My BoYfRiEnD rIgHt NoW iS aBrEy JaMeS!!!My best friend is Autum Waw, Nikki Joyce and we r like so freakin always goin to be friends. it doesnt matter who trys to stop that from happening. ppl tried last year and it didnt stop us so nothing ever will. (i am knocking on wood like crazy.) lol!
Nicky you are the best!! I LOVE YOU!!
Danielle Babe your the best. I couldnt live without you!!! ;) I LOVE YOU!!!
I hang out with Danielle Semore, Autum Waw, Tera Potts, Austin Hullet Mullet Gullet, Josh Plater, Chris Bullard, Matt Woodard, Nicky Defrange, Nikki Joyce, Kevin Fletcher, Amanda Allen, Sara Carrillo, Savanah Smith, Rebecca Marquez, Brandon Eckert, Thomas Gearinger, Lisa Heflin, Josh Garber, Daniel Kerbow, Ariel Sanders, Shawn Adams, Chris Wood.!!!!!!! ThEy ArE tHe BeStEsT pEoPlEs EvEr!!!
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This is the only way i can make this short .. me and my boyfriend have been dating for over 2 months now and our relationship was going well. Like not even a week ago i started to hang out with these guys that he doesn't like or trust .. i told him that i was hanging with them and he got really pissed and we started arguing. In our relationship i am completely honest with him because i don't want to hide something from him and have him find out later from someone else and him get madder than he would've if i had told him in the first place. Well i am starting to have these feelings for a guy i've been hanging out with and i told my boyfriend. He totally flipped out because now he thinks that i like this guy more than i like him - which is NOT true at all. I love my boyfriend with all my heart and i always will no matter what happens between us. I'm just wondering if i should tell my boyfriend that we need to take a break from our relationship so i can figure out if the feelings for the other guy are deep or if i should just forget about the other guy or what?! PLEASE HELP! =( (link)
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i say that you should forget about the other guy. its probably just a crush that was developed because you started hanging out with someone new. eventually it will go away. believe me. i have been there and done that a time or two and the feelings have always gone away. i know that this isnt a lot of information about why you should forget about the other guy, but i cant really explain in detail that well on this situation.
i really hope that i helped you and i hope you have good luck with your boyfriend. i know how you feel, i cant not tell my boyfriend something either.
signed:~Desy~
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ok so recently i was being very stupid and decided to flash my best friend's cousins's ex boyfriend. what the problem you ask... I HAVE A BOYFRIEND and I told him about cause I didn't want to lie about it and he said he's mad but not going to dump me cause of but i still feel bad for doing it in the first place. so my question do you have any ideas on how i can make it up to him? p.s. no sexual answers plzzz.
-Nikki- (link)
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if i were u i would tell him that you are so so sooooooo sorry and that you will make sure that it dont ever happen again. i know what its like to do something like that and i told my boyfriend about it the only difference is that my boyfriend broke up with me he was so mad. of course after he had time to think about it he came running back to me. so just tell him that it wont EVER happen again and you have to be dead honest about it. and make sure it dont happen.
hope i helped!
signed:~Desy~
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I have a new boyfriend. He used to be a good friend of my but we started to have feelings for eachother. I know this question may be a bit cliche` but things are awkward. It just so happens he's my first REAL boyfriend & I'm not used to what's going on. Tonight's our first day & I'm started to have second thoughts. I miss how things were when the two of us were friends but I'm afraid that if I end things, they'll never be the same.
~Violet // 13/f (link)
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if i were you i would explain everything to him. i know that he might act weird for a few days but he will get back to his normal self. thats what always happens when i date my bestfriends. they freak out after we first break up but they always bounce back. sometimes it takes longer for other people so give him at least two weeks and he will most likely be back to normal. hope i helped!
good luck!
signed:~Desy~
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Heyy! I am a 14 year old girl
I have a MAJOR problem... I have a boyfriend of almost 5 months and we are really happy! He was my first kiss...let alone that but we haev madeout and french kissed! which sounds like alot but when you see how happy we are you could see why we have done that! The only problem is our parents dont know and we dont plan to tell them any time soon...both of us arent supposed to have a gf/bf until we are 16 or 17.... we are seriously meant for each other and he says he loves me and i love him...i haev never felt this way!
