okay here is what is going on..me and this guy ben have been going out for about 2 weeks or so and i really like the kid and he says that he likes me to, but it really dont show..we have only hung out once and the first time i tryed to kiss him he gave me a hug so i was waiting for him to kiss me n he hasent..we go to the same school and everything, we dont talk at school n when i call him not all the time he calls me back..i understand he has football everyday but i mean on the weekends he says he has to do something n then he goes n hangs out wit his boys..but yah i seem like im sounding like a 10 year old about this but we dont ever talk or hang out and your suppose to be wit your special someone alot and everything...what should i do?? please help.thanks
2weeks is a pretty short time, maybe hes unsure about everything and his feelings for ya. perhaps he found this relationship going a bit too fast for him that hes unable to catch up? the next time u manage to get him on the phone or at school make ur thoughts and feelings known to him. listen to what he has to say, and from there, we shall see what do to next..
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okay guys or girls this might be long but i dont know!!!! for you guys if you knew me liek as a friend would you ever go out with me(pic in profile).....Okay im very selfconsious about myself for a lot of reasons. Im 15 years old and havent had a serious boyfriend, hadnt had my first kiss yet...some of my friends treat me like shyt!!! and i really want a boyfriend!! like i had people like me before but none that i like in that way! and i liked plenty guys and they knew i liked them but hadnt done anything about it...so ovousily something is wrong me...i be my self all the time and i dont care what people think about me but i was just wondering why anyone wouldnt want to go out with me or why i hadnt have a serious boyfriend.I dont think there is anything the matter with me but ovousily guys do!!! Help Me please cause i sriously hate my life, and i cry myself to sleep everynite because of so many things thats going on in it!!
look deary, im 15 too and i havent had a serious boyfriend nor my first kiss. so whats wrong with that? does that make me and you an alien? we still eat and sleep like every normal human being. heck to those friends who treat u like shyt, they dun deserve to be called 'friends'. the more u feel the need to have a bf, ask ur self is it really neccessary? im glad to know that u do not think theres anything wrong with you, and how do u know guys obviously have? have u asked them? or is because u were too shy to approach a guy. u cant always expect a guy to make the first move on you, that way no guys will see the good substance in you. crying is good way to let things out, but deary its not worth it. thinking too much of problems creates all these tensions in ur mind and makes u feel hatred all the time. seriously trust me, its unhealthy and bad for complexion. lol i hope everything goes well for you.
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hey everyone ok im gay for starters and i have been made fun of my whole life for it and now people at work are starting too and i think im going to kill myself so please talk to me.:(
nonono! if ure gonna kill urself then nobodys gonna talk to u up "there". firstly all those emotional scars from the past that has been inflicted on you should have healed over the years, look at the past incidents and tell urself ur different and very unique. they can make fun for all u care, but what they say isnt important. never ever ever let their comments get into ur head. its worrying becoz some people who get laughed at actually accept the fact that they are items made to laugh at and in the end they suffer emotionally. ending ur life doesnt mean it will end ur troubles. there is always a way out, if only u'll look for it. and u noe what? i believe that u can find that way to overcome people's jokes about ya. all the best
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okay, i have this REALLY good guy friend named "jon"..hes in my grade we have 3 classes together, hes totalllly gorgeous..he just got outta a 9 month relationship about a month agO..he was inlove with that girl and naturally he prolly isnt over her yet and still is inlove with her..she lives like 45 mins away from where we live though..anywayz so me and jon ALWAYS flirt with eachother, act like brother and sister, punch eachother, etc, ya know like flirty stuff like that..we ALWAYS talk bout our problems with eachother, etc..i never ever thought that he would eveer like me cause we are so close friends but then his cousins gf told me that she asked him if he liked me and he said, "yeah i do actually..but im not gunna do anything about it cause i dont want our friendship to get ruined"..i thought that was so sweet of him to say...im kinda stuck cause i like him too..should i just continue on being really good friends? or should i bring out that i like him?
aww ur good friend jon is such a sweetie, he actually knew that by going into a relationship it might get ur friendship ruined. firstly i think hes really thoughtful to let u know the truth about how he felt, he was honest about it and maybe hes even speaking from experience. who knows how his previous relationship ended, but nobody wants to be a busybody so i'll keep my nose outta there. and also he also insisted that u two stay as friends meaning even if u said u liked him, will he like u back more then just friends? and of course u should continue being good friends with him! im sure there is another guy whos willing to accept ya.
