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The Names Nesmira. I turned 15 on Dec. 13th (: Yay me, but kinda sucks becuase i still didnt get my Permit. GAY? yes i no. Anyway I have blonde hair and blue eyes. (: I am 100% Bosnian [muslim] and veryy proud of that. you wanna hate knock yourselves out, dont bother me. =p Well im currently a Sophmore at Bayless Sr. High [class of `10 baby] (: It may be a pretty small school and not the riches but hey its amazing (:. My all time favorite sport is Basketball i loooveee it. i also enjoy playin volleyball and soccer, but it sucks becuase i cant play soccer anymore. :( and i hate it. Well im orginally from Srebrenica, Bosnia but i currenly live in Saint Louis (: i love my family & friends, they are amazing. [mina, ajsa, amela t, azra, edina , vildana] i dont know what i would do without these girls. esp the boznian mobn [mina.amela t. & azra] ♥ life would most definetly suck without them. Well ya i love all my other friends, you know who yu are. (: well um i dont care what you thnk of me or what i do, its just your opinion. i love to have fun, laugh and make others laugh. i`M very nice unless you piss me off then i can be the biggest biotch. ever. that just how it goes.




LIKES: chocolate, traveling, shoes & clothes , movies, myspacing, soccer guys, (: music, shopping, SUMMER, being European, animals, people who can make me laugh, people who love to have fun, moneey (: , televsion, computer, PHONE, aim, BOSNA, my amazing friends, hanging out with friends, BERIX, bosnian food (;, McDonadls, BASKETBALL, soccer, volleyball, being acctive, the beach, swimming, tanning, fashion, taking random pictures, swings, rollercoaster, coloring, make-up, ribbons, flip flops, black & white pictures, oversized sunglasses, strawberries, GUM, cookies (:, Nicole Richie, Paris Hilton, ANGLINA JOLIE, Paul walker, Christiano Ronaldo, (: && most def. Channingg Tattummmmmm (: , ONE TREE HILL, Passions, The Hills, Laguna Beach, real friends & muccccchhh more..


DISLIKES: Fake friends, biotches, stupid commercials, being bored, bugs, heights, feet, blood eww, Chain Letters, two faced people, white socks, TENNIS SHOES ugh, wanna bew`s, when people change soo quickly, sea food, homework, winter- even tho its pretty soemtimes, cheesy songs ugh, when poeple put others down.


OK well tthat`s more then enough. dont be shyt to Ask me anything, i will answer the best i can (:

♥ Nesmira

advice

I am currently "going out" with a 6th grader and I am an 8th grader. I normally like taller guys, but hes shorter. and hes really sweet.cute. and i like him a lot. but im so self concious and i worry too much about what other people think
is it too weird?
please give me honest opinions.

iF YOU REALLY LiKE HiM YOU SHOULDN`T CARE ABOUT WHAT OTHER PPPL SAY OR THiNK .. AS LONG AS YU WANT TO BE WiTH HiM & YOUR HAPPY..

&HOPE i HELPED.

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Hey!

Like a month ago, my friend Paul told me he thought my friend Victoria was just a little hot. I said, oh, but I like him. Seriously, I love him I think. I am 13, but I do. I have had many boyfriends, but somethings special about him.

At this dance Friday, Paul was like I am going to ask Victoria to dance. Victoria is like my best friend too. I pretended I told victoria but I didnt, then I told Paul she was like "Eww."

So now apperently he really likes her. I have been preteneding to try and hook them up, just to talk to Paul. Paul and I talk on the phone, but it is always about Victoria! I get in troble in english and math, always because I am showing off for Paul.

I try and show off, like I say, "Paul you might now like Victoria, she hasnt kissed anyone." Then he said, Dont worry, she will get kissed if you get her to go out with me.


Victoria doesnt really like him. She might go out with him, because I think she knows I like him. Victoria and I are friends and all, almost best friends, but we try to be better then one another.

Im not sure what to do. Should I keep talking bad about Victoria? I rather Paul then Victoria though, because Vicotoria and I are that great of friends!

i THiNK THAT YU SHOULD TELL THE ViCTORiA GiRL HOW PAUL REALLY FEELS! BECAYSE PUT YOURSELF iN HER SHHOES. YU WOULD WANT TO KNOW. RiGHT? & THEN TELL ViCORiA TAHT YU RREALLY LikE HiM! BEACUSE iT WiLL COME OUT SOONER OR LATER & ITS BETTER iF SHE HEARS iT FROM YU! & AS YU SAY THAT SHE DOESNT REALLY LikE HiM! THEN iF YU TELL HER THAT GiVES YU A CHANCES TO LIkE HiM WITH-OUT GOiN BEHinD HER BACK & LYiNG. & HOPE i HELPED.

