i hope i can help a lot of people with there problems cuz i have problems 2 and most of the time i understand the way other people feel. just about all of my friends turn to me for advice so i might as well help out other people also.
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i would go out with anyone who asked me right now cuz iv never had a bf.
I feel really desperate and i don't want to be. yeah, i want a bf but one i actually like. I obsess with guys but I am not gorgeous so no one likes me like that.
advice>? (link)
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i used to feel the same way. i thought i would never get a boyfriend i was shy and everything. bu then i stopped worryin about it and looked at the bright side. im sure u know that a lot of guys are players and u wouldnt want to fall in love with one of them and get your heart broken. think of it as a good thing. you will get a boyfriend soon. trust me. guys are all over me now and i have a boyfriend. your time is coming trust me.
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My boyfriend and I went to breakfast today and he kissed the waitress on the lips and she had a nickname for her. He insists she is is like a sis to him. They have known each other before I even met him. Am I too jealous, how should I react? (link)
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your not too jealous. hes your boyfriend. he shouldnt be kissin other females on the lips even if they are like a sister. two of my friends were like brother and sister. one thing lead to another and now they have been dating for almost 6 months and they have had sex numerous times. dont let this happen to you. make it stop while u have the chance.
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Ok we are always moving and we never Get ANY THING planed I just want to get my mom to understand how hard it is to get attatched to people and then move.
And How do I let myself go out with some one when Im scared a move is going to be around the corner?
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i know exactly how you feel. i moved to missouri about 4 years ago and we were there for a month then my parents started lookin for new jobs again. luckily we stay there for 4 years. now i live in kentucky and i just got into a serious relationship and im afraid hes gonna move or im gonna move or something. if you and your mom have a good relationship like where u talk. then sit down with her and explain how you feel. tell her you dont like moving. tell her that its affecting you relationships with other people. dont let her know its a boy just say other people. lol
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so you know the three words that can change a relationship forever right. I love you is so big it can change a relationship forever. Well my ex-boyfriend told me he loved me for the first time and i told him i loved him too. But then the next day he broke up with me, He said he had to many things going on in his life. what should i do should i believe that he loves me or not. please help. thanx. (link)
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sayin i love you isnt really a big thing. everyone says it. wether its to one of their friends or to someone they really love. he could have ment he loves you as a friend or maybe he ment he has love for you but hes not in love with you. ask him wut he meant. dont be afraid. you want to know so ask him. its the only way you will know wut he really ment.
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There is this guy, at my church and I also work with him,that I really like, and I think he likes me too. I don't know why I think this, but It's just a girls hunch. He and I skated together for like an hour one night at a church lock in. That isn't really a sign, but I wished it was. My friend bein retarted one day asked him if he would ever go out with me. I'm not sure how to take all this, but I'm gonna go crazy. Any one have any advice on what you think, or what you think I should do to find out. (link)
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startin flirtin with him one day then ask him if he likes you. i know u might be a little nervous about doin this but if u want to know then you have to ask.
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well, i lke someone ALOT and they used to like me but they got a girlfriend and we got into a fight over that and then we were gonna talk about it but that never ended up happening and so im really frustrated that we never got to talk about him haveing a girlfriend but what i just found out that made my frustration worse is that i found out that he broke up with his girlfriend and now is trying to get with one of my close friends.. i dont know what to do... someone help (link)
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you cant really do anything. he is a free boy. he can do what he wants. if he dont want to be with you then theres nothing you can do. just let him be. its time to move on. if he passes up the opportunity to git with you thats his loss not yours. i know you probably didnt want to hear that but its the truth hunnie.
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well before basketball practice everyday i go like a hour and a half early, well my crush stays after for the weight room. & we contantly like play fight, and stuff. Well he had hit me to i went to run away and he chased me, then he cornered me in a doorway. & put his nose to mine then kissed me and we had started making out. Then i kept being a tease and either not kissing back or grabbing his hand leading him away, slipping a little tounge and pulling away again. Then hes like can i use your cell phone to call my mom, I was like no and i smiled & then we started to kiss somemore. Then we walked out of the hallway we were in and a bunch were down at the other end then his friend jake was like are you to dating and I was like ask him & then I went to practice. Do you think I was to easy, he knows I like him alot & do you think were dating ? (link)
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i dont think your dating. right now i think you two are friends with benefits but you will start dating soon. if you still a little confused on whether or not your dating just ask him. he'll tell you. i went a month thinkin i was datin this guy and just found out yesterday we arent dating cuz he told my friend that we arent and he dont know why im tellin people we are. so just ask him. thats the best thing to do.
