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Okay so i've liked this guy for about 4 years...he is my best friend and i know he doesn't like me because he told me. Thats fine, but the problem is, i can't seem to get over him...no matter what i do, i can't stop thinkin bout him or comparing other guys to him...does anyone have any advice? (link)
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You're doing it all wrong. The problem is your trying. So stop trying. Hope I could help.
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See, my sister and I we both like this guy right?! Well this guy has a girlfriend. But he took my sister to the store today and he was all saying how he likes her and he wants to kiss her and stuff. And I think that is wrong, he has a girlfriend. He also told her that he's afraid to be without a girlfriend and that he is only with his girlfriend because of that and he wants to date my sister but he is afraid of rejection. And this guy knows I like him. I mean, I don't like him majorly. But it's enough to make me weak in the knees, ya know. And I mean I know I'm jealous here. But they rub it in my face and I don't want to tell her that so is there anyway else I could cope with this situation without being sad or crying. My sister keeps taking everything from me. She took my friend too. I mean I still have my friend but she hardly will talk to me now.. Ah, please help. (link)
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I think you and your sister should talk about it. No matter what happens, you'll still find yourself a little sad about the matter but, see if your sister really likes him and if there is a possible chance of them being together, unfortunately, you shouldn't stand in the way. Hopefully things will work out and you'll meet a new guy and he'll like u and you'll like him.
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ok well theres this guy who is really nice, hott, funny, sweet, and just PERFECT!! all tha gurl'z adore him!!! and i feel soo lucky that he constantly flirt'z w/ me! It'z been lyke 3 months that we've been flirting (NO JOKE) and i mean that'z pretty long. We act lyke a couple and evrythin..like he tries to kiss me, and he licks me and stuff..but i mean i dont wanna kiss him unless we are actually goin steady..i SERIOUSLY Need some help becuz im wayyyyy too afriad of asking him out myself..if u have any ideas..PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!! ILL RATE U!!!! (link)
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Go for him. If he ends up with another girl, you always wonder if u guys had a chance. Trust me I know. Hopefully what I say helps.
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I'm a 17 y/o guy in highschool with a mad crush on this girl that I've known since middle school. In middle school, she tried to hook up with me in an indirect way with obvious hints but then I didn't have any idea what to do so we stayed friends. I guess I was still in that cootie phase of puberty. But now I'm a junior in highschool and recently she's been on my mind alot like crazy. There's something about her that keeps my head stuck on her all the time, other girls might catch my attention but damn she got something special. There are a few guys that are trying to hook up with her but I heard from word of mouf that she likes me. Now that I've given you the intel on my situation, I was wondering what would you do to get the girl or to improve the chances of hooking up with her? I'd be real grateful if you can help me out. (link)
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Well if you heard that she likes you, I think if you guys are friends, you need to tell her how you feel.Or else, you'll always wonder whether or not you guys had a chance. If it makes you feel better, I've kind of been in that situation before only I blew it by not letting the guy know how i felt about him. It will definitely bother you. Just get enough courage and ask her out. Good luck!
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hi im 13 and this may sound really dumb, but there is this girl i really like. she calls me alot. i like that. she is attractive, not by that much but still i like the whole thing, only one problem.......my friends hate her, she is a year older than i but she is new (so she doesnt really know anyone else) i get embarrased wen she calls around my friends and make up lies to them about how i feel. help. (link)
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Well as long as you like her, that's all that matters. Don't pass up on a girl u find pretty cool just because your friends don't. It's not fare to her, and it's not fare to you. Maybe if you let your friends no what it is about her you like and if they see the good qualities in her, who know, they might end up being her friend and her being theirs.
Good Luck!
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Okay during the summer i lost my virginity to this guy, well tonite i went over to his house and we are like best friends now but i miss him and i really want him.. it makes me sad to see him cuz he is always talking to girls and never talks to me about what happened should i tell him how i feel or not (link)
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I definitely think you should. After all you lost your V to him so, he is someone you will remember for the rest of your life. As far being able to be with him, I'm not rerally sure but you should just tell him how you feel anyways. Hopefully I helped you out a little.
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hey im 16 years old/male
ok one day my girl friend came over to meet my parents. My psrents loved her till i mentionrd that she was my girl friend. They kicked her out of the house snd told me to never see her again.ONe night i snook out to see her and was caught. I just love her to much. HERE ARE MY QUESTIONs
ONe should i say forget my parents and go out with her?
Should our relationship go on?
WAt will i do if her psrents want to meet me (link)
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If you really love her, stay with her. If you don't, then let her go. Just remember that relationships aren't always easy.
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theres this guy.. that i wuld do anything to b with.. andd i kno he likes me.. buhh he does have a rep with grls.. buhh he doesnt waste tyme on askin grls outta cuz basically he doesnt need to if all he wants his shyt.. he can have grls in a sec.. and hes thinking of askin me out..i kno hes a player buhh.. cant u change a player? like if u kno they like u for a fact.. do u think i can? cuz i can so picture myself fallin in love with himm and having sex with himm (link)
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You can't change A PLAYER. And if it may seem like you may change them, you really aren't. That's just who they are.
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i like this guy but i alwayse make excuses not to see him. I broke up with my last boyfriend, and it was really bad. I think i'm just scared this new guy will hurt my feelings again. What should i do? (link)
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Take it easy. Become friends first. Don't do anything with him. If he treats you well as just a friend, he'll treat you well as a girlfriend.
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Hey,its me again with another problem so here goes. Well Ive been seeing this great guy named Luis. I've know him for a long and I really like him but the problem is that he lives about an hour away from me but he has been visiting me at least once a week and everything is great. But the problem is that theres another guy named Jessie who I've known for a long time also but all of a sudden I feel happy and sometimes when its really cold in the mornings he gives me his sweater or hugs me when I'm cold wich is now giving me second thoughts about Luis. Because I know that I really like Luis but i don't know what to do about Jessie. Please help A.S.A.P. (link)
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If you are inlove with Luis, then back off from jessie. If you don't see yourself having a future with Jessie, break up with him
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Hey, this guy told me how much he really liked me the other day and I turned him down because I wanted to be single but now he is goin out with my best friend and I changed my mind I think I'm jealous, but what should I do (link)
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There's nothing you really can do unless you are the type of person who backstabs friends.
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my best friend and my ex boyfriend have done stuff before and they still like each other on and off. and thats the same for me and him, but i want to do stuff with him but i dont want my best friend to find out and get mad. should i do it or just forget about him? (link)
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I say forget about him. There are plenty of other guys to be with. You'll just end up hurting others, and getting hurt yourself.
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