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breakup ackwardness.
I just broke up with my boyfriend. I'm afraid it'll be like really weird now like in class and stuff. Do I still walk with him back from class? I don't like many people in that class so what do I do? I wanna like flirt with him you know? We just broke up cause he was to quite and shy and I couldn't take how ackward it was, it was like pointless. I wanna go back to being really flirty again. Maybe in the future we can go back out with a stronger relationship; more open and fun. How should I go back to us being flirty ? <3
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Tell him that even though you've broken up you'd still like to be friends. If you're not that blunt, maybe you could break the ice by asking him after class, "Mind if I walk with you?"
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I think it's kind of unfair to act all flirty with him after you've broken up. The poor guy is gonna be really confused- one minute you are breaking up with him, the next you are acting like you're interested (maybe you are not really interested in a relationship, but if you are flirting this can give the impression you are). Talk to him. Say what you didn't like about the relationship and say that you don't want to date anyone right now, but maybe in the future...? Hopefully this will keep him interested.
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You still like him,right?Then stay in that class and continue being like before.Talk to him etc.Did you tell him to break up?If yes then he probably likes you so tell him that you would like to go somewhere for a coffee.Don't tell him that this is a date etc...The best solution is to be you!He used to like you because you were yourself,didn't he?Just behave normally.And don't pay that much attention at other boys...And something else.Don't expect him being like before,ok?He needs time...
Now, about his behaviour when you used to be together...I have to guess but i think it depends on you.If you are sociable and really outroverted it is reasonable that he was shy...Ok?Because he was watching you being like that and he wasn't like that.If you are not that sociable then he was like that because this is his personality..You cannot change him!I mean, that's him and if you really like him you 've got to accept him in the way he is...Right????
Kisses honey, i hope i helped...
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just start talkin with him.. like still hang out with him and then wen youre friends agian then you can flirt with him and see how it goes.. and see why he;s shy and quite..so just take it slowly.. if you rush thingz it might go bad..
& hoPe i helPed
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