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Him and her
Well I used to be friends with this girl named Kristina and I told her I liked my best friend Zach and then the next day she was all over hi and I was like what the heck !? and they were getting ready to make their realationship public and I i.med him last night and said so are you going out with the slut yet ? He said I should shut up about the people he likes and I said why you dont even understand and he kept yelling at me so then I told him why because I loved him and I started crying and everything and I seen him today and he was all over her and it made me sick because even after our talk he still was over her so I dont know what to do I cant really talk to him anymore it feels werid. & I promised myself I would fall for him and thats exactly what I did I dont know what to do. & today he is just acting like nothing is wrong and thats not the case I am very hurt I cried myself to sleep and I feel like shit I dont know what to do with out him as a friend and after last night I cant even look at him the same and I have a class with him next period. I need help, please.
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this isnt what you're going to want to hear; but its what youre gonna hafta do.
get over him. take a day or two to just be miserable. drown your sorrows in ice cream and old romantic movies. cry as much as you want eat any of your comfort foods. take your hatred out on a pillow by punching all your anger into it scream in to it. just do what ever you have to. and when your done wash your face, get on some cute clothes then walk out the door to your new start. just put your eye on a new cutie that wont make you ever feel the same way Zach did. you didnt deserve it. you were just another victim of an evil teenage slut bag. just remember this quote:
"No guy is worth your tears. But the one that is wont make you cry"
I hope you feel better soon. x3
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Well the best thing to do would probably be to get over him, that'll be hard yes but it's for the best. He dosn't sound like much of a guy you should be going for since you told him the story and he was still all over her, well expecially all over her infront of you. Which would show he didn't care about your feelings toward whats going on right now. Try not to talk to him for awhile and look around for another guy, it'll take time to get over him but you can do it <3
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Hmm...I would say to just move on. I know it sounds rough and probably what you didn't want to hear. Think about it - if after you told him how you felt and how much you liked him he was still all over the other girl, then is he really worth it? In other words, does he seem like he would care enough about you whether or not the other girl was involved? I'm not trying to put you down but just try to forget about it and try not to let this experience hold you back from going at it again with some other guy.
If you don't yet feel comfortable with talking to him in person, try writing or typing it all out and giving it to him. What you would probably want to try writitng is how you feel about the entire situation, and [if you want] to ask for his friendship and forgiveness. Ask to maybe just forget about that night and what happend and go back to be friends. If he doesn't want to then don't stress yourself over it because at that point you should ask yourself: is he really your friend? Hope that helped and good luck.
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well i dont know what to tell you.. it seems like things between you & this guy are going nowhere. he seems like a huge asshole, i mean, you told him you loved him & it doesnt even matter to him. the only thing you can do is move on.. & yes its gona be hard.. but it would be the best thing to do.. as for you & this girl.. she is just insecure about herself & by gettting the attention of this guy youre attracted to, she feels better about herself. you shouldnt think too much of it.. yeah getting over him will be hard.. but just fall back on the support of your friends & things wont hurt as much.
hope i helped. <3
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