well.. ok.. i just broke up with a guy i had been dating for a year and a half.. and i started goin out with this other guy.. my ex still loves me and i love him.. but my boyfriend that i have right is falling in love with me... and i think i am with him to.. so should i just forget about my ex or what?.. i dont know.. but i have another problem.. there is this boy that likes me alot .. that i go to school with.. and he calls me.all the time.. and he tells me he loves me..geezz i dont know what to do!! please help me!!
jumadel answered Tuesday July 4 2006, 6:47 am: Hi, personally I think your in a good possition. You've pritty much got the boys going after you from the sounds of things. I would ask one out for a date then ask someone else then ask the other guy another day. If you want to know who you like out of the 3 of them then you've got to ask yourself:
What qualities do I want in a guy?
Does one of them guys match my qualities?
if for example you wanted someone who was funny, had humour, thoughtful or generous then if one of these guys matched your qualities then really you've struck gold. Its nice to go out with someone who matches your qualities. Which guy matches your qualities. Then you decide, then theres your answer. Otherwise just go for who you feel more towards. Relax, and take it easy. Some people aren't as fortunate to be in your shoes. Enjoy every bit of it, you will meet your match, you will see. Daniel. [ jumadel's advice column | Ask jumadel A Question ]
loveyou915 answered Tuesday July 4 2006, 12:40 am: maybe you shouldnt have gone out with your boyfriend right now. you should of gaven it some time. and i no thats what people try to do is go out with a new guy to get over the ex. but i really dont think that works because if you really loved the ex you wouldnt do that to him or you to hurt your relationship. ohh and about that boy who tells you he loves you maybe tell him how you feel about a differnt guy. tell him that you could just be friends for now.
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icey0990 answered Tuesday July 4 2006, 12:11 am: woah i can immagine this has to be a crazy situation. my personal opinion is i dont think it is fair to be going out with the current boy. its not fair for him to be going out with you if you are so unsure. there is nothing wrong with being unsure. you just got out of a lonnng relationship! so if i were you i would explain to your current bf whats going on and that you need to think and its not fair to be with him at this point. you have to sort things out. you might decide you want to go back to your ex bf. who knows. maybe you will decide to stay single. only you can decide. i cant tell you who to go after. it has to be in your heart. inbox me if you need anything else..but the best i can tell you is you should break up with the guy until you are absolutely sure about who you want to be with
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