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OK, Before me and my boyfriend were going out we were bestfriends. We've been going out for a week and I have realized that I like being just friends with him. I can talk to him better if we were friends. How do I break up with him without hurting our friendship?
since hes ur bf and even ur bestfriend once, im sure he understands ur plight and will still continue to be bestfriends with ya. explain to him why u should rather be friends with him instead of a relationship. make sure he is totally cool about it and try not to go on too harsh. guys are usually scared of rejection. let him cool off and in a few days time, approach him and ask him how he feels about ur decision.
i hope i helped a little and may everything work out between u and ur bestfriend.
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how do i get my gf from cutting herself?
usually cutters dun like it when people like us tell her to stop, chances are she wouldnt listen to ya. as her bf, u should stand by her. make sure to keep all sharp objects aways from her. she could be going through a tough time, thats why as her bf u should find out whats the problem and help her through this period in her life. make her feel loved and appreciated. -Rei
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If you never have or are new to the whole kissing scene....is there a way to tell your doing it right or if your good at it?
lol i dun think theres anyway to tell, besides kissing is something that comes naturally, besides different people have different views on how good is a cetain kisser.
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I went to camp as a counselor.. for about 5 days and I liked a boy there last year.. but this year when I went I had a boyfriend which things weren't going to great for us.. so I ended up dumping him.. Over the 5 days at camp the guy I liked was like flirting with me grabbing my hips and just being incredibly sweet.. now that i'm home from camp we have been talking on the internet.. and he says he wants to see me and asks me if I want a new boyfriend and stuff like that.. I really want to see him and miss him like crazy.. but sometimes I get mixed feeling from him.. should I just come out and ask him if he likes me??
yes of course u should ask him! at least that clears off one question on ur mind. but before that remind urself, are u ready for this new relationship? what if its just an infatuation, since u have mixed feelings about him? but all the more go for it and who knows what u might get outta it right? im happy for ya, and good luck. all the best -Rei!
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I'm 14/f and I've never had a real boyfriend. My only "boyfriend" if you can him that lasted for 1/2 day and I broke up with him because I get all nervous around guys that like me. I get really sweaty and light headed, sometimes my stomach starts to hurt too. Is this a normal reaction to guys that like me? I have also never kissed a boy. What is the average age for first kisses?
lol im 14 and i never had a real boyfriend too *cough* actually im turning 15 soon (in about 13days time) and seriously theres no average age for first kisses! it can happen anytime, anywhere and anyhow. its okay to get nervous around guys (i feel like that all the time), but remind urself to be YOURSELF. dun act like someone ur not. to overcome the nervousness, take deep breathes in and out for about 5 times, close ur eyes when u do that. (of course dun do this infront of him, do it before u go and meet him) and of course u'll grow outta it, afterall u only 14, theres a long way more to go in this lifetime. first kisses might not come now, but it will certainly come when the time is right. (i believe it will *winks*) dun rush into things, u might get unwanted kisses instead =P good luck! -Rei
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okay theres this guy and me and him have been friends for like a year now. he dated one of my friends a long time ago and thats how we met. but anyway..we used to like eachother and we were kind of "together" but never really had the title of dating...and i always kinda had a thing for him but now whenever i see him i think i like him again and we end up making out & stuff like he fingers me or whatever but i cant tell if i like him or i just like him as a friend with benefits...i dont know if he likes me either...but i kinda wanna date him for real this time but i dont know if its for the right reasons..please help
moving from friends to a new relationship sometimes changes expectations in people, why couldnt u tell him if u like him or just a friend? are u confuse about this? maybe u should ask ur heart this, sometimes ur mind wanders u off-course and leads u in the wrong direction. or is it maybe he is liking u only because his mind tells him so, and not his heart? often when people fall into liking each other because of "mind-games" the relationship isnt strong because true love isnt present. the two of u should work to a new beginning, talk him out first and find out if he still has something for you. dun waste this time, but at the end of the day, it could either mean 2 things, He's taking advantage of ya (because he has nothing to lose)or He's doesnt love ya as much as he loves himself. i hoped i helped, good luck and take care! -Rei
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I am sick of guys treating me badly or not being right for me. I'm going back to school soon and I want to meet someone new who makes me laugh etc, what qualities do guys look for in a girl and how should I go about meeting people?
different guys have different likings in qualities when it comes to gurls. its hard when u ask a question like this, as the answers are always range differently. the 'right' guy is out there. somewhere. he could be there infront of ya right now, maybe u just didnt realise it? be patient. dun forget how good things come to those who wait *winks* good luck in finding 'Him'! -Rei
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okay . .
