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What di I do?
There is this boy who has a girlfriend who always come to my house to play with my brother. He is so cute. when he comes over, he always flirt with me. I want to go out with him, but he has like 15 GF's. Besides, one of his girlfriends is my friend. I don't want to ruin our relationship. She knows that I used to like him. What should I do.
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Ok.. not being mean or rude, why would you want a guy with like 15 girlfriends? He seems like a player to me, but I think Im being hypocritical. I mean, if he cheats on his girlfriend(s), what makes you think he wouldn't cheat on you as well if you two ever got in a relationship?
I've been there before though. I liked this guy who cheated on EVERYBODY he ever went out with. But I still liked him. But I knew better.. but you always seem to want what you don't need, haha. But.. I would try it out with this guy. I mean, if you like him, you like him. Sometimes we have to make mistakes just to learn for ourselves. But who knows, this may not be a mistake & this guy may really truly like you! And hey, he's cute!
As for you're friend, just talk to her.. Find out if she really likes him like a lot. Some of my friends just have their boyfriends because they buy them things..
Maybe I helped at least a lil bit. Wish you the best of luck!
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Unfortunately, men like this have worked out what sort of personality women are attracted to and they use it to their advantage.
I understand that you like this guy but do you really want to put yourself willingly into a situation where you're dating a guy who has so many other girlfriends he probably can't remember their name!?!? Would you really be happy sharing him with so many other girls?
I don't want to sound horrible to you so please don't take it that way, but you need to have some self respect and not allow yourself to be treated the way this guy treats women. You deserve a LOT better than that so make sure you go out there and find it. That way you will keep your self respect and your friend.
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why dont we make this simple, just because he flirts with you doesnt make him anything special. With all those gfs just how special do you think you would be to him? raise your expectations and seek something better.
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It depends on HOW MUCH YOU WANT HIM. If you want him, the question is if you're willing to get him. If you want him, YOU CAN'T BE NOBLE TRYING TO GET. WHICH MEANS, YOU CAN'T CARE ABOUT HIS GIRLFRIEND- YOUR FRIEND. But that's ONLY IF YOU REALLY WANT HIM. But if you can't force yourself to do it, THEN YOU DON'T WANT HIM AS MUCH AS YOU THINK YOU DO. So don't worry about it if you're not going to go through it. IT'S ALL ABOUT HOW MUCH AND BAD YOU WANT HIM, AND WHAT YOU'RE WILLING TO DO TO GET HIM. If it's not that, then you don't want him as much as u think u do. Don't sweat it girl. Besides, I think I'm a little off today. Don't worry so much, you'll get wrinkles.
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I really wouldnt persue it much. First of all when a friend is involved the situation tends to go ugly. I personally dont think its worth risking a friendship.
Secondly, the guy has 15 gfs (or so)... It always amazes me how that doesnt set off some warning bells or something more often. I have had a few friends like that. Great friends mind you (to the guys)... to the women I have one piece of advice only- run, run fast, dont look back.
Now if you still want to go with this guy, you should in the very least talk to your friend first. See if she realises that she is just one in a crowd... she might not mind being one in sixteen.
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