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Ok i'm a 13 year old girl. My boyfriend is 16!
I don't know what i should do about that cuz he's 3 years older then me. And he's never kissed a girl... so should i stay with him or should i dump him cuz he might do something with me??
look at your situation this way if you let him kiss you Knowing that he is 16 he"ll try to take it to a farther level you dont want to go that far so do what"s right im going to tell you this talk to him if you know thats not going to work dump him.
for the first time i had phone sex. my boyfriend told me what to do but i didnt think it would be so plesent i dont know if know i should have sex with him? anyone please answer i'll give 5's
if you not ready you shouldnt have sex try explaining to him that you cant do and he should understand that.
i need some advice, you see i like this girl at school and i mean really like but i dont know what i should do, weather i should ask her out but i fear that she will say no and i will be teased cause everyone says shes a wannabe paris hilton and that she is a slut
but i think she is hot and has heeps of inner beauty?????
what should i do
you should follow your heart i know that sounds like a sappy love song do you really want a person who has a rep of being a slut but you shouldnt care if every one laughs if you ask her out and she says no theres a lot of other people as pretty so dont stress your self out about asking her out.so i hope i help you out
Well my boyfriend (of 6 days shy of 10 months) lets call him Steve, well, he has a problem with my best guy friend, we'll call him Joe.
Steve told me that he doesn't like Joe because i simply tell him too many things, and i talk to him too much. But Joe is almost like a best friend to me, and nothing more.
Now, Joe has a girlfriend, who i am good friends with. Accually today was their one year anniversery. So no, we have nothing going on between us more than a friendship.
So i don't see why my boyfriend is over-reacting, he knows i love him, and only him.
Joe loves his gf, and wouldn't like anyone else.
I mean, Joe has given me very sweet compliments, calling me beautiful, because i have a very low self-esteem, so he tries to change that, but nothing will ever change the confidence in my self.
He's just a nice guy, who i'm very good friends with i can trust Joe with a lot of things.
And i love my boyfriend to death, but i really wish he wouldn't have a problem with Joe, and Steve does know that Joe has complimented me, and didn't have a problem with it, he agreed.
How can i have Steve not have a problem with Joe?
Thanks a bunch. :]
steve says he love you but doesnt except that you have a friend thats a guy if he really loves you he haves to except that you will have friends thats guys.you truly tell him nothing is really going on and that hes the only one you really love well i hope everything will go well.
my boyfriend and i had been going out since febuary 17, 2004 so a little over 2 years, everything was perfect we were madly inlove and it was so nice and great he helped me when i needed him and he would help me everything he was my prince charming!!! but anyway one night we were at a big party my good friend had this summer it was in june like june 10th around then, but anyway and there is this girl who loves my old bf i mean she would do anything in her power to try to break us up. she pulled out a bottle and demanded we play spin the bottle! i didnt want to because i figured she mad it so it would land on him and of course it did he told her he would only kiss me and thats it! and she jumped on him and started making out with him the worst part was he started making out with her back and i know because i saw his tongue involved. after my friend pulled the girl off of my bf he stared at me and i just started crying i usually dont cry but something made me want to cry!!! he came by me and hugged me and i pushed him to the ground he tried to apologize but i didnt want to hear it my best guy friend came over and hugged me and told me that he was a jerk and that everything was going to be ok. i didnt talk to my bf the rest of the night then next day i checked my email and there was 10 emails all with the same subject i dont like her is what they all said, so i told him i finally forgave him and things were good for about a week then he invited me over and i decided to go biiig mistake when he came to the door i noticed his friends b. and j. were there with there girlfriends who i knew and we were friends it was all good and everything was going great until his neighbor (who is the girl i hate who loves him) came over she and him flirted the whole time in front of me and then if it didnt get anyworse she started kissing him and touchin his tush again he just let her do it but this time i threw this soccerball on the ground at them while they were kissing and slammed the door on my way out. he chased after me and grabbed me \"babe i\'m sorry she just kisses so well i cant stop!\" i smacked him across the face and tried to get him to let go of me but he wouldnt \"im not cheating on you i love you and you know that\" he said \"do i\" i snapped back and kicked him in the nuts and walked off he told me he was sorry but i told him that we couldnt go out anymore and its been 3 days since i told him we couldnt go out now he wont stop calling me sending me emails practically stalking me telling me hes so sorry and loves me and wont do it anymore but i dont know i have to admitt i still love him but i dont want to be hurt anymore i really miss him but i dont like being treated like this please tell me what you think
see if he loves you he wouldnt kiss her in front of you. thats like cheating on you in front of your face. do what your heart tells you.if you truly love him you"ll talk to him and tell him how you feel.so I hope it works out for you.