there is thys guy i reallly like and we have been talking since last year online and stuff and he a couple weeks ago he asked me if i liked him and i said i did. then he was like maybe we could hangout sumtime then . .but we havnt yet. i think he likes sumone else now even tho he still i.ms me online . .what is he doing to me?
aww dearie, *hugs* maybe u should ask him whys he treating u like that. dun jump to conclusions that he likes someone else now! if u wanna know the answers to ur problems u should ASK him urself, and he isnt doing anything to ya.. maybe hes just having a moody week. be there for him, and find out wats wrong. good luck! -Rei
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Hey, my girlfriend and I are really close and i love her so much but lately she doesnt seem as interested in me as her friends, i don know maybe its just me but it feels like she doesnt like hanging out with me anymore, even though i know she loves me. please help me.
what u need to do asap is to sit her down and talk to her face to face. find out whether shes still interested in u or not. dun make assumptions too fast or jump to conclusions! find out the truth first. it might not be as bad as u think it is.. good luck! -Rei
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ok i have this guy friend,john, well john knows A LOT about me and we've been friends since like may, or something but anyways, he knows things about me that my friends that i've had since headstart and kindergarten dont even know! and hes like really hot and he has a girl friend and all but me and him are REALLY good friends, and anyways, the other day in class the was i was standing i could look at him and he wouldnt know, but im pretty sure i seen him checking me out, i mean he like looked at me from head to toe.. and he knows i think hes cute and all..please tell me what this could mean!!! im 14 female
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lol firstly thanks for ur question, i would love to help. u asked, what his actions could mean. personally i think he might be checking u out too! u should pluck up all of ur courage and ask him. who knows how he might actually feel about ya right? but since he has a girlfriend, chances of him liking you back might be slim. unless he unreasonably decides he wants to dump her. im sure he aint those sort, but dun worry so much okay? afterall u two are good friends for so long already. moving into a relationship might hinder a healthy friendship. hope i helped! ps. much appreciated if u could rate me! thanx -Rei
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hi. i'm a 16/f and when i masterbate, i think of girls. i look at pics of girls. not guys, girls. but i still like guys!! am i..gay?
if u still like guys then definately ur still straight!! the police wouldnt come after u if u look at pics of girls, so dun worry so much! how about looking at pics of guys instead? lol -Rei
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I gave up on love awhile ago..even though I don't want to, it just happened. Most of the guys I've dated were jerks. I don't trust guys and I resent all of my ex's and I can't help it. I haven't met a single guy in my school or area that was decent and I'm really starting to hate men. I'm not going to like females but I don't understand why men are such jerks. Someone help?
please tell me ur not gonna give up. the game of love isnt over yet. the right guy will come along soon enough! not all men are jerks, wait till u see the other side of them.. its still early to say. forget the past relationships, look forward to a new one that might be just around the corner. dun take this one for granted, relationships are fragile and need to be handled with loads of care. good luck!
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Hi! I'm a 14 year old girl. I'm noticing that I'm interested in girls more than guys. I want a girlfriend. Not a boyfriend. But I can't tell anyone about my sexuality because people don't accept gays. I can never have a girl spend the night thought because I don't want something to slip. But I really want an intimate relationship with another girl. Its that ok?
who said people dun accept gays? u should be proud of who u are, dun let wad other people say get to ur head. an intimate relationship with another girl would be a tough one, like would the girl accept ya, etc. things like this will take time, accepting itself will take time. u gotta be patient and dun rush things! being urself is the most important. only then she will see the true you and accept ya for who u are.
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I really like this guy,
but he likes my friend... i told him like 100 times i liked him but he dont care.. he just keeps on focusing on my friend you see..
he wont even spend time with me like hang out and get 2 know each other more.. than how he started liking my friend in the first place.. what do i do! i like him so much! i cant stop liking him or thinking about him
since he doesnt want to be ur friend, its unlikely hes gonna give ya a chance, then i suggest u dun waste ur time with him, there are bigger "catch" out there. good luck =)
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Well there is this guy in my dance class ( I swear he's not gay) and I like him a lot and all my dance friends say he likes me and I like him too, and I've told my best friend about him and she said make a move but i don't know if it's right for a girl to make a move on a guy( I don't really think I'll be good at it), plus i think he has a girlfriend and another girl likes him in class