There is this boy who has a girlfriend who always come to my house to play with my brother. He is so cute. when he comes over, he always flirt with me. I want to go out with him, but he has like 15 GF's. Besides, one of his girlfriends is my friend. I don't want to ruin our relationship. She knows that I used to like him. What should I do.
Ok.. not being mean or rude, why would you want a guy with like 15 girlfriends? He seems like a player to me, but I think Im being hypocritical. I mean, if he cheats on his girlfriend(s), what makes you think he wouldn't cheat on you as well if you two ever got in a relationship?
I've been there before though. I liked this guy who cheated on EVERYBODY he ever went out with. But I still liked him. But I knew better.. but you always seem to want what you don't need, haha. But.. I would try it out with this guy. I mean, if you like him, you like him. Sometimes we have to make mistakes just to learn for ourselves. But who knows, this may not be a mistake & this guy may really truly like you! And hey, he's cute!
As for you're friend, just talk to her.. Find out if she really likes him like a lot. Some of my friends just have their boyfriends because they buy them things..
Maybe I helped at least a lil bit. Wish you the best of luck!
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I want to break up with my boyfriend in a way. I do because we spend way to much time together and he eventually gets annoying. But I know I wold be jealous if I seen him with other girls and it will make it hard because we go to school together, work together, and yeah. But I don't want to hurt him but he will probably be a butt about wanting to still be friends. He doesn't drive and I always have to kinda haul him around. What should I do? I will rate high!
Ok.. Well.. I kinda feel the same way except I have the opposite problem. My b/f never has time for me nor I for him because our schedules seem to always conflict but we really enjoy ourselves when we are together, but what you need to do is just be like, "Hey, I feel like chilling alone tonight. I need some 'me' time." I'm sure he'll understand & if he doesn't, you didnt need him in the 1st place. But even if you dont want to break up with him, make him break up with you or something.. but then there's the issue of you still wanting 2 be friends with him. Just tell him. Tell him you think you're getting 2 close & you wanna back off for a lil while.. take a break for a little while. Sorry this is so long.. Hope it helped at least a little!
XoXo, Stephanie
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What do you think is the average age to get your first kiss?
Ok.. I got my 1st technical kiss in kindergarten, haha. But I got my first real, actual kiss at 14. So probably around 13, 14, or 15..
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My ex and i havent been together for 18 mos. now.
Hes had a gf for over a year, but the relationship burned out as quickly as it started.(they had sex the 2nd night they hung out) Him and i did alot of stuff, but we didnt have sex completely>(I didnt let him go in all the way> we liked each other since 7th grade, but we didnt start going out until our soph. year)We grew to love each other. This last gf that hes been with is as easy as they come(she will have sex with any guy) Shes 16 and has had at least 6 partners that i know of. My ex and her fought all the time. She told me he was an ass to her, but she would always keep taking him back! Its just a vicious cycle. He told me they fell in love very fast. I told him thats not love and that love takes time to grow, and he told me not to tell him what love is because he already knows!!! His version and mine arent the same by any means!! Sex is very sacred to me and i take it very seriously. This girl he cant seem to let go of throws it around like it means nothing to her!
When we were together>he never wanted to be with anyone else, just the two of us. He didnt want to hang out or do anything with anybody>just us two!! He was the very same way with his last gf too, but way worse! All they did was screw all the time! He lost all of his friends because of it. I wanted him to spend time with his friends and he always took that the wrong way, like i didnt want to be with him.
Since hes had her, he looks at relationships so differently now. When he was with me, he told me that hes not like that, and he didnt care if he got any, he just wanted to be with me!
We've hung out 2 times now since they have been broken up. The first time was last Nov. In the 3 hrs we hung out, we wrestled, gave each other back rubs, then he started making out with me. I was cool with that until he asked me to let him "stick it in". I told him no! He asked me at least 4 more times after, and i just kept saying no. I didnt hear from him after that. He told me he made his choice and wanted her back! 3 mos. later after they broke up again...we hung out once again! This time we just cuddled. The things that he was saying to me, i couldnt believe that was him talking! He told me he wants someone experienced, and that he doesnt want a virgin. *Theyre no fun*! (well screwing his last ex must feel like a virgin because he told me she bleeds everytime they do it) Shes been with another guy and he brags to everyone what they do and he talks so much crap about her, but he told me shes easy and thats all he wants. She still calls my ex says she still loves him, goes to his house before going to this other guys house. He doesnt care that she has sex with other guys just as long as he knows she still loves him and he will wait for her for as long as it takes.(just as long as she still gives him what he needs) and im sure she does.
He told me that im not up to par. I have been known to "Kiss" a guy here and there. wow, "kissing" verses "sex".
I thought that guys wanted girls that havent been around! How could he have changed soo much, and think that sex is love?? He can tell me hes in love with her all he wants, but i know, and so does everyone else>that hes in love with the SEX!! If he cared about her, he wouldnt be treating her like shit, and calling her a slut!!
So if any guys are reading this>please help me to understand what love is to them!!
Will rate high! Im sorry this is so long!
