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My names Marissa. I have gone threw a lot in my life.So im pretty good at giving advice from my experince.I always try to answer to the best i can.So if u got a question dont be shy ask away and i will get to yuh as soon as i can.


~Marissa

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ok...well i like this guy(im 13/f)and i barely see him, but when i do there is a major connection. Last wedsday, one of my friends pushed him and i grabbed his hand to help him and we just kinda stood there for a while holding hands...and then later when he saw me again we hugged, but he left his arm around me and it wasnt what he normally does...some of my friends say that hes going to ask me out but i dont think so, what can i do to make him do more stuff like that to me, and to show him that i like him. i dont want to look slutty though.

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Hmm, he could be flirting. So just be yourself, if he likes you then you wont need to act a special way.

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My brother has a friend named Mark and I went out with 2 days ago. Problem: my brother doesn't know. But I like love his friend. Am I being bad?

You're not being bad for liking your brothers friend. If your brother dosn't understand don't listen to him unless he's got advice about the guy. Usually family dosn't want their siblings dating their friends though, so I just so go for it and forget about your brother.

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Well I used to be friends with this girl named Kristina and I told her I liked my best friend Zach and then the next day she was all over hi and I was like what the heck !? and they were getting ready to make their realationship public and I i.med him last night and said so are you going out with the slut yet ? He said I should shut up about the people he likes and I said why you dont even understand and he kept yelling at me so then I told him why because I loved him and I started crying and everything and I seen him today and he was all over her and it made me sick because even after our talk he still was over her so I dont know what to do I cant really talk to him anymore it feels werid. & I promised myself I would fall for him and thats exactly what I did I dont know what to do. & today he is just acting like nothing is wrong and thats not the case I am very hurt I cried myself to sleep and I feel like shit I dont know what to do with out him as a friend and after last night I cant even look at him the same and I have a class with him next period. I need help, please.

Well the best thing to do would probably be to get over him, that'll be hard yes but it's for the best. He dosn't sound like much of a guy you should be going for since you told him the story and he was still all over her, well expecially all over her infront of you. Which would show he didn't care about your feelings toward whats going on right now. Try not to talk to him for awhile and look around for another guy, it'll take time to get over him but you can do it

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A friend of mine just told me something about a guy we are all friends with.
Well she told me that she was over visiting one of our friends. Her computer had broken down, and our friend (the guy) was over to try to fix it. She told me that when he was sitting at her computer, he was looking at a small picture of me that I had given my friend that was near her computer. She said he kept looking at it, and said "who's your friend?". When she said it was me, he kept looking at it and then said, "oh, it must be an old picture". She told me she thought this meant he may have a crush on me. Do you think she's right? I know if it were me, I wouldnt be showing such an interest in someones picture unless I really liked them.

It's a possiblity. Though he also could just think you look differnt from then and now. Maybe get to talking with him more.. You know? Try to see if he flirts and ect.

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There is this boy I have been going with for two months and his mom found a new house and is moving. When they move he will be tranferring to a new school. They keep setting these dates of when it's going to happen. Every time that date comes they don't move. When I found out he was moving I cried for two whole days. I really love him and don't want him to leave. Then he asked me if he actually does leave will we still be together. I really need some advice on if I should stay with him.

If you really love him and he really loves you the relation ship will work out just as well with just not as much seeing each other.but if you dont trust one another it wouldnt be such a great idea.so if you trust and love him 100% then your okay..and it's great you can stay with the one you love.

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Hey I'm a guy and was just wondering...should age matter in a relationship? What's your point of view on this one, like does it matter if both are close in age or far apart...by far I mean less than 5 years or so. Thanks in advance, will rate.

5 years is fine,just over dosn't seem like it would be right.but if you both love each other i guess it could work.