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my bf wants me to lap dance with him. well. not really but he asked me if I'd do. and he asks me alot of nasty questions about sex and strip with him. i dont want to do anything with him except makeout. what do i do?? help!!

you need to tell him that you dont want to do anything that big.. if he relly loves you then he wont pressure you to do anything that you do not want to .. to just tell him how you feel ..
& hOpe i HelpEdā™„

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okay i have a serisious problem...again...okay for those who have answerd me you'd know what i am talking about..Travis i don't know if he likes me yet and when he was at my house i got a pop and he drank out of it then me and him and so on...Does that mean were kissing each other basicly? anyway stupid question i know...okay last night trav was over here and he is affraid to stay at peoples house and i said it's okay now i cuddled with eric and he wound out to be a jerk to me and travis is eric's friend and found out i cuddle...and i said you need to stay here i will "cuddle with you" just not hold hands...kiss...or hold you we can just lay beside each other and talk all night until you fall asleep and he said i don't know maybe it would be interesting...What in the h-e double hockey stick does that me?? lol and then what should i tell travis i mean he whipped me and i have a welt on my leg serveral axcually...and i don't know what to do i really do love him but i don't know what to do and i want a passionate boyfriend not one who is scared to be like yeah i am dating her and afraid to kiss me infront of my mom ...does it sound like travis is him?? i mean come on a whip?? i am so confussed...and i really miss him and the other day we were playing basketball just me and him and something came up and he said well you hate me huh? and i said no i don't were cool and then i said but i know you hate me and he said no it's like the oppisite of that.....will somebody please tell me what the oppisite of that is love or what?? i have no clue as i have said before...please i really reallly realllly like travis...and he's cute and nice butt and lips and i could so go for him but how do you really know when you've hooked a guy?? Travis is all skiddish around other people like kind of mean to me but not..anyway i really like him and i don't know what to do what to say so please help me samantha..

well if you think that he's gonan act fake when hes with yuo and his friends are around then i dont thikn that you shoudl go out with him.. but then he might be the exact opposite he might not care what his friends think .. so i think that you should find out how "travis" feels about you and then you would see what to do next.. and maybe see how his past relationships were.. but liek talk to him not his friends because if you do he might get mad or soemthin..
so good Luck
*hoPe i HelPEd

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my boyfriend and i are gonna be 6 months soon. HE always buys me things on months.
What should i get him??
he likes hot topic but is not totally goth.. more punkish. he loves camo and likes random things. websites would help.. thank you.. i rate

you can get him:

-a gift card at HOT TOPIC, or something from HOT TOPiC
-cologne
-some cdz
- just somethin that will amke his laugh..
&& you Know hiim best you know what he likes and what he doesnt so its kinda hard to anweR this Question..
&& if he really loves you then he'll love the gift no matter what it is.,

&& hOpe i HeLped

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I just broke up with my boyfriend. I'm afraid it'll be like really weird now like in class and stuff. Do I still walk with him back from class? I don't like many people in that class so what do I do? I wanna like flirt with him you know? We just broke up cause he was to quite and shy and I couldn't take how ackward it was, it was like pointless. I wanna go back to being really flirty again. Maybe in the future we can go back out with a stronger relationship; more open and fun. How should I go back to us being flirty ?

just start talkin with him.. like still hang out with him and then wen youre friends agian then you can flirt with him and see how it goes.. and see why he;s shy and quite..so just take it slowly.. if you rush thingz it might go bad..
& hoPe i helPed

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Hi! Yes, this is another relationship question... but it is different, so stay with me! Just read over my situation and tell me what you think! I'm 20/f by the way! Thanks! :)

When I was a senior in high school I met a guy, and we hit it off really well and ended up in a 2 year relationship. We broke up at the beginning of my 2nd year of college because we began to fight a good bit. We fought because I wanted to experience the single college life, and he was a year older than me, but not in college, and didn't know what he wanted to do with his life. We stopped talking for 4 months, and it was very hard at first but we both got over it after we cut off all contact. In December he left for the Army, and he called me to tell me. I wrote him a letter, and he called me. 4 months later, we now talk on the phone all the time. He is currently stationed about 700 miles from me, and is getting deported overseas soon. But our feelings for one another have come back in full swing now that we talk all the time. The differences we had are no longer there. We always say how we miss one another and this and that... but we both know that a long distance relationship for the next 4 years while he's in the army is unrealistic.