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I would really like a boyfriend,
just to love and be loved in return.
I'm just lonely, and everyone says,
you'll fall in love eventually.
Eventually .. huh? aghh, I'm just sick of being alone.
I mean does anyone actually get my point.. of how i wanta boyfriend, i want to be in love?
ahghh what can i do? is patience the best answer?
dont give me some mean/smartass answer please.
thanks.
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i know exactly how you feel. just about a month ago i was at a point where i thought no one loved me and no guy would ever want me. i thought i was ugly but i knew i had to do something so i went on facebook. i dont know if u have one of those or not buti went on there and looked through all the guys that go to my skool. i picked out one and sent him a message. now we talk a little here and there but he likes me and i like him so i kinda found someone on my own. and the way you find out if they liek you or not is only you talk to him. dont talk your friends about this guy and dont tell your friends about him cuz then they will talk to him and tell him stuff about you. you will be so happy when you find out that there is someone in this world that likes you and that you could git on your own without your friends help. you should try this and let me know how it goes.
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There is this guy i like and almost everytime he talks to me, he makes sarcastic remarks and jokes around with me telling me im doing things wrong. (He usually smiles when telling me this). What does this mean? (link)
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hes just being a guy. guys are always kinda mean to the gurls they like. i have this friend and he always hits me and crap and everyone thinks he likes me but he doesnt cuz we consider each other brother and sister. so like im tryin to say he might like you but then again he might not. i mean hes a guy and they send mixed signals all the time. it gits kinda annoying. hope i helped.
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Ok I have a great bf and love him but my ex bf who is also my best friend got a new gf and idk why but it hurts..i mean it shouldnt but it does cause i keep imaging she's so much prettier and better IDK WHY!! is this normal? thanks (link)
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it perfectly normal. me and my ex are best friends too and i sumtimes git jealous when he goes out with other gurls or tells me he likes other gurls. its just sumthin inside you tellin you that he was once yours and now hes just a friend and since u know that he was once yours you dont want him to go out with other people. i know exactly how you feel.
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Hey guys,
I already asked a quesion a while ago about Valentines Day. I really don't know what to get my best friend Daniel. I'm wanting to get him a stuffed animal off of this one site, but I'm having a hard time picking between all 4 bears I like. I was wondering if anyone would like to go to the site and look at the bears I'm choosing from to maybe get him, and tell me what one you like the best. I can't really decide, so if anyone wants to look at the bears I really like they are on www.bandannabear.com-I like the 2 bears in the very first row and the 2 bears in the fourth row. Those are the ones I'm choosing from to get him. If noone wants to do this, it's alright. By the way I am 15/f and he is 14/m turning 15 on the 31st of this month. He is very sweet and mature for his age. He lives in a different state, and I plan on meeting him as soon as I can save up enough money for me and my mom because she wants to go too. We've been talking now for over 6 months and aren't going out yet. We consider ourselves going out though. We already sent each other gifts for Christmas. Someone help me out if you want! If not, it's alright. I love everyone on this site anyway! Thank you so much! (link)
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how about cookies, a bear,candy, roses. do somethin nice like that im sure he would like that.
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okay so theres this kid who really likes me and has asked me out so many times and each time i have politely said no, but lately he wont quit and keeps on asking me and asking me sometimes more than once a day! how do i tell him to stop asking me without being completely rude? (link)
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just explain to him nicely that you arent interested in him and you dont want to go out with him and you just want to be friends. or if you have to lie to the kid. tell him you have a boyfriend. hope i helped.
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Well my boyfriend and I broke up a few days ago and I still love him a lot and I kno he still likes me we both don't know why we broke up and he still wants to friends but how can I be a good friend if I still have strong feelings for him I don't know what to do. I want to be friends and all but I think about him constantly and being friends is only making it worse. Should I tell him that my feelings are too strong to be just friends or just keep to myself and try not to show my feelings anymore. Help ! (link)
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i think you should definately be friends and since you still have feelings for each other maybe you 2 will get back together. u should never stop being friends just because you broke up. me and my ex are best friends now.