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well my boyfriend tells me im beautiful. its cute/sweet i know. but what should i say after? like can i say thanks? or something cute and unexpected. gimme ideas thnx //♥

well maybe go for the aww hun and compliment him back with something you like about him.I mean even saying thank's is good but if your going for the cuter side something like "aww thanks baby you are also" something sweet and cute like that may work

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I have had my girlfriend for 2 and a half years.... she recently had a crush on someone else who she had been spending quite alot of time with lately.... she didnt tell me about the crush, and he also happened to like her. Instead of telling me, she flirted with him, and she told him she liked him and he kissed her. She said she pushed him away and said that she couldnt kiss him because she loves me. She continued to hang around this guy hoping that situation would blow over. It didnt and he kissed her 2 more times(She kissed back a little bit before pushing him away these times) and continued to spend time with him. I didnt find this out until one of the guys friends told me about it. I confronted her and she told me the situation i had just described. She says she is really sorry and that she didnt want to hurt me and she loved me and didnt know why she kept up with this other guy. She then called him telling him that she cant ever speak with him again. I am very confused on whether or not i should break up with her because I love her so much. On the other hand im scared this could happen again. Should i break up and throw two and a half years down the drain or try and fix this up. She also seemed very sincere in her apology.....

I think maybe try to stay with her and see how it goes over.I mean two and a half years is along time to throw away,and if she really loves you like she says she wont want things to end..that or hurt you in anyway

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Hey Everyone. Well i went to someone with this same question on a different site.. but i wanted to see what others thought too.Um before i start..My name is Katie,im a girl lol, & im 14. Okay, well..My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for a little over a year now. Well i have a friend we used to be like best friends, but kinda grew apart. Somewhere along the way.. my friend lets say her name isssss..um..Jane.Anyway like i was saying, somewhere along the way Jane & my boyfriend started being "best friends". Well he calls her everyday & stuff. It sorta makes me feel bad. Now i duno whats the real story behind this.. but ive asked them before if they had a little more something going on.. but they both said no. i wana believe them.. i really do. But for some reason i have a little bit of doubt.And once i even heard he asked her out when we broke up but of course we got back together. I feel like a jealous girlfriend. Am i over-reacting? Soo what do you guys think.. do they like each other & if you think so..what should i do?? im so confused.PLEASE HELP!Thanks so much!!!

Maybe you should try to figure out whats going on between them.This happend to be once before and i didn't seem to like it much.The only thing you can seem to do is figure out what they do when they talk or hang out with out you and make sure theres nothing between them.

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I am goin out with this kid and my friend likes him too I think I should tell her that I am goin out with him or should I not But we tell each other like every thing

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Please help mee

Always
Mee

you should tell your friend now before it gets serious because the longer you wait she will be even more mad when she find's out because she likes him and you kept it from her.

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Okay I'm 14 and My fiance is 16. We are madly in love with each other it's known, we both know it. But the thing is right now he is in houston and im in vegas we havent seen each other in over 4 months.. okay anyways im question is we fight alot what can i do to make all the fighting stop? or for it to at least calm down some. I mean we talk every day and all sorts of things but we always seem to fight about something whether it be big or small

Maybe you should calm down on the talking it seem's maybe that there's to much connection right now and your both annoyed.Maybe just take a break from talking for awhile or something till you both notice the love you have for each other and it's silly to fight.

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I go to a day camp, and there is this really nice boy there. His name is Josh, and I like him alot! I dont know what to say though. Im not sure if like he has ever had a girlfriend before and maybe he wont like me back and will never talk to me again. Please tell me what I should do!


-Britt

Talk to him and get to know him.Maybe talk to some of your friend's there and have them talk to him not mentioning your name though maybe seeing if he has/had a girlfriend who he like's at the camp..you know those little thing's that give you all the information you need.Hope i helped

.::SilentTears::.

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okay i have this friend but i like him as more then a friend ...we've never seen each other but we talk on the phone almost every day ...i want to find out if he likes me as just a friend or as more ..how should i ask?? ....o and i want to see him some where do any of you guys have any suggestions?

ill give every one 5's who trys to help!

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Okay i have a friend in the same position as you..i will tell you what i had told her..While your talking you can mention something like let's ask each other question's and we both have to answer with the truth.That or you can just come rigth out and ask him if he like's you, and if you wanna see him some where maybe talk to him about it and figure something out but before you do that make sure you completely trust him if it's a guy you've met online.I hope i helped


~SilentTears

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hey..well on IM all of a sudden this guy told me he loved me but the only thing he knew about me was my name and i told him he didn't but he saying he does..but i don't believe him should i?