WHAT SHOULD I DO! I dont know if we shoudl tell our parents or just wait to tell them...what would you do???? any advice would be helpful!
thx (link)
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you should probably tell them sometime soon but don't do it to quickly ease yourself into it. they are you parents you should know how they are going to react. u should also know when their in a good mood and when it is a good time to talk about it. You can play that to your advantage too.
hope i helped
signed:~desy~
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when i was a kid and even in middle school..i didnt even want a boyfriend i was soo occupied with sports n school n my friends i didnt think about having a boyfriend. Well im in highschool now..and all of a sudden something just changed in me..i want to find love now..is that normal and will i ever find love? They say some dont..is that true? (link)
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if you really want to find TRUE LOVE bad enough then you will one of these days. some people dont find the right person because they dont look close enough to someone that they know. the truth is that the best of relationships start out as a friend thing so if you want to find love NOW then look for it in someone that you know really well!!! yeah it is normal because some people (like you) just arent ready to make a cometment to someone when they are in elementry school and middle school because there is so much other stuff out there and they just dont think that a boy will help them do everything that they want to do so it is completely normal for you to want to find "Mr. Right" all of a sudden.
good luck!
hope i helped!
signed:~Des~
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ok, everybody has a different deffintion of love, and i want to know what you think about it. it can be serious, or just goofy. i dont care, but i wanna know that you all think of it. and do you believe in love at first site?? thnx (link)
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yes i do and i cant really explain what love is!
signed: ~Des~
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ok, heres my problem. im in 7th grade (13 years old). ive gone out with the same guy three times in the past two years, and everyone thinks thats really weird. ive had other boyfriends, of course, but he was always the best. no matter how hard we try, everytime either of us gets a crush on someone else, it only lasts for a couple of weeks, then we realize how much we love each other. i think theyre really might be something between us, but i would feel SO embarrased to get back together with him because everyone at my school would think it odd for it to be the 4th time to go out with him in 2 years!!! but then again, i dont want to loose what i have... hes a REALLY awesome guy! hes a good football player, and hes really hot, but also he has another artsy side to him. he can find beauty in almost anything and aif your in a bad mood, he makes you feel like youre the most amazing person on the planet. so what should i do? i rate good responses. (link)
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i think that if you really like this person, then it shouldnt matter what other people think. you should follow your heart and not let it bother you that people think its weird. me and my boy friend have been on and off six or seven times in the past two years. everyone at our school thinks its weird, but we dont care because they dont run our lives and tell us what is weird or not. we do. and if they have a problem with you and ur friend getting together for the 4th time then that is their problem not yours. they arent the ones running ya'lls lives....you are. and you should go out with him if you want to because that is your personal life not theirs and they should realize that they dont have a say in who you do and dont go out with.
Thanks for asking...i am glad to help in anything the best i can.
signed:~Des~
p.s. if you have any other questions feel free to drop one in my inbox thanks again.
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okay like,me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 months and 2 days. and i absolutely love him with everything i have. but i feel like he's becoming too attached and serious. i'm 15 and he's 17 about to turn 18. ((thats beside the point)) but like last saturday ((march 5th)) he asked me if i would promise to marry him and he gave me a promise (("pre-engagment")) ring. well of course i said yes. because it's what i was thinking at the time. but now i'm having second thoughts. i mean i'm only 15 i have the rest of my teen years to live. i just dont know what to do. i wanna tell him were getting to serious, but i still love you and wanna be with you.
eck..someone please help! ...=]...i ratteeee!!!
--in (link)
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I think that if you really love you and he loves you back as much as you think he does, then if you tell him that you think that yall are gettin to serious to soon then he will understand were you are coming from. if you do tell him that you are going to have to make sure he is going to listen to you completely, and that he is going to hear you out. It is prolly going to be really hard but if that is truely what you want to do then you need to follow your heart. If he loves you and cares about you then he will listen to your thoughts about this and he will understand.
Hope I Helped!
Good Luck!!!
signed:~DeSy~
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THere is this guy and i really like him and hes in one of my classes and my friend asked him if he likes me and he said he doesnt like any one right now and i really wanna get closer to him like talk to him more and get him to like me so how do i do that?
I rate 5's (link)
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ummmm......well just talk to him that is what you have to do anyway. if that came across to you in a rude way im sry and i didnt mean for it to. but the only way you will ever be able to get closer to him is to talk to him and that is what you want to do.
hope i helped!
signed: ~DeS~
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Here’s the information you need to know before I tell you the problem.
-The people who are involved are me, my brother, and our friends M and G.
