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my girlfriend recently hiding her moblie phone every were 1 night she texted me saying staying out 2 night back in the moring at 3:15 in the moring she came back she never did drink but now she is out all the time so i ask if she was having afair she said no so i left it then i got the chance to look on her phone and find 2 text message 1 was sent saying sunbed are bad soft rocking of the bed is better the ofter one was in her inbox say so horny r u me ok i`ll wank over you laterxxxxxx so again i ask her she told me to get out after 4 year and a lot of history there is a five years old child in this relationship who i brought up at if she was my own then on the day i got my stuff i was hoping she would think about us but instead she went out drinking agian meet an old friend now this old freind and herself relationship is moving quicker then she expeted do you think i still have a chance?
to start off i'm sorry about you and your wife. If you were to have a chance back with her i don't think it should be worth it because you and her wasn't no cute little something it was SERIOUS and that was disrespectful because if she had someone good at home than why look around?? that's how you know peoples are never satisfied. I mean no one is perfect and it's true people deserve a second chance but I also believe you should put yourself first because if you don't then no one else will. You know the world makes thousand and thousands of turns and sooner or later she'll be around then your question would be should i take her back or not? So yea i do believe you have a chance not soon because she's not going to give in quick but you'll have your turn good luck if anything fill me in
Heres the sitch...im a 16yr male senior at my high school, and ive been BEST friends with this girl since sophmore year...problem is, ive fallen for her...hard. i cant get her out of my head, i get jealous of any other guys she talks to or who like her, and im really protective of her...but she doest like me when i like her, she said she had a crush on me back when i had a gf soph year, but now she doesnt like ANYONE. what should i do? ive liked her for two years, but she says it would be wierd to date bcuz weve been friends for so long...
Hey .. I was reading your article and it seems pretty interesting u're in a tough position.. i mean i think you should tell her and maybe ask her in a flirty just kiddin way something like "oh is that offer still open the 1 back in soph yr. I mean whats the worst she can say? no!. if so, then you already know whats up and second there's other fishies out in the sea maybe later on in life you'll see that things weren't worth it i mean you have heard the phrase its easy to turn friends into lovers but its harder to change lovers back into friends. I think you should risk and ask or take her on a date because then if not you'll look back and be like "what if?" u get me ? well good luck !
My Boyfriend and I broke up a couple of days ago and i still cant stop crying. Any tips on getting the pain to go away??
Well to begin you shouldn't be crying because it just makes it worst for you. Look, do you seem him letting a tear out for you? or is he playing it cool? If he's acting too cool then just forget it others will come. When one door closes others open we're just too stuburn to notice the new one. If i were you i would avoid staying home and i wouldnt think about it much because then it makes you start again at point 1. Good luck girl if ya dont get back then it wasnt meant to me something wayyy better will come (it always does) :) good luck
OK yeah well im 15 and a female, yesterday my b/f n i got caught by his mom...we weren't really having sex yet but our pants were off..and we were jsut kinda messing around..and then his mom walks in and then she jsut walked in to his room and called him then like 10 seconds later his little sister(13) comes in to the room n tells me i have to leave the whole way home i cried i was so nervos/scared now i really think they hate me (his mom n sister) and his sister n i were freinds b4 yesterday and yeah i know i should applogize but i really don't know what to say...any advice at all would be helpfull...please
well thats really embarassin i dont really know what to tell you. I just hope im never in that position but uhh go sit your b/f nad his mom and sis down its gona be very embarassing and just tell them you're very sorry . Tell the mom you're sorry for disrespecting her house like that and that it'll be the first and last time. His mom has to understand that things happen if she doesnt forgive you then just let time pass by eventually she'll let it go. She should atlest be glad that her son isnt gay and as for your boyfriend he should try to help you out too because remember it takes 2 so he should have his side of apology . well, good luck :)
I really appreciate anyone who decides to read this and help me, I don't really have anyone to talk to about this.