Well it sound's like he is making it up, because if he only know's your name he can't love you..I don't think you should belive him,But go with your own instinct.


~SilentTears

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Ok, I have a b.f. in Arkansas, and we met once and i really love him. He has no email, and i can't call guy's. I don't know if we should still be together or not. I mean i've only had fealings for him, out of all the boys i've met, which iz like three. Wat should i do. I love him.

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I rate 5's for anyone who reply's
Thanx

Well i think if you dont see or speak to himi dont get the point really of being with him because there is no communication in this realtion ship.And personaly myself i think communication is a big part of a realtion ship because noramlly it helps the people learn more about each other and not talking or seeing other each other at all isnt really that good of a realation ship at all i think. well i hope i helped!!

~~SilentTears

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i'm 14/f.. me and my ex.. zack.. went out for 3 months and 6 days in 2003.. then we went out over christmas break for like 4 days and he has a gf right now.. he dumped me during christmas break for her because he missed her. well i miss him so much! i cant stop thinking about him and i smile when he talks to me. when i look at him i feel sad though because he was a lot of 1sts for me. 1st time lying to my mom to go on a date with him, 1st time making out at the movies, 1st time holding hands, 1st time having his arm around me, i know.. pretty pathetic but i miss him! i'll always have feelings for him but i want him back, he knows and he was kind of weirded out because i talked to him and.. well.. he wasnt weirded out but he thought it was.. odd and so i told him i was over him but i'm not.. i dont want to tell him though.. i know i cant get in the way of the 2 of them.. but i want him back!!!!! but then i have like.. side feelings for other guys and they like me back but they dont want to go out or anything.. its weird but i need help! if you want to ask me specific questions you can IM me on msn ( sisofasoldier23@hotmail.com ) or aim / aol instant messenger ( xoxo pink rosez ) thanks!!

plus. he was my 1st boyfriend and my 1st love..

this happend to one of my friends (but it was a guy)..he just tried talking it out with her and telling her how much he still cared for her and loved her..After awhile she noticed it was the truth,they started hanging out more bein friends and stuff and as soon as i knew it they were going out again.So maybe you should try talking to him or have a friend do it for you.Maybe just talk as friends and hang out for awhile trying to show him how much you do care for him and love him.Stuff like that.Well i hope i helped some


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I can't seem to get a boyfriend. I am fat but im a good friend. Im also trying to lose weight. I have only had two boyfriends in my life, one in second grade, and my last boyfriend lived in Virginia (I live in Missouri) and he didn't know what I looked like. I think im desent looking aside from my weight. I don't have really that many guy friends eaither. I was hoping someone could give me tips on how to get a guy.

~*~Britt~*~

try hanging out with a friend that hangs out with a lot of guys to get more guy fiends then maybe on the how to get a guy thing everyone has there own way maybe see how a friend does it be flirty to the guys you like or something to give a hint

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i'm dating this guy who i've known for a really long time, and i'm afraid that if we broke up we wouldn't be friends anymore. anyone have some advice? f/14

i see what your saying my friend lets call her hmm i guess"T" she is in the same situation as you. i told her to discuss it with him or one of his friends to see so mayeb that will help

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heyy everyone. ok i was wondering if a guy is 18 years old and your 15 is it illegal to go out as boyfriend and girlfriend? because theres this really hott college guy and i really like him a lot but hes like i cant ask her out because its illegal. thanks yall!

yes an no because its not to date but to have sex it is


~Marissa

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Me and my ex boyfriend don't really talk anymore, he has a new girlfriend now. But, i found out that he cheated on her and i know for a fact cuz he told me too. Should i tell his girlfriend?? his girlfriend and i have always hated eachother but i hate them being together it makes me like sick cuz i'll always love him :-/.. i think thats why i want to tell his girlfriend the news. Should i tell her? or leave it alone? thanks ill rate

i think you should tell her. she has a right to know i thinkits better for her to know and for it to end sooner and to get over it sooner then to wait till she is really in love with him and thens he would get hurt either way she she will end up finding out somehow trust me

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