Ok chick, Im sorry but that is nothing but a J-E-R-K!!! He's a loser & you don't EVEN need to be around him. All he's looking for is a nice piece of booty & he doesn't love you or her because if he did, he would care & respect the two of you more. But his little slut probably brainwashed him & told him that he didnt need to be with you because you dont put-out & I couldnt respect you more. You just didnt need this guy & my best advice is to just kick him to the curb because he is not EVEN worth a glance. But I really hoped I helped but you just seem like you can & should do way better than that!
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Well, when someone comes up to me and asks me out, I always say no, whether I like them or not. And if some kid tells me that they like me, I make up some smart-ass comment. I usually do this automatically, giving me no time to think at all. It's just natural reflex. How can I fix this?
Think about it before you immediately respond. You have to train yourself to do this. I'm sure it won't be easy for you since you say it just natural for you, but hey, its worth a try. I wish you the best of luck.
--Stephanie
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OK well my friends bf's birthday was like two days ago and she doesn't know what to go him.
He is "gangsta" and she was thinking cologn but she can't find him any.
Does anyone have any good birthday present ideas?
Burn him a cd or get him a cd... people love cds.. haha. Or hey.. get him a shirt or something.. or maybe even a gift card. Hey... a belt. I know that was random.. but.. yeah!
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Well, I guess you could say I'm friends with this guy already. But I would like to know if you guys think he likes me or if it's just our odd frienship.
Here are some of the things he does
-randomly hit me (and appolijizes if he thinks it hurt..and gives me a hug when it actually does)
-will bring me a pop from his house for lunch
-share his drinks with me
-kinda tells me a lot of stuff (more than my other friends that he talks to)
-eh i dunno..just if ya have an opinion could you please tell me
Awww!! He does like you how cute. But seems like you're just a good friend.. but it could develop into more so dont get discouraged!
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do girls call their boyfriends baby or is that just something guys call the girl.?
Yeah.. You just say what you feel like calling them.
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hey i really like this one guy and when it comes to talking to him and hugging him, i turn red and i get nervous. he asked me last week online who i like and i said him and he said " like me enough to kiss me?" and i said yeah. and he has been bugging me about it in school ever since. i am too scared to because i dont know if he likes me back. his best friend is saying he has mixed feelings for me. i really want to kiss him, but i always back out. is there anyway i can with out backing out?
Thanks,
Steph
Like.. YOU HAVE MY NAME! How cool! HaHa, anyways! Is he a hottie? I think I would go for it.. I mean, you got nothing to lose. It aint like he's gunna bite your lips off, haha. But its just an innocent kiss, so I mean, whats the worst that could happen. Dont think about it so much.. just relax & breathe & let things happen!
XoXo, Stephanie
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i`m 16 & my boyfriend is in jail i love him more then anything in this world .. he says hes gonna change but i dont know if i should believe him what should i do
I think you should follow your heart. But I mean Sparky here aint looking like he's in too good of shape. He's in jail & you don't really wanna be drug down like that cause I know you're better than that, but it's hard to just abandon someone you really care about. So all I can tell you is to go with your gut on this one!
Kisses, Stephanie
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This guy is really cool. But, it's so confusing to tell if he likes me. First, he has a cute nickname for me, and he touches my shoulders a lot when we're walking. Also, he gives me complements and looks right into my eyes when we talk. I also catch him starring at me during class sometimes like at my legs or at my face. Does it sound like he really does like me?
thanks! ill rate 5's!!
Well.. sure does seem like he likes you or either you're just really sexy!! HaHa, I'm strait, by the way!! But I mean, he either likes you or thinks that you are really pretty & i'm sure you are, so you know. But you never can tell by guys these days.. so dont let him in your pants!! ..Unless of course he's like drop dead sexy & well.. you know.
Kisses,
Stephanie
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Please don't judge me on this, I'm not nearly as materialistic as I sound here.
Here's the short version:
Last Valentine's day, my guy gave me this really pretty antique ring. This past August, he basically proposed, but didn't have enough money for a real engagement ring or promise ring, etc. He's been working like crazy in general, earning like seven bucks an hour, so I know he has some amount of money.
Is there a way to hint to him that I want a "real" ring before we go to college? I want to be able to flash it in case any guys get any ideas...
He knows my ring size now, and I know his, so theoretically we could buy each other rings.
But how do I suggest this without seeming...I dunno...like "Buy me things!"
'Cause I mean maybe as stupid as it is, I do want a real promise ring. The ring he gave me is starting to tarnish, and it doesn't quite fit on my finger.
Thanks in advance =)
I sooo think you should be like "Baby, I want to get you a promise ring & I thought it'd be kinda coll if we went together & bought matching ones." Or something of that nature. Just explain to him the situation like you did here. Just be like, "Well, it's not that i dont trust you & I dont want other guys hitting on me because I love you & you're the only one for me." Or something but I think you should tell him & if he loves you, he'll understand & buy you the ring.
