i'm 14/f.. me and my ex.. zack.. went out for 3 months and 6 days in 2003.. then we went out over christmas break for like 4 days and he has a gf right now.. he dumped me during christmas break for her because he missed her. well i miss him so much! i cant stop thinking about him and i smile when he talks to me. when i look at him i feel sad though because he was a lot of 1sts for me. 1st time lying to my mom to go on a date with him, 1st time making out at the movies, 1st time holding hands, 1st time having his arm around me, i know.. pretty pathetic but i miss him! i'll always have feelings for him but i want him back, he knows and he was kind of weirded out because i talked to him and.. well.. he wasnt weirded out but he thought it was.. odd and so i told him i was over him but i'm not.. i dont want to tell him though.. i know i cant get in the way of the 2 of them.. but i want him back!!!!! but then i have like.. side feelings for other guys and they like me back but they dont want to go out or anything.. its weird but i need help! if you want to ask me specific questions you can IM me on msn ( firstname.lastname@example.org ) or aim / aol instant messenger ( xoxo pink rosez ) thanks!!
_eMiLy answered Monday March 21 2005, 8:38 pm: Try sitting him down on his own and telling him how you feel ask him not to be freaked out or anything but he means alot to you.
If that doesn't work and he still wants to be with the other girl then there isn't much you can do but keep working your charm to try and win him back.
Good Luck, hun.
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SilentTears answered Monday March 21 2005, 8:24 pm: this happend to one of my friends (but it was a guy)..he just tried talking it out with her and telling her how much he still cared for her and loved her..After awhile she noticed it was the truth,they started hanging out more bein friends and stuff and as soon as i knew it they were going out again.So maybe you should try talking to him or have a friend do it for you.Maybe just talk as friends and hang out for awhile trying to show him how much you do care for him and love him.Stuff like that.Well i hope i helped some [ SilentTears's advice column | Ask SilentTears A Question ]
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