okayy .. well call my boyfriend frankie. me and frankie have been together for 5 months. and we have our problems. but we cant stay apart. we broke up once for 2 days and then we both coodnt stand it. and last night we did again .. for 15 minutes .. and we hated it .. we talked about it and we wanna be together.
but frankie's friend tom, likes me. so tom has been telling me all this stuff that supposedly frankie sayin/gonna do (he's goina cheat on me, he wouldn't care if me and tom hooked up) but he's like you cant tell frankie about this ..
could tom just be tryin to get me to break up with franki cuz he likes me. because there was a RUMOR that i liked someone else and franki got pissed. and he got pissed off one day when tom wouldn't stop lookin down my shirt. doesn't that seem like the opposite of not caring if i hook up with tom ..? i think soo ..
that was question #1, is tom possibly makin that stuff up?
and question #2:
me and franki arent perfect. we argue alot. he doesnt always call when he cant keep his plans, and he works alot. and all my friends say i shoodnt take his shit .. but i cant help it .. im miserable w/o him .. ive never liked anyone as much as him .. is it wrong to stay with someone who doesnt' treat you the best, but still can make you feel better than anyone else .. because everyone's makin me feel like it is ...
sorry for lengthh! please help me ..
He's probably making it up but all relation ships have a rocky road don't let a little bit of bad news bring you down so dont believe tom when they tell you not to ask him he is up to something .so dont believe everything you hear.so i hope im helpful to you
i'm 15 almost 16 female
okay so i'm going out with this great guy but he's out of town so much and i'm tryin to have fun and at a party i met this really sweet guy and we hung out the whole time; the only problem is that i think he likes me and i never see my boyfriend and i would actually see this guy; so should i break up with my boyfriend or what? i'm so confused!
are you actually sure this guy likes you be sure before you break up with him because he might not really like you so ask your self do you really want to go through with this.
i was recently out with a few of my friends when the topic of another friend (who wasnt there) and her boyfriend came up. Then someone said the have been going out for 4 months and they have only made out. we are going to be sophmores in high school (we are 15) and to me that seems far enough. How far shouldd they be going?? am i just been wierd?
your not being weird it is what you believe there should not be no how far. it should just be the make out stage and thats all. She is too young to be taking it all the way so you are the more mature one.
well.. ok.. i just broke up with a guy i had been dating for a year and a half.. and i started goin out with this other guy.. my ex still loves me and i love him.. but my boyfriend that i have right is falling in love with me... and i think i am with him to.. so should i just forget about my ex or what?.. i dont know.. but i have another problem.. there is this boy that likes me alot .. that i go to school with.. and he calls me.all the time.. and he tells me he loves me..geezz i dont know what to do!! please help me!!
to me you in a big sitution i think you should date the guy who you truly have feelings for theres nothing like your first love.truly you should forget about your ex,because you love the guy you with and the guy at your school he just want something in return of i love you.
i dont know what to think at the moment. he was my first boyfriend and we thought we were in love for a while. (btw im 14/f.) anyway then i realized that i liked him more as a friend, so we agreed to be just friends. we went out for half of april and early may. now its the 4th of july and im not all that greatful for my independence. how can i be sure i made the right decision, and what should i do if i didnt?
i know how you feel the best thing to do is try to get over it i am still trying to get over mine you have to know that somethings happen for a reason.to know you made a right decision or not you have to make sure you really wanted that if you didnt you need to talk to him
Hey,
Im 15, and I still have not had a boyfriend, or hooked up with a guy...
it never really bothered me before but lately it has been.
My best friend since 4th grade (who lives in Texas) (I live in Philly) has had alot more experience with guys than me.
It makes me kind-of jealous, and i dont want to be like...behind her if that makes sense?
alot of girls at my school just give in and do any guy that is willing to do them. There's not alot of people who are in an actually relationship.
I hate my school. All the guys are a-holes.
and i have confidence in myself too i model, im sweet, im funny...
im just really shy.
now im just babbling.
To get to the point I dont want to just hook up with some ass hole who doesnt care about me. But.. i dont want to be prude.
Thanks.
-Anna
do you really want to do that.I bet you most of your friends are pregnant.you should find a nice guy who wants to take it slow even though its not alot a guys like that out here today but who say you have to date a guy in your school. you should date a nice guy near your neighbor hood.i hope i am helpfull to you
I think im falling for my ex again he likes me to but hes playing hard to get now im going out with
someone else know he is mad at me but he said he didnt like me any more what should i do?
Look it is mostly his fault.While he is to busy playing hard to get he didnt notice he was loosing you to someone else. So you move on and forget him because he's playing with your heart.