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a little tension
Well my boyfriend (of 6 days shy of 10 months) lets call him Steve, well, he has a problem with my best guy friend, we'll call him Joe.
Steve told me that he doesn't like Joe because i simply tell him too many things, and i talk to him too much. But Joe is almost like a best friend to me, and nothing more.
Now, Joe has a girlfriend, who i am good friends with. Accually today was their one year anniversery. So no, we have nothing going on between us more than a friendship.
So i don't see why my boyfriend is over-reacting, he knows i love him, and only him.
Joe loves his gf, and wouldn't like anyone else.
I mean, Joe has given me very sweet compliments, calling me beautiful, because i have a very low self-esteem, so he tries to change that, but nothing will ever change the confidence in my self.
He's just a nice guy, who i'm very good friends with i can trust Joe with a lot of things.
And i love my boyfriend to death, but i really wish he wouldn't have a problem with Joe, and Steve does know that Joe has complimented me, and didn't have a problem with it, he agreed.
How can i have Steve not have a problem with Joe?
Thanks a bunch. :]
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Get them to go out together. Steve is obviously insecure because he doesn't know Joe well enough, Steve is jelous and feels like he can't compare to your friend Joe.
If you were close friends with one of Steve's best mates then that would be different Steve will be able to trust the guy.
So basically, try and get Steve and Joe to be closer friends by making them go out with each other and stuff =D
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Hi, guys do tend to be wary of other guys if they are friends or close to their girlfriends. It's perfectly normal though. All you can do is tell him straight that you don't think of Joe more than a friend. You love him, and he needs to understand that. Try and make it clear but simple for him to hopefully understand. Daniel.
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steve says he love you but doesnt except that you have a friend thats a guy if he really loves you he haves to except that you will have friends thats guys.you truly tell him nothing is really going on and that hes the only one you really love well i hope everything will go well.
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Well if steve really loves you he would accept him.Why dont you set up a double date or something to get them together.So let me see he doesnt like him cause he's jealous?Well that just means he luvs you.You tell him that theres nothing between you and joe.He has a gf right.So all I can say is 2 have a talk with him
Good luck!
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MY boyfriend used to have the same problem this is what i did:
I sat him down and asked him if he truley trusted me, because we couldn't be happy together unless we trusted eachother. He said he honesly did so i told him that if he really trustted me he would understand that i love him to death! and he said yeah he does then i said that i didnt love my fguy friend its just that he is easy to talk to and can help me and that i only like him as a friend and then he said he was sorry he was jelous and trust me i dont know if you can do that but it really helped me so i hope it helps you!!
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