So basically our plan is to contunue talking, and emailing, and he will come home and visit as much as he can... and when he is home we will basically be together all the time, have sex... basically act like a couple. We can both see each other married in a couple of years, but do you think this is a good idea? We really care for each other, but is this worth it if it's going to make our lives so much harder? I mean it will be so hard having to see him for a few days, and then watching him leave for months. Do you think it is a good idea, or do you think cutting off all contact and taking the "easy way out" would be better? What would be the best thing for us? I appreciate your opinions... thank you!

i think if you relly love him then like the long distance doesnt matter much.. like you've been with him for 2 years as you say or w.e n then yu broke up nd now are practically a couple then you probably like him lots.. and iif youy think that you two can deal with the distance.. n every relationship has itz ups and downs as you no.. so you should give it a try but then like 4 years is a long time.. but when you with him you know how it makes you feel..
so just think about how you would feel it you were together and then if you weren't..
so you have to decide if this distance will affect you and your life..
&hoPe i HeLPed.
-nEsmiira

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Oh God! I recently posted http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=422079 (Boyfriend vs. Band) and now I've just found out I'm freakin' pregnant! I haven't gotten to talk to my ex yet, but now I'm back at square one! I want to take him back, but what if he thinks I just want him cuz of the baby? And what if he won't take me back now? I'm so confused! PLEASE HELP ME!
xoxo ~Sabrina~ xoxo

well you need to talk to him and tell him that yoru pregnant.. .and see how he takes it.
then you need to determine if you want to keep the baby or now.. and like you need to see if its true liek you seaid (( if you want him only because of the baby))...
& hoPe i heLped

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what do you do if you realllllllly realllly like someone but then you kissed them and they were horrible !!

i think if you relly relly like this guy than that one **kiss** wont make you not like him.
-and maybe he was just nervous or somethin.. if thats the first time you kissed..
((and maybbe once your comfortable or w.e he might be better)) so it all mainly comes down to how much you like him..
& hoPe i helpEd
&heArtz .. NesmiiRa

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okay i like this guy. but whenever were together im really shy and so is he. we dont have much to talk about. but when were online talking its fun. i really really like him. he's the quiet and really nice type. but i kinda dont know what to say to him when im around him. my friend keeps tellin me to go up to him and slap his ass and say whats up but i am to shy to do it. how can i start talking to him more when we are together rather just online?

you can find out what you too have in common.. and like thingz you like and then slowly start talkin to him more in person..
and then since you say yu talk to him on like and itz fun.. ask him to hang out sometime if thats easier then in person. like ask him to go to the movies or somethin that you would like to do with him.. and then ask him to hang out at skool, like games (b-ball, soccer) etc.
&& hoPe i HElppEd..!!
((gooD luK with HiiM))

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He's bosnian. =)
Hah I am not tho.
How did you know?
Ps:: Thanks for the advice.

oo i thoUght he was bosnian becuse of his name..
hehehe.. **no ProBlem** aniITime yu nEed e n Thing n good luk with him.>!

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Well, Okay. There's this boy named Senad & I have liked him foreverr. Me & him are always on/off, and idk. I want him back so badly and things completly switched between us. In the beginning he wanted me so badly, and I didn't like him that much. Now I am obsessed, and he's like uhh. It sucks. Before he met me which was around January when we started talking he was so shy, and afraid to say the wrong thing. It was so cute. Now he's so mean, and bossy. I'll look at him in class, and he'll be like "What the fuck you looking at?" Just because his friends are there. It's so immature. Then when I am with him we makeout, and stuff. Sometimes I think he's using me. On Friday we were in a pretty big fight, and we were at the same persons house cause she had a few people over and he was like "Wow fuck her!" and then by the end of the night we were alone in the living room, and he finally talked to me & madeout. I don't know what to do? He says he "kinda" likes me to people, and tells me different. I like him so much, and do not wanna give up. What should I do to get him back? Someone pleasee help.

you need to talk to him and ask him if he liikez yu...n if he saiz yes.. then ask him how come he tells he frineds "kinda" or w,e n then if yu no that he'z gonna ignore yu infront of his friends then yu should probably talk to him about that to..kuzz whats they poitn of goin out wid him wen he;s only going to nothice yu wen yur alone wid him, it seems like if he;s embarresed oor w,e.
So jUSt talk tO him..
&& HopE i HelPed
by the wAy This Senad PErSon iz hE boZniiAn and are you BoZniiaN

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How do I ask this guy that I really like who I talk to a lot in school to hang out? I think he suspects that I like him a little but I just want to hang out with him.

-Y0U CAN ASK HiM T0 G0 T0 THE M0ViES..
-A GAME AT SCH00L 0R S0METHiNG
SOMETHiNG LikE NORMAL FRiENDS D0 , IF YOU DONT WANT HIM TO KNOW THEN HAVE LIEK YOUR FRIENDS OR HIS FRIENDS COME ALONG OR SOMETHIN..
*H0pe I hELPed...

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There's this guy who goes to my school, and over Christmas break he started messaging me on MySpace saying he thought I was pretty and asking who I liked and that kind of thing. I told him my friend liked him, so I couldn't like him, and said it would be better to be friends. He agreed, and we haven't really talked since. Now, I think I'm beginning to like him, and I don't know what to do since I declined him better. What do I do?