I've been in a relationship, on and off with a boy for two years now - I'm just about to turn 18, while he's just about to turn twenty. For most of our being together our relationship has been really unstable, him always unsure if he wanted to be with me. I look back at myself and wonder why I spent so many nights worrying and letting myself become so attached.
We had what was supposed to be our 'final breakup' right around New Year's eve. I was hurt, and we were split for a little over a month, and started talking again. Not too long after, we started actually becoming connected in all of the ways we hadn't been before. To be honest, right now I'd have to say that he's probably my best friend, and we share everything with eachother. This is probably the best our relationship has ever been, and I should be loving every minute of it.
The problem? While we were split, I got to know a friend of his, *Jeffery, really well. This is someone who has betrayed my boyfriend in the past, there are shaky feelings between them although they still see eachother occasionally. I got to know Jefferey better and better and really began to like him, and him me. I stopped talking to him for the most part because I was afraid that it would hurt my boyfriend, although we were not together at the time. After a short time I thought that I made a mistake, but by then me and my (then ex-)boyfriend had started to talk again. My boyfriend and I have been together since.
Lately, me and Jefferey have been seeing a lot of eachother through mutual friends. We still have feelings for eachother, and it has been driving me crazy. While things are going really well in my relationship with my boyfriend, I feel like I will always have this question in the back of my mind, "what if". Recently me and Jeffery were hanging out together, and he tried to kiss me. I didn't let him, and told him we shouldn't hang out anymore unless I break it off with my boyfriend. I feel like this was a horrible mistake, but I feel very insecure about breaking things off with my boyfriend, who has been so great to me during all of this. We have no secrets from eachother, and I did not cheat on him. I think that Jeffery might have 'given up' on trying to be with me, and I feel a little defeated and negative about myself. I feel like I should have been more decisive, but I don't know what to think. I wish I had gotten to know Jeffery more while I was single.
Thanks to anyone who read this long thing, and thanks doubly to anyone who offers advice. My mind is a mess over this.
My advice to you is that everyone goes through there confusing period of time. But if you and your boyfriend are doing well now and its what you been wanting for a while why would you throw that away? Just stay how you are . Jeffrey was maybe just a temptation to see if you really liked your boyfriend but if you wouldve liked Jeffrey more than you would've kissed him when you had the chance no matter what the circumstances were. If Jeffrey betrayed his friend knowin a frienship is very sacred then what makes you think he wont do it to you? these are all questions that bring drama and i think you're stabled with your boyfriend so dont cause drama if theres no need to.. you know what they say "if it aint broke, dont fix it" :) good luck !
Four years ago I dated a really cool guy, he was all over me calling and going out for 4 months, then he just didn't show up for dinner one nite and we only spoke once briefly after that, he said he didn't need anyone worried about him. (He's a serious workaholic) but over the years i've run into him at a couple parties of mutual friends and just two weeks ago we ended up hanging out and i've been seeing him again since last, last sunday. He's being a doll and has picked up right where we left off! I'm pretty sure that, that is just his style - dates for 4-6 months then it's adios. I'm having fun, but trying to keep a step back, because it's inevitable that the same thing is going to happen. Do I just have fun for however long it lasts?
Well then if you really like him than take advantage and keep datin him and ALWAYS keep your step back because if he disappears then im more than positive he has someone on the side so dont get left behind :)enjoy it while it lasts ! good luck :)
hey.. well i know this is really stupid but.. i went out with a guy for like four or five months.. we broke up a couple months ago because supposedly he cheated but he denys it and i still like him a lot.. i hear about him with other girls and my trust for him is out the door.. i try not to care and to move on but it's hard.. i don't know what to do.. not too long ago i asked him to hang out with me as friends and he said he didn't know and he ended up not hanging out with me but he ended up hanging out with some other girls.. what the heck do i do? any suggestions?
My best advice would be is too start talking to someone else because if you know he cheated on you and he's not man enough to admit it then let it go u first have to respect yourself and put yourself first before other. Besides in order to get out of a heart break
Hi, I'm 15 and I am a Freshman. My ex-boyfriend dumped me 12-07-04 last year. (Cheating.) Now we are back together and started dating 5-06-05. I was going to the Turkey Festival with his good friend and I asked him to come along since we were friends. He came. I was really happy. We became closer and ended up going out, but I'm not sure if I should be dating him again.
