cause i just didnt believe them or i didnt want to believe them, but i didnt.i knew they wouldnt just bother to tell me for no reason, though. anyway, that guy (let's call him W) and i never talked about it. i dont think he even knew his friends would tell me all that stuff.but during that summer, i just realized that i was really starting to like him. fast forward to about 4 months ago. all these rumors were going around about it and he ended up hearing about it from more than one person, and he suddenly started to avoid me and vice versa. then one time he told my friend " dile a ella que no se haga falsas ilusiones" which means "tell her not to make herself any false illusions". i was getting tired of it though, so my friend, being the dumbass that she is told him that i didn't like him, that he's a fricken dumbass, and a bunch of other crap and embarrassed him in front of his friends (haha) and said it was all from me. after a while, we started talking a little bit again, but only cuz we had to for school. anyway, he somehow (?) got a hold of a note my friend and i were sending to each other in class, saying all this time about me liking him. the next day my friend told me that she'd heard him tell someone that he ws never gonna talk to me again. i told her to tell him that he didnt have to worry either, i wasnt gonna talk to him either. we havent talked since, but we sometimes find each other occasionally glancing in the other's direction. my friends joke around that i stalk him, and one of his friend told him and he looks at me like i'm a psycho. what is up with him cause his friends still tell me that he likes me but he is just shy or wants to look cool or something, but i dont think so. he is a jerk since this year started and i want to stop liking him, but i cant change my feelings overnight. how do i get over him, get him to know i'm forgetting him (uhh....kinda!) and what's up with him... i mean all guys?!
write your friend a note telling her about what you just told me then tell your friend to show him the note but tell her NOT to tell him that you told her to...hope i helped...feedback is GREATLY appreciated...rate PLEASE!?...
xoxoxJody
Ok...Here's the story. I have been friends with this guy since the 5th grade.We're both 16 and I have had a crush on him since 5th grade too. Finally, 5 years later,(2 months ago), we went out for a month. I thought "Wow, I can't believe this.It's what I've always wanted." Well it wasn't. He was always around his friends. I mean I don't see ANYTHING wrong with guy time,because I want girl time too. But he was ALWAYS with them. He barely called cause he was always with them. The funny thing was that before we went out we talked every night for like 4 hours! I adored him and I know he adored me. But being alone all the time just wasn't working. So we broke up. We THANKFULLY went back to being best friends again. Well now 2 months later we have a little problem. We went to a party and we kissed...I loved it and I know he did. Then 3 days later I asked if he liked me. His answer was "Yea but I don't see us as anything more than friends right now...but yes I do like you." I was devastated...did I read his signals wrong? Well we had a heart to heart and came to an understanding and hung up the phone with saying we loved each other! The next night we went to a basketball game, then to the pool hall. As he played pool and I sat there watching...our eyes met for the longest time,he smiled at me with the cutest smile, and my heart just melted! "Maybe he really does like me the way I like him!!" I thought. Well when it was time for me to leave he said "Bye I'll call you later" Without anything else...he usually hugs me or kisses me on the cheek!! Once again...a signal misread. My friend Beth, whom was there throughout it all, spoke to him one night about it. He said he didn't want me to like him the way I did because he didn't know what he wanted right now and that he didn't want it to end up like last time and him "hurting me". Problem was...he never hurt me! Now, almost a week later, we have yet to speak to each other. BIG CHARACTER HERE!! Morgan... a girl he is/was in love with has hurt him twice. They didn't even go out...she lead him on and then let him down. He claims he doesn't care anything for her. I believe him...but if I could just find out what it was that he loved about her I would change and just to gain AT LEAST one characteristic he loved about her! I have never been like this...I've always said I would never change for anyone! Especially not for some guy. But for him I will do anything. WHAT DO I DO!! Please don't say "Girl, don't change for anyone" or "Let him come to you"...seriously HELP ME!!
you really shouldnt change for anyone...if he dont like you then he dont like you and i think you should just get over it (no effense) but theres other guys out there...ive been in this same place before and it really hurt...so i know what you're going through...and someone told me the same thing i just told you...and it really worked...me n him are still friends and i still have feelings for him...but i dont let the feelings control me like i did and how you do...play the field for a while...if it doesnt work out then you know this boy is "the one" and he'll relize the same thing about you sooner or later...but if he doesnt then you know that you will NEVER be more than friends and no matter how hard it will be....you're just gonna have to move on
well me and my bf have been goin out for like a little more than 2 months and we really like each other... but he seems shy when it comes to kissing or something...wat does this mean?
it means hes slow....dump him and find someone more your speed...unless that is your speed
me and my bf just broke up.. he doesnt wnt to ruin the friendship we had before.. is there anything i can do in the future if ever we do want to get back together that will make him want to stay with me even though it could mess up our friendship?