-Our parents are on a benefit basketball vacation because we all play.
-I give my brothers team there plays
-M is on the opposing team and my brother and G are on the same team.
-M asked me to the formal before all this happened.
Day 1) okay well it was the Friday my dog got put down, my brother had a basketball game, and I went into a crying fit so M and G tried to help. then I went over to Gs and I went home afterwards and M came over to be with me because it was storming.
Day 2)I made the winning shot at my basketball game, M gave me a hug before I could get to G, and I broke away from him to get to G. we went out to lunch, I walked home with G, just the 2 of us. M got mad. I got home and before I got there, my friend called and told me that M said yes to this girl for the formal. so I flipped on him and ran outside and then he came after me and said he wouldn’t have said yes if he knew i liked him, cuz he thought I wanted to go with G. and then I told him he hated me and he said no, i love you. so I dont know.
1 and a half weeks later)another bball game, for the boys. M got a technical, and so I said, its ok M. and he was like, I love you, and he yelled it to me and the ref thought he was talking to him, so he said ok that’s it get out of here. and then M was like, why I was talking to my gf. and he was like right, I am sure she’s your gf. so he came over and gave me a really long kiss, and G got upset. So the ref resigned the technical. But that doesnt matter.
I don’t know what to do, at all!!!
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well if i were you i would explain to G that you are going out with M and that he shouldnt be mad. But it also seems that both of them are jelous when the other person is around you and you have to try to get that to stop. I cant say that i know this will work but it is worth a try and that is all you can do is try. I havent been in this bad of a relationship with one of my friends and my b/f so i dont know how well its going to work. all i can do is give you some little bit of advice and if you try it out and it works that is great. i know i wasnt much help with your question but i gave the best answer that i could. good luck. and i hope this problem gets better for you and you find some sort of solution. good luck with you and your b/f too.
thanks for asking us.
signed: ~DeS~
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hey destiny this is one of your best friends and i have a problem. Everyone makes fun of me cuz i dated an 11 year old and im 14 so what should i do to let peeps know im over that whole young kid thing
love kid lover (link)
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ummm.... have you tried to tell anybody that you are over him? im really trying hard to figure out who this is that is asking the question so if you could really give me some more information aobut him i might be able to help a little bit more. but if you try to tell everyone that you are over him then that should work.
if it doesnt work you can im me at prtygrl2009@yahoo.com or you can im me at hotredpeppers56@aol.com or at seksielilchick09@aol.com
i really hope i helped so let me now how much i helped.
signed:Toddsbff
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hello my name is nicky and i have a question for desy.........wat do i do when the guy i like and i think he likes me but we just cant get along and he always ignores me and i think i love him i just cant understand y he is so mean to me
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i think that you should try to talk to him and see what happens.
signed: Toddsbff
nicky your the best friend anyone could ever have!!! texomaparkway!! haha shhhhhhhhhh!! good times!!
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One of my best guy friends asked me out the other day,John and i was thrilled. We have always been close, but i was to worried of asking him out. Well me and him have been doing great, exscept that one of my friend likes him. I knew that before but that was about 5 months ago, since then she has been saying that she likes someone new and she does'nt like John anymore. I'm wondering if i should break up because of my friend or not? Another reason Im wondering if I should break up with him is because I'm afriad that when we break up we wont talk to each other ever agian? Should I break up with him before we get to close? Please help...I dont want to hurt my friend because of him (link)
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i dont think that you should break up with him just because your friend likes him. and as of breaking up with him that way you and him will still talk after you break up for sure. i dont think you should look at the bottom side of things. me and my boyfriend are bestfriends and we go out and break up all the time and we always talk after that. so just go along with it and look at the UP side of things.
good luck.
signed: Toddsbff
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do u lov me (link)
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OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH MY GOD YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
signed: me
I DO LOVE YOU!!!!
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Recently, I watched a scary movie with my best guy friend. I get scared easy so I clung to him, plus he had really good colonge on. Now everyone thinks I like him and that he likes me. I don't know if I do. I mean I like hugging him and how he holds me and stuff. So, my question is "Do you think I like him," cuz I don't really know and I just want to get an idea if I'm giving off the vibe at least. By the way, I'm female and 15. (link)
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well it seems to me that if i would have been there and seen you and him i would have thought that you were going out but that could just be me.
good luck on this question. hope you get some good answers.
signed:ToddsBff
p.s. i do that too and everyne thinks that about me and my bestfriend but he is 22 and i am 13 almost 14 so yeah...................