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christmas is 6 days away.. im sher everyone knows that and i am makin a scrapbook for my bf of 22 months this year.. i hve pictures together and stuff but i want like each page to be like something diff u know? like im havin a couple pages just be of pictures.. and i hve a special page for a note that im goin to write him in it. and i also have a page of all the reasons i love him.. does anyone hve any ideas for other pages that kind of go with this.. please please hurry though bc im plannin on puttin it all together tomorrow!!!!
tosha (link)
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maybe you can do a page with all the special times you've had together and all the times hes mad you laugh when all you really wanted to do was cry. hope i helped
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Heyy!,
Is it wrong for an 13 year old and an 11 year old to go out?..I really need someones opinion!!! (link)
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age aint nuthin but a number. anyone can go out with anyone. it doesnt matter how old you are or how old they are.
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I have been friends with this guy for 3 years and we dated but it didnt last long. Well recently we started taling alot and I like him now. I don't exactly know whats the best way to tell him i like him or how to ask him to be my bf. Any tips would be greatly appreciated.
thanks! (link)
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dont ask him out yet. find out if he likes you first. if he doesnt like you then you save yourself some embarrassment and an akward situation. hope i helped.
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Is it weird going out with someone younger than you? I'm 13and in 8th grade. And he's a year younger than me, and in 7th grade. Is that weird if he asks me out? I kinda like him...but it just kinda freaks me out to think of it? What should I do? (link)
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age aint nuthin but a number. if you really like each other you bein older wont make a difference. my friend is goin out with some one younger then her. hope i helped.
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how can i convince a guy to break up with his girlfriend bcause he thinks its okay to have me and his girlfriend at the same time and i want to show him its not i know this sounds mean but he wont leave me alone and i dont want to do stuff with him untile hes single or going out with me (link)
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if he really loves her then he wont break up with her. most guys dont they just cheat on them then they tell their gurlfriend about and tell her how sorry they are and all this other crap then they keep going out so i doubt he will break up with her if he loves her.
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I met this guy alex a couple days ago. He flirted with me almost the whole night then 3 days ago i went to a party and we made out. He said he would call em afterwards but he never did. I dont know his number or sn . I dont know how to get him to liek me becasue im pretty interested. DO u think he just wanted ass? (link)
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i think he was just using you. he needed someone to make out with and hopefully give him head. dont take it personal but i doubt he will call you.
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As stated in my profile. I have been told that I give good advice but I cant take my own.
*Well I've been with my Boyfriend for awhile now, and we are completly happy. He calls me each and everyday and tells me he loves me. And its only every so often that we go a day without seeing each other. I love him to death, i really do.
So lately I've been telling him I want to be with him for a very long time, and he always grabs my hand and smiles and says we have a long time left together babe.
Well at a young age I was rapped by an older guy and then, I actually gave another guy a chance and slept with him and then he cheated on me and broke up with me because I was too insecure.
And this is the Second guy since the incident that I've slept with and he's been there and loved me and hasnt giving me a reason to doubt him. But it's like Im scared of losing the love of my life. I swear every man that I've every loved I've lost...My dad died when i was 13!
Well today I was quiet and he looked me in the eyes and asked me what was wrong and i got all teary eyed and said I dont want to lose you...and he was quiet and said dont think that way i love you and only you and dont want anyone else, dont think your going to lose me we've still got along time together...well you think that would make me feel better right? Well it didnt, im still iffy....
We are leaving to go to mexico tomorrow with my family for about 4 days and then December 18 we are leaving to New Hampshire to stay with his family for two weeks...so i know he is pretty serious about me but Im still scared...i dont know what it is i trust him to death but idk....
-I'm not looking for the answer of: Don't think of him as all the other relationships. Or dont freak out about him, dont be so insecure it'll be okay...i need some serious advice...-
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well i know your not looking for an answer of dont look at him as all the other relationships but thats exactly what you need to do. if hes takin you to meet his family and hes takin the time to meet yours hes serious about your relationship. if hes slept with you and hasnt left you then hes serious about you. stop thinkin negatively. think about all the good times you've had together and all the times your gonna have together in the future. tell him what he means to you and he will do the same in return then you will know hes not like all the other guys. i hope i helped.
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