Question Posted Wednesday February 2 2005, 12:59 pm
Yes, I realize these questions are asked ad infintum, but here we go.
I am 17, as is my girlfriend. We have only been dating for about 3 weeks, but we have already established a strong bond. I'm working on Valentine's Day itself, so I'm attempting to come up with an idea of what to do on whatever day we both have off that is closest to it. I know that I would like to take her out to eat, but what else? Shall I bring chocolates to give? A picture frame?
Also, she usually comes in to see me when I'm at work and she isn't, and Valentine's Day probably won't be an exception. Should I have something to give to her there?
I doubt she's expecting much of anything, so I would like to surprise her. Give your opinions, plz kthx - K'
xOalmaOx answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 4:48 pm: well i don`t know if this wud be over doiinq it but if yu really love her yu cud do this..
give her 11 roses n one fake one with that yu can give her some chocolates n a card that says.. im giviinq yu 12 roses-->> 11 real and one fake when the last one dies thats when ill stop loviinq yu!
^^give this to her when yu go out to the restarant!
ii think that wud be really swe3t to get!!
n ii agree with notso when she said give her a card telliinq her about yur plans that nite! thats a gOod idea!
ToddnDesBffeNe answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 4:04 pm: Well i know that I like to get sruffed animals and stuff. My cuzin who is 17 her b/f gives her roses and stuff and she loves them. I think that a rose would be a really sweet gift. I can't really think of anything else to give her at the moment but if i do i will tell you.
lovely1 answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 3:41 pm: hey i understand what your problem is. I'm a girl so i can help you on some things to give her here we go.!!!
first off you dont want to over do it cause ya'll only been going out for three weeks.
the dinner thing is nice i'm sure she would enjoy that so maybe ya'll could have a one on one conversation to get to knw each other a little better. also if you really want to impress her maybe you could send flowers to her job(if she has one if not try sending them to the house. or if you dont like that idea bring the flowers to the dinner) maybe you could go to the movies but if your budget is kinda tight you could always rent a movie!! but if you dont like those ideas you can pick her up and do watever she has on her mind basically make it "her special day". those are just things i would want to do but i'm sure anything from the heart would satisfy her fine!!!
BeautifulMadness answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 3:33 pm: Chocolates are sweet but not always such a good idea - they're not very original and she might not want to eat them because they're too fattening :P
Flowers are slightly better (unless she's allergic!) - try and find out from friends what her fave flower is?
Is there any way you could take her somewhere special during the day (e.g. a sunset over the beach, on a hill (lol, providing you can get up there!), even on a balcony or through a window)?
Do you have any photos of you two together? If you do (even if it's not many), you could always start off a photo album with them and leave a note saying something like 'I hope we can keep filling this up with pics' or whatever.
Just find something that she would really like - the more personal and unique, the better. For example, if she has rose perfume, buy her some rose scented candles. If she likes dogs, get her a cuddly toy dog. If she likes teddies, try and find one of those special teddy shops (such as The Bear Factory) where you can choose the clothes and colour of the bear and even put a voice box in it with a special recorded message (they're suprisingly cheap). If she likes writing, buy her a pretty note book and pen (or tomboyish, sophisticated, whatever her style is).
A photo frame - with a photo of you guys in - like you suggested is a nice idea too :)
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx [ BeautifulMadness's advice column | Ask BeautifulMadness A Question ]
x0 HotT In PiNk answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 1:49 pm: Ok you deff need help so i'm hear to help! when you go to eat dessert give her a bear with it holding a box of choclates and give them to her for dessret! And Than go whereever she wants to go dancing whatever! this nite is all about her! And then if you have a picture of you and her gat a fuzzy picture frame and give it to her! When she comes to vist you give her a rose and if she has her ears perieced get her earings! Just rember that nite is all about her! anything she wants to do you do just go to dinner make sure it's a fancy resturant thoguh cause then she will probly thiink ur cheep! [ x0 HotT In PiNk's advice column | Ask x0 HotT In PiNk A Question ]
Notso answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 1:29 pm: go ice skating. Yeah it's corny and cliched, but it's still cute. If you don't have an ice rink, then you just suck. Or try and figure out one of her secret interests. Maybe she's just dying to go to bowling, or to a museum, or "paint your own ceramics" or a musical but doesn't want to look like a nerd for suggesting it. Depending on how much the actual activity costs, and I'm just guessing you are paying for the whole thing, I'd say that's more than enough.
When she comes to visit you on valentines day, give her like a card and maybe some chocolates, but use the card as an invitation to the great date you are planning.
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