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I like this guy named Ben. He knows i like him b/c of my little brother. Well i volunteer with him alot. so all year i am going to be seeing him. i want to ask him out but i don't know what to do. by the way... i'm not one of those girls who waits for the guys to ask them out. too old fashioned for me. (link)
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well if u dont know what to say you can say something like:
I really like u. i was wondering if maybe you like me too?
*if he says he does.. just go ahead and ask him!*
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I liked this guy in the 5th grade... I was the first girl to like him in our school. (He was new then) I got over it even though I still liked him. He didnt even know me. In the 6th grade we were hanging out alot because we had a friend that both us hung out with. After two months of hanging out and talking, he asked me out. I said yes. We were going out for 2 months. During that time I got my first kiss. And I was just so happy. Well after two months I broke up with him because I got a note from a girl who was like stay away from my boyfriend. (No one knew about our relationship) And I was threatened and everything I was so heartbroken. I broke up with him and we moved on. Even though I still liked him. Then in the 7th grade he asked me out again. I said yes but he made me promise that I wouldnt tell anyone because he was going to surprise everyone on Friday and tell them, in a special way. Well I told my best friend and the next day during lunch she told like his whole table. A guy that sat with him said he is going to break up with you and I believed him. I couldnt have my heart broken I have a reputation as a tough girl. So I broke up with him again. My heart was broken but I still loved him. About 2 months later, I was sleeping over a friends house and someone was staying at his. We were on the phone from 8pm until 2:15am. My friend fell asleep and so did his so from 1:30am until 2:15 we spent talking and saying I love you and and all this sweet stuff. But he never asked me out again. We stayed like that for a long time. We still are close but no more sweet stuff. I miss him and I read his profile online and reminded me so much of how I feel and how much time we spent togehter it was almost like he was writing it for me. I am still in love and I was before I read it but now that I read it I fell. I fell so fast that after I finished the last word I hit the ground. I love him so much. What do you think I should do? Should I tell him or leave it bee?
PLEASE TELL ME!!! NEED HELP! ANY THING! (link)
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tell him .. if he doesnt feel the same way. give it time. but seriously ,tell him. maybe he didnt ask u out because he doesnt know how YOU feel. good luck and hope i helped
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I'm 16 and going to be a junior in high school next fall. I go to a vocational school so I have shop every other week, all day long. I've just started having a crush on my friend who is in my shop. I like him so much, it's crazy. He likes me too. We talk on the phone a lot and I really want a relationship with him but I'm afraid that in the end our relationship won'w work out and we wont talk anymore. I would never ever want that to happen because hes such a great friend. I really have no idea what to do. Please help me out. Thanks in advance. (link)
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Just do it. Tell him you still want to be friends though. But if he doesnt want to be friends after u break up .. he wasnt a good friend in the first place. Good luck
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ok i ended up dumping him because he treated me so badly but something inside of me wants him back and i know its not right! how do i keep my mind off of him and move on? thanx for ur help* (link)
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Get a new boyfriend. Or if not.. spend more time with more boys / friends. Keep yourself busy! Good Luck
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I ounce went out with this girl, but then she dumped me. I still like this girl but i dont know if she even likes me the littlist, i cant figure out if i should ask her out or just get over her. (link)
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Just ask her out. You never know. And well if she says no .. then you'll have to move on. Good Luck
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ok theres another guy i like named drew and he also nos i like him but all my 8th grade friends say since hes popular hes like all the other popular guys.... HE WANTS A PEICE OF UR ASS ((thats what my friends say)) but he seems really nice (link)
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Get to know him better. Talk to him just the two of you. Then make you judgement of him. Good Luck & Hope I helped
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Hey guys. Well.. tonight I went to a club for the first time, and met this really great guy. He asked to dance with me, and we did for a while, and attempted to talk a bit (but the music was so loud, so we went and sat down) He introduced me to some of his friends too. Anyway, I had to leave early.. and out of nowhere I asked for his number. This is TOTALLY out of character for me. I'm usually shy around guys, but hey. He gave it to me and then I gave him mine, and then he walked me to the door. I may be being paranoid, but was this coming across a little too eager or forward? I had a feeling he wanted to ask, but I could be wrong. Also, should I contact him first or let him contact me? I'm just totally new to this kinda thing and lost.
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Well i personally say wait a few days and if he doesnt call u .. call him. but im not too positive if thats what you want to do. And your not really being eager because he did give it to u, right?! Good Luck
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Im competely crazy about my boyfriend. No doubt about that. He's absolutly perfect except for one thing... his front four teeth drive me crazy. He could really use a professional whitening. How can I suggest he go to the dentist without hurting my love's feelings? (link)
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ask him to go to the store with you and get the whitening strips. Say your scared to try it so ask him if he'll do it first. Or ask him if he'll do it with you cuz u dont want to do it alone. Good luck
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i have a car and someone keyed it... also, they egged it and put ketchup and sweet n sour sauce on it! ugh! i cant believe someone would do such a thing! also, they put a used pad on it. it had blood on it and everything. SO GROSS! Also, they put a used tampon on top of it. My windows are broken and everything. What should i do? (link)
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I guess the only thing to do is take pictures of it, call your insurance company and then call the police thats really the only thing that you can do. im very sorry to hear about this .. gross incident. Good Luck
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This is going to be my first date in my life, so I'm not so good at this right now. We're just going to watch a movie at my house and I don't know of any good movies that we'd probably both like. I want something funny, but a little romantic too. I'd like any suggestions. (link)
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50 first dates
along came polly
win a date with tad hamilton ( spelling? )
sleepless in seattle
*or just ask him what he would like to watch & then compromise!*
Good Luck
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ok there is this guy on myspace thats wants me to hang out with him. i don't know if i should. i know my mother wouldn't agree with it, so what should i do?? is it good to meet someone from online?? (link)
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no its not. you never know what he'll do to you. sure, he may seem very kind and nice on line but in reality he maybe a kidnapper / muderer or he might even want to rape you. just please dont do it! i hope u end up making the right choice. good luck
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I'm going to sleepaway camp in about a week and I really want to maybe get a boyfriend there because when you go to camp you practically start over and can be whoever you want to be without the pressures of school. I've never had a boyfriend and I was wondering how I should flirt at the socials/dances. Also, how do you let boys know you exist and you WANT a relationship? Some just want to be friends.