its best if you dont get back together unless you really do care for each other cuz otherwise yall gonna break up after a lil while and your friendship wont be there anymore...rate please!..feedback is greatly appreciated
Okay kiddos...this probley sounds really lame...but There is this guy and he is a grade below me....well ne ways me and him talkled on the fun Frday and Saturday last weekend and we say hi to each other at school....well ne ways his friends keep asking me if I like him and i was like yea...and then he and i were talking and he said he wants to get to know me better....but i want to know if i should ask him out or not!! HELP!
he's prolly planning on asking you out....dont ask him out....girls do that all the time and seriously...i think it makes girls seem desperate
ok me and my boyfriend recently broke up..it was really hard because of rumors..anyways theres this guy name bradley and well im starting to like him. hes been holding my hand and stuff and me him and my friend were walkin to gym and i had grabbed his wrist to show him this girl and he slid his hand and we ended up lockin hands and he started rubbing my hand.im so confused because 1.this guy named lets call him joe is supposed to ask me out because he wants a girlfriend 2-because bradley can be known as a player sorta and 3- because i still love my boyfriend.what should i do?
well if "joe" is askin you out just cuz he wants a gf then that relationship isnt worth trying...of course you still love your bf..its always hard to get over them right away....and bradley i cant really help you with...if hes a player then he might just be in it for somethin and i dont mean love...but if you like him then try it out, but i cant say you wont end up bein hurt again
I'm completely lost. This boy that I sorta like, likes me (I think). We were in a chat room on AIM and he started saying these weird things and then I got the picture that I think he likes me. But when I asked him he said no (he did't want to tell me right away) and I stupidly said good. I always mess up my love. What's wrong with me? How can I end this before it started. He thinks I like him also, which is kinda good kinda bad. I'm just afarid of what I have done. Can I say myself before I mess up again?
well..its kinda stupid to ask a boy if he likes you yourself...you shouldve had one of your friends do it...or one of his friends..that woulda been better....cuz hed tell the truth then...but when you like someone and you think they like you back...jus remember...DONT ask them yourself..have one of HIS friends ask
alright this is totaly getting to me and idk what to do ....... last night i called my guy and he was like well i cant talk now can i call you back ... and then last night he called and we were talking and he never really said anyhing .... well then this moreing i called my friend and she was like yeah last night i talked to you boyfreind and his freind and i was like wait what time and then she said and it happend to be after i called him and b/4 he called me and he knows how much ( oh yeah they talked on the phone) much i dont like him tlaking to her and then this moring after i found out that they were talking he wa slike oh he was like i didnt know you wanted to know and i dont think he was ever gunna tell me and now he is trying to figure out wiht is rong with me and he isjust SO STUPID... idont what to do im so tired of crying please help and dont say break up wiht him ... PLEASE
first of all...why would your "friend" talk to him on the phone? answer that question yourself....if your bf cant respect your wishes then he aint worth it...and your friend....you need to figure out wether or not shes doin somethin to either try to get you 2 to break up or tryin to get him to cheat on you
ive been talking to this kid on the comp and hes been sending me mixed signals. i go to school and he doenst talk 2 me but as soon as i sign on there is his s/n saying hey to me.One time he even decided that i should call him. i talk to him everyday on the comp but never at school! what should i do?! iam so lost PLEASE HELP I RATE!
he thinks your ugly
so about a year ago, my dad and my step mom got a divorce. It really suc'd like any divorce, but my stEp mom blamed it on me...I still belive deep down that it was my fault, but everyone tells me it wasnt. Ive been through so many consolurs and crap, but i still don't feel good about it. I still rember the last night we talked...she told me how much she hated me...((the mom i had for the last 12 years just told me she hated me))then she refused to talk to me for the last like month she lived with us.
well my real mom's really f'd up, and my former step mom wont talk to me ever again..and i realli dont like my dads new g-f..i need a mom. im a teenage girl...my dad doesnt always get it..Where should i turn? I mean i can talk to my freinds...but i would love more then anything to have a mom...should i try apologizing to my former step mom, or call my real mmom...ee..lost
yyour life..ee....reeeally..f'd up
What do you do when you absolutely love a guy and love doing everything with him except kissing him?! I don't really like kissing my boyfriend, it's kind of gross/boring..what should i do?
get a life
I still have major feelings for my ex boyfriend.. he was my first love/ and first person. But we broke up and now he's going out with his girl who's really close with him ( i hate her ). He told me that he wanted to stop talking to me. (but you kinda have to know him to realise what he accualy means, its so confusing, but he says that stuff and doesnt mean it.. he just says that -pretty sure). So i havent talked to him in like 5 days and OMG i really want to so bad, but im not. So my question is- is this the right thing with not talking to him?.. maybe he will miss me or realise some things.. is it for the best? what do i do.. thanks so much..
you should try talking to him...but just be his friend...not trying to be harsh..but you aint getting him back...almost everyone has been down that road before...some of them get that one person back...but really...barely any of them do...you should try and move on...cuz if you try to get him back..it might just end up making things worse.