Best wishes,
Stephanie
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well theres this guy that i really really like..lets say his name is jared...he's nice, funny, veryy sweet and be get along great...he's everything i could possibly want!! well anyways i've known him for about a year and we've become best friends..but i like him more than a friend...one of my friends..lets say his name is timmy...talked to him for me...then a lil while lata one of his friends came ask me if i liked jared..of course i said yes...then i ask jred's friend wut he thought of me..she said he thought i was really nice and sweet and had a great personality...and he told timmy wut i said...but then jared said he needed time to think...so a few days lata he said he wasnt ready and he didnt wanna ruin or friendship...well timmy still kept asking him question but jared said things like no comment and idk or he changes the subject or just doesnt answer...he almost asked me to a school dance..but i guess he chickened out...i dont know what to think...i think i wouldve given up by now but he talks to me almost every night and he smiles at me almost everyday as school...i dunno if i should give up and settle for just a friend...
Girl, you gots a tough situation on your hands here. Which you prolly already realized. Ok, you need to go up to this Jared guy & be like, "Hey, listen, I like you a lot but if you dont like me like that then just let me know now so I aint just wasting my time hoping that there's a chance for "us" if they really aint." As for this Timmy dude.. he needa keep his mouth shut cause it's none of his damn business bout who Jared likes & dont like. Jared cant help the way he feels, so if he dont like you, then keep on steppin cause he wasnt worth your time anyways. But if he does, then Im happy to help yah! But I really do think you needa bring it up. Kisses, Steph
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they say theres somebody out there for every one but how do you know when you find that person and what if you never find that person?
You will find that person. They are looking for you just like you are looking for them. They are there & you just know when you find them because you cant see yourself living without them. Fireworks go off all around you & you miss them every second you arent together. They are the only thing that makes you happy. Hope this helps & you will find that person!! Kisses, Steph
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There is this guy.. lets call him K.. well me and K have known each other and been friends for ever because my mom and his mom were friends since elementary school.. well me and K are like brother and sister but the thing is i really really like him but i dont kno how to show it.This year we have gotten closer than ever. i can tell him anything. any ways hes comming over to my house later and the thing is every time we hang out we go with all these other guys because im not a prep or anything im known as "one of the guys" how do i let him kno that i like him with out every one else finding out
TELL HIM!! Maybe he likes you the same way!! Trust me! Me & this guy have been friends since like forever & he was the one who gave me my first kiss! Trust me! You want him to find out because its for the best! Hope everything works out for you and "K"! Kisses, Steph
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ok well theres this guy that i like and well hes like my ex we hav had an on and off relationship, but we have been seperated for almost 3 months and i miss him and i want him back. i have a feeling he likes me but then i have a feeling he doesn't. how do i know and how do i ask him out because i mean its just kind of weird.
Hint around that you still like him. I mean, 3 months is a long time & Im not trying to sound negative, but an on off relationship doesnt sound very promising. Ask him if he still likes you.. all I can say is just talk to the guy.
Hope that helps some! Kisses, Steph
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i made out with my bf the other day and he has been telling everyone about it ever since, but i only hear that from my friends. he has talked about it to my friends and stuff like that. i dont really like it, should i talk to him about it? i'm not sure what to do, i mean it is true... its not like a false rumour he is passing around or anything. i like him, he's sweet, but i feel like i cant make out with him anymore or else he's guna tell every one about it... also, for the boys out there, why do you think he talked about it so much? thanks
Well.. we know someones an awesome kisser!! Go girl!! Ok.. well.. maybe you should like tease him. For instance, "I can't kiss you anymore, [insert boyfriends name here]. If you're going to kiss and tell, I'm just going to cut off your 'kiss' supply." Who knows, it could be fun!
~Steph~
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U c.. im not...ugly..well actually yes iam...but u c ..i think im a pretty good person..ok..listin all my friends have been kisses...excpt me.. and i mean it is embrassing to talk about..cuz i mean.well i dont know actually..but i mean what am i doin wrong..im 13 should i have been kissed..if i should WHAT AM I DOING WWRONG FOR GIRLS NOT TO LIKE ME..i mean i have lots of girls as friends..so im like not doing something wrong there..what is it?
thanks for all ur help
LOVE,
KISSLESS
No.. ur not ugly. The right person just hasnt came ur way yet. Your first kiss sux anyways! Just chill out & hang in there! I kno it's tough but go up 2 this gurl & be hey.. let's kiss! HaHa! No.. she might slap you, but thats beside the point! HaHa! Ok! Well! Hope everything works out for you, Kissless. Kisses, Steph
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k im a 12 year old female, and i like this guy at school , and i think he liks me , so wut should i do??????????
Talk to this guy.
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I have this guy friend that i have liked more than a friend for a while. I thought he kept dropping hints such as putting his hand around my waist, talking to me alot and gointo the movies. But when I asked him to go to homecoming with me he said i dont know. he still talks to me in the hall after that but it took a while. Should I keep flirting with him or just leave us as good friends?
~*Confused*~
Maybe this just really shocked him and he didnt know what to think. He might just wanna be "friends with benefits". I would stop flirting for a little while and see how things go! ;) ~Steph~
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