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Well .. if you want to let boys know you exist, dont go to over the top .. but be normal. dont go around dressing like a skank! But tell the truth. Tell him if you like someone there or tell someone you just want to be friends. good luck
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ok im 15 and sometimes i feel like my boyfriend wants me to do more than just making out. But i dont think im ready and i dont want to yet. We've been together for 6 months and some people say thats a long time. But what should i do? is it bad for me to be 15 and not wanna do anything yet? is 6 months along time?
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Yes, 6 months is a long time. But in my eyes, thats great! If he's a good boyfriend .. he'll understand. Just wait until your ready. Don't let him or your friends tell you that you should do it now. Just wait.
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i have been dating my b/f for one month now and i cant stop thinking about him! it's crazy, i'll be watching tv and then for no reason i will think of him. or if i'm listening to the radio, a song will remind me of him. i mean even when i'm shopping or eating. he is constantly on my mind! nd i have been totally crazy about him for a year, and he said he has liked me since he first met me. he tells me all the time about how he cant get me outta his mind either. we'll be on the phone for hours and it will be 2 in the morning nd he's so tired but we never hang up. he says its bcuz he wants so hear my voice and as soon as he hangs up he misses me. i think i love him, i always get this excited crazy feeling when i just think about him and i smile all the time for no reason, i feel like a dork.
do you think i love him? (link)
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Omg thats so cute! duh u love him and he loves you too. he also sounds like a GREAT boyfriend! ;) good luck!
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okay. so i dated this girl for a while. and we seemed to have a really good connection with each other. we were into the same things, we were both sarcastic smartasses, and we both liked doing the same kinda stuff. and well when i met her she was in the process of breaking up with her boyfriend. and so i was more of the friend to turn to than anything else. then slowly we started to date like after they broke up. and for about a weekend we were very into each other, and things seemed to be wonderful. then as the weekend ended she said she didn't feel the same way about me as i did about her. and so i decided to sit back and wait until she was really ready for a relationship because after some talking we kinda realized she needed some time to get back into the swing of things. and it was during this time that she began to change. she became mean, she began just totally ignoring me for days on end. the phone calls ceased. there would be whole days when i'd hear nothing from her. then i'd talk to her a bit and that was it. and now finally i come home to find out she spent the last couple days drinking, partying, and hanging out with sleazy guys. and i instantly became very mad and jealous. and i just wanna know. is it wrong for me to be mad? for me to not want her around? for me to tell her she's changed and become someone i don't know anymore? i told her not to contact me any longer, and that she had become someone else, someone i didn't know or love. and now in hindsight i kinda wanna know: was it wrong? (link)
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i have no clue!!
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Ok latly my boyfriend has been coming over to the house im 13 and he is 14. But the point is... my brothers 8 and everytime where around him or he follows us and he sees us kiss he like starts to choke my boyfriend until he stops! its so annoying and when we try to get away from him he just follows us help!!!! (link)
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go in the bathroom
lol and lock the door
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Ok today i was talking on the phone with my boyfriend and he said that today it was like diffrent because he didnt know like he didn't want to talk to me. I said maybe its beacause we talk all the time together he said yea i think your right then he said i spend alot of time with you i like spend the most time with you out of all my girlfirends. Wait stop right there is that bad or good it sounds like he dosnet want to talk to me or be with me. !!
Help
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he probably does want to be with you but you might want to take a reality check.
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So thers this guy I like and I only get to see him when I go camping. Well Last year he didn't come bck and said he was sorry he couldn't come see me and thsi weekend he danced with me (slow danced) and was all close and singing into my ear and he rode the 4 wheeler with me and was holding onto my legs. But he also danced with my mom like that. Does he like me or what? I rate high (link)
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well did he hold on to your moms legs? b/c if he did probably not but he might have a crush on you!
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well me and my boyfriend are so happy together well he lives with his grandparents and his grandma doesn*t like me at all even though I never did anything to her well my boyfriend recently got a job and he works from 4:45 until 1:00 in the morning and his grandparents won*t let him call me when he gets home well I call him during the day cause he is home but his grandma only lets us talk for about 20 minutes so we never get to talk or see each other which is bad for a relationship but I love my boyfriend so much he makes me happy and everything but I don*t want a boyfriend that I never get to spend time with or get to talk to and it is summer right now so should I break up with him? or should I stay with him? I don*t wanna be lonely but if I have to I will plz help me I rate high! thanxs so much
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Well, try to get on his grandmas good side and maybe that would help.
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I've had a boyfriend for like 4 months. He's my first. He's really shy and so am I. Since both our parents are really strict I can only see him at school. I really want to kiss him on the lips but I'm too shy and I never seem to have the right time to. Please note that Im thirteen 1/2. My eight grade year has been great. Middle school is almost over, and I wanna have my first kiss, now. How can we both get over being shy when we see each other? (link)
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Just go up to him and say i think we should see more of eachother during school and at the end of the day meet up at eachothers lockers and there you go!
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