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So my cousin had me meet this guy via phone and we hit it off really well. He's funny and easy to talk to. I started to like him and Im pretty sure it was mutual. We planned to meet up and I was really excited until I learned a little more about him. He's a metal head. lol He's got the long hair and listens to that kind of crazy music. We dont have a lot in common and definately not the same type of friends. He's my complete opposite. So the question.. Which would be worse > To date him and be labeled as "desperate" because he's not exactly my type.. Or not date him and be called shallow because he looks different than what I normally go for? (link)
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well you know what they say.........Opposites attract. I think you should date him and just see what happens. I mean just because hes not exactly like what you are usually going with doesnt mean that you dont know him as much as you could. Ya'll could really have somethings in common and you just dont know it yet. if you want to get to know him better before you date him then go for it but you could learn either way if ya'll have somethings in common that you just dont know about yet.
Good Luck!
signed:ToddsBff
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im 13/f my bestfriend is 13/m and i like him so much!! he knows i like him but he wont ask me out! no one will ask me out because im "uglY" but the guys ive been out with say im beautiful but i dont think so anymore. my self esteem went down, i use to think i was so pretty but the guy i like dosnt like me! but i look alot older than what i am so i get all the older guys but i dont want older guys because they want more from me! how do i get him 2 like me? i know thats a stupid question but ive known him 4ever and ive liked him forever and he use 2 like me 2
please help
thanks (link)
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just be yourself. you shouldnt have to please anybody just to get you to like them for someone your not. I understand about all the older guys and i know that they usually want more from a girl then what the girl wants to give. so just be your self and eventually he might start to like you again. he might just be going through one of his phases that girls just dont understand.
Good Luck! if you need anything else jsut ask and we will be able to answer as best that we can.
signed:ToddsBff
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isit true that girls that dont grow up with any type of male figure in their life wil often cling to a possible male figure that pays alittle attention to them ?
srry if it doesnt make sence.. (link)
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Yes actually this is true. I know that my friend has done that to a lot of guys and well i have almost. she wound up losing her virginity and almost got pregnate 3 or 4 times.
thanks for asking!
Signed:ToddsBff
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Yes, I realize these questions are asked ad infintum, but here we go.
I am 17, as is my girlfriend. We have only been dating for about 3 weeks, but we have already established a strong bond. I'm working on Valentine's Day itself, so I'm attempting to come up with an idea of what to do on whatever day we both have off that is closest to it. I know that I would like to take her out to eat, but what else? Shall I bring chocolates to give? A picture frame?
Also, she usually comes in to see me when I'm at work and she isn't, and Valentine's Day probably won't be an exception. Should I have something to give to her there?
I doubt she's expecting much of anything, so I would like to surprise her. Give your opinions, plz kthx - K' (link)
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Well i know that I like to get sruffed animals and stuff. My cuzin who is 17 her b/f gives her roses and stuff and she loves them. I think that a rose would be a really sweet gift. I can't really think of anything else to give her at the moment but if i do i will tell you.
signed: ToddsBff
P.S. good luck! and have fun while you are at it! I love to shop for Valentines Day its really fun to just go look at the stuff and everything. good luck again!
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I have a MAJOR delema here! I know I'm not the prettiest girl, skinniest girl, most in-shape girl, smartest girl, preppiest girl, fashionable girl, etc on earth! But I also know that I'm a pretty girl! About 5'3 with long brown hair and eyes, 115lbs... well my problem is that I havent had a bf for more than a year!! And that didnt even count! we went out for like 2 weeks then I found out he was cheating... well lets just say i dont talk to him anymore!! Anyways I feel so not wanted (if that makes sense?), like all the guys dont want to be with me unless its to HOOK UP!! And i absolutely hate that! I'm not a skank at all! I know what yall are gonna say tho: "ohh dont worry your beautiful inside and out and any boy would be lucky to have you" but thats not the advice I need! I just dont know what to do!!! I'm going crazy! I want a boy soo bad but I want a REAL relationship that lasts more than A WEEK!! HELP (link)
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well just take your time eventually when the time is right you will meet somebody that reallie likes you and you will really like him. last year i was having this same problem and well now i am with one of my best friends. sooooo just take it slow and dont get caught up with wanting a boifriend so much. everything will be ok.
good luck.
signed: Toddsbff
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