He is in none of my classes at school, but I see him in the hallways. We hold hands and stuff as we walk down the hall.
I wrote him a note and gave it to him in the morning and he still hasn't wrote me back yet. I asked him if he did and he said no. But I can tell he cares for me; he said it himself.
Now I am nervous. I really want it to work out this time. I have trouble talking to him still. I am really shy. Oh yeah... he doesn't have a phone so I can't call him. I feel like something bad might happen again, but the main problem is that I am so shy.
Can someone please give me advice on how to open up to him and tell him what I feel? He doesn't seem like a big notewriter... and how will I be able to keep this relationship going when school is over?
Thanks so much for the advice!
I started datin my ex boyfriend again we had gone out for 1yr nd 4mon. we broke up my freshmen year now im a junior and we got back Let me tell you i dont regret gettin back with him. when u enter into a relationship it becomes a TEAM and there's no I in TEAM.. so we BOTH need to know what goes on with eachother.. so my advice to you is that if you want to last with him and let everything work just be HONEST nd CLEAR with him everything you feel like from your doubts to your happy times with him and let him know you expect his pure honesty back good luck i hope you 2 make it work!
ive been with my b/f for 2 months. its both of our first relationships. he doenst know too much about girls and i feel were growing apart. his friend likes me and is tryin to get me to dump me my emphasizing what he doesnt do for me. i kinda like him but i wouldnt dump my guy for him cuz he is being greedy. its hard for my bf and i to communicate..were both kinda shy. we really need to have a heart to heart convo but im not sure how to bring up what i need in the relationship. am i taking this too seriously? were both 14. thanks in advanced!~
well when i was 14 i was in a relationship for 1yr nd 4 mon. nd we were little kids for ex. we would break up for anything and have our problems. but u know something when you think you're growing apart talk about it remember when you're in a relationship it becomes a TEAM. You BOTH need to put effort. also, the relationship has its months sometimes during the month you're all lovy-dovy other times you just want them from a distance but in the end you still like them and you want them to be your other half and as for his friend you need to tell him to back off and show respect you should tell your boyfriend about him because those arent true friends and you have to look out for your boyfriend. but if its too much hasle then you know what mama then be single and ready to mingle ;)good luck
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okay..im really confused and have no idea what to do...im stuck between 2 guys...the one guy i went out with for about 8 months and we recently broke up about a month and a half ago...well all of a sudden after a month of not talking to me he calls me and says he misses me and wants to get back together with me...the other guy i went out with about a year and a half ago...we have been good friends ever since we broke up...and he recently had a gf but broke up with her bc he liked me and wants to go out with me...i dont know what to do bc i like both of them sooo much and it's so hard...i thought it was going to b easy bc the one guy i thought we werent going to talk to again...SOMEONE HELP PLEASE!!
well i've been in those situations plenty of times and the most i can tell you is to first take a deep breath now the 2nd thing is that remain single as long as you're not "attached" to any of them then you are free to date whom ever you want. Go on a couple of dates with one and then the other write down what you liked about each after the date and who ever has more than fairly and obviously you like ;) good luck let me know how it goes..
Hi all I need help My wife and I have been married for 28 years have a good relationship but we have a few problems. one is when I play softball in the summer she does not like it when all the guys get together and drink beer or go back to the bar for a beer, I have to tell you that I am not that fond of beer but it is fun to get together after, I find myself just leaving after the game just to avoid a fight with her is it a major thing that I would like to stay for a quick beer and just hang around I personally do not see anything wrong but she hates it.. what should I do thanks...
Hey.. Well im not married or close to being but i can tell you that your wife is a little insecure at times .. so why dont you invite her to your games n let her give you a little support and take her out with your guys .. once she sees that you just want to hang out then she'll let loose ;) good luck !