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Question Posted Saturday February 12 2005, 10:54 pm

One of my best guy friends asked me out the other day,John and i was thrilled. We have always been close, but i was to worried of asking him out. Well me and him have been doing great, exscept that one of my friend likes him. I knew that before but that was about 5 months ago, since then she has been saying that she likes someone new and she does'nt like John anymore. I'm wondering if i should break up because of my friend or not? Another reason Im wondering if I should break up with him is because I'm afriad that when we break up we wont talk to each other ever agian? Should I break up with him before we get to close? Please help...I dont want to hurt my friend because of him

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xoxMayjoNxox answered Sunday February 13 2005, 3:03 pm:
If your friend said she likes somebody els, then you should still date john. Sit down with your friend and make shure you are not hurting her feelings in any way. But to tell you the truth.. i went out with one of my close guy friends and when we broke up we ended up not speaking to eachother

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Link answered Sunday February 13 2005, 9:57 am:
If you really like him dont break up with him you have to know take care of yourself before you take care of your friends inless they are really in need of your help but trust me if you really like him dont break up.

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shake answered Saturday February 12 2005, 11:29 pm:
Bah, keep him.

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fiestygreendevil answered Saturday February 12 2005, 11:26 pm:
That happened to me once and IT's happened the other way around...sometimes people only like other people when you KNOW that they're taken...So i wouldn't break up with him yet..give it some time or else you might end up breaking 2 hearts

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ToddnDesBffeNe answered Saturday February 12 2005, 11:22 pm:
i dont think that you should break up with him just because your friend likes him. and as of breaking up with him that way you and him will still talk after you break up for sure. i dont think you should look at the bottom side of things. me and my boyfriend are bestfriends and we go out and break up all the time and we always talk after that. so just go along with it and look at the UP side of things.

good luck.

signed: Toddsbff

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feverdancer03 answered Saturday February 12 2005, 11:13 pm:
Well if your friend said she doesnt like him n e more.....why shouldt you go out with him. Especially if your happy. As far as keeping your friendship with him if you break up, if you are really good friends, you should stay good friends no matter what. You shouldnt take risks with people because of what might happen, think about now, and your feelings for him NOW.

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