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long distance relationships


Question Posted Monday July 3 2006, 9:08 pm

My bofriend and i have been together for about 3 months and now i'm moving I won't return his calls because I'm afraid that I'll get to close to him and break my and his heart when I leave.Am I wasting our valuable time together or am I preventing a broken heart???????????????
yours truly,
please not another broken heart


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openthefridge answered Wednesday July 5 2006, 6:06 pm:
I went through this kinda thing. I did what Daniel suggested, and went on one last date to say goodbye. It was hard, but we agreed to stay friends afterwards, and believe it or not we still do talk, a year on.
I think you should continue to see him until you move, and then tell him you still want to be friends after you leave. It will be hard to say goodbye, but being friends will make it easier to be apart from him.
good luck hun
♥
-michelle

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jumadel answered Tuesday July 4 2006, 6:38 am:
Hi, it sounds as though you are trying to avoid a broken heart. But would you like to see him again while you still can? If you do, then you should have a last date. You know say goodbye by finishing it with dinner at a restaurant. Whats stopping you from keeping contact over the phone and being mates? Daniel.

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SoInToYoUx0x answered Tuesday July 4 2006, 4:09 am:
this is the last time you going to be with him.. wouldnt you want to cherish the moments? i would.. one way or another you will get hurt.. you might as well enjoy the time you have with him and not waste them

♥ Steph

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holahayley56 answered Tuesday July 4 2006, 12:44 am:
I'd be talking to him & spending as much time as you possibly can with him. Intill, you leave. because right now, I'm sure you feel heartbroken? Not getting to speak with him. I would. So, just talk to him.. & then when you move. I'm sure you will find a whole new bunch of boys that you will fall inlove with. =) I hope everything works out for the best! Bye.

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