okay i like this guy. but whenever were together im really shy and so is he. we dont have much to talk about. but when were online talking its fun. i really really like him. he's the quiet and really nice type. but i kinda dont know what to say to him when im around him. my friend keeps tellin me to go up to him and slap his ass and say whats up but i am to shy to do it. how can i start talking to him more when we are together rather just online?
ILoveYoohLykeWOAH answered Saturday April 15 2006, 5:58 pm: i used to be really shy around guys that i like too...but then i just learned to act normal and be there friend. i think you should just try to get to no him and learn about what he likes...if you have something to say about his favortie topics...then you wont have anything to be shy about. i dont think its a very good idea to slap his ass...he might find that a lil weird. and he is probably shy around you because he likes you too and is having the same problem you are..he just doesnt no wat to say or how to act around you and that scares him. but just try to be interested in some of the same things he is and talk about it...he'll think its cool you are trying to get to no him
HxC_arrrrie answered Saturday April 15 2006, 3:37 pm: im actually really glad you posted this question. Ive been going out w/ this guy for about a year or so. he is really shy, and so am I. we never talk in school. dont get me wrong. i love him. alot. but we are just shy around each other i think it is really normal. or for me that is. you said you have fun talking to him online. hehe =D me too. my dad gets mad at me for talking to him online hes like * pick up the phone and call him * but whatever. my bf has slapped my ass before. pretty weird. but i didn't say ANYTHING im really shy so its okay. if you wanna talk to him more i suggest you just go up to him, even if its with a friend and just start talking. well good luck. IM me if you want. my sn is -
Xo_NeSmiiRa_Xo answered Saturday April 15 2006, 3:35 pm: you can find out what you too have in common.. and like thingz you like and then slowly start talkin to him more in person..
and then since you say yu talk to him on like and itz fun.. ask him to hang out sometime if thats easier then in person. like ask him to go to the movies or somethin that you would like to do with him.. and then ask him to hang out at skool, like games (b-ball, soccer) etc.
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