Well you should ask him to hang out, maybe even invite yur friend to come along. like go to the movies, or something... and you can talk to your friend to see if she still likes hiim, and maybe tell her that you think your starting to like him. And if he doesnt like her then she shouldnt be wasting her time on him, if he already likes you she might not be mad. but if you dont talk to her about it she might think that your jsut trying to steal a guy she likez..

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as a last minute addition to my boyfriend's gifts.. i'm going to make him a mix of love songs.

any good r&b love songs?

HERE R SOME..

-one wish- Ray J
-GriNd WiTh Me-- Predii Ricky
-Let Me love You- Mario
-like you- Bow Wow ft. Ciara
-your Body - Predy ricky
..... if yu need more ask...
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V-day is coming up, and I have /no/ idea what to get my bf! He loves music, and plays the trumpet/piano. I was thinking about taking him to a movie, but not sure his parents would let him go because they are /super/..well.. I dunno.. they're kinda weird. I mean, I don't know how to describe them. Anyways, any ideas? Mom suggested cologne (sp?) but i figured he doesn't wear that too much. Heeeelllp!!! (Please) :P

well you should take him to MoveIes... maybe even dinner, or lunch or somethin... or since he likes music maybe you can get him his fav. c.d n some cologne.. but then you know what he likes the best so its up to you..
&& hope i helped

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I stayed over my friends house one weekend and her brother is my bestfriends boyfriend. That night me and him stayed up and hung out and played around (like hittin eachother with stuff and pushin eachother of the bed) and he said 'You know what? Dont tell Cjay(my bestfriend) this but I think I'm starting to like you. I didn't like him before he said that and I started to like him.And they are the type of couple that break up everynight and get back together sooner or later, and this was a night they broke up.Then we stayed up all night watching movies and playing around and holding hands and stuff, nothing bad. But Cjay found out and she told me to stay away from her for however long. Her b.f told me that he ment that he liked me, and not to worry b/c he'll fix everything. I don't want my best friend to hate me, but I like her b.f....Idk wat to do....

i dont think yu should go out with me.. i mean how woudl yu feel if she went out with yu EX boifriend.. like before you do anyything put your self in the othere persoons shoes and see how it would fell..
&& hope i helped
^^ hopfuliii its gonna be okay..
**tell me how it goez****

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Okay usually I have no problem talking/flirting with guys. And I usually never fall for the popular type.

But now I'm head over heels for Adam. We have a few classes together and share some similar intrests. I'm also the cheerleader for his basketball team. We talk occasionaly in class but I never know what to say around him cause he's more of the popular sort. When we do talk; its really flirting. He smiles alot and so do I. We make each other laugh alot too. However; after that its like we don't even knew each other.

How do I make things idkk .. more pumped? Hah, like how do I get us to talk more without it always being me saying " how was your day " then getting a one word answer.

Help equals instant 5.

you kould like ask him to go out to lunch or movies...you kan try to mkae you conversations more meanningfull...
&& hope i helped
if you need anything else feel free to ask...!!

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14/f.. alright can I please have some help. i'm really not sure what to get my boyfriend for valentines day (he's 15) so if you can give me some help it'd really be appreciated.thanks. I'll rate you♥

SOME THINGS YOU CAN BUY HiM:

-cologne
-shirt
-chocolate

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I've known this guy my whole life and have never really been interested. We've always been friends and he's known to many people as the guy who's always looking to get laid.

We're both transfering college right now so this semester we're both kind of taking it easy at home and going to community college (I'm 20/f btw). Lately he's been IMing and calling me like everyday to hang out and sometimes is pretty vulgar. It's more jokingly than like offensive though.

It's like "We used to be friends and we haven't talked in a year so lets go hook up" um no.. Anyway to get to the point, for whatever reason I finally gave in and agreed to go to a movie with him tonight. I'm still not interested but I know he's going to try to make a move. I don't particularly want to go, but I don't want to rude.

My real question is what should I wear? Should I look hot so I feel good and appear to be in control of the situation and then like blue ball him for badgering me for so long. Or.. should I wear like sweats and look schleppy in hopes of him maybe backing down?

Either way I don't think I'm leading him on because he knows I'm not intersted. Looking for answers asap- this date is tonight!

you should not wear sometihn HOT.. you shoudl wear liek a peair of jeans not to bad not to good.. n ya OK shirt.. n like BURKZ or something.. if he tries to make a move on you just let him not dat you are not interested. if he still doesnt stop then ask him to take you home.. if he got you there.. if you dont relly want him to take you home call you paretns or a friend to pick you up..
&& hope i helped
&& write backk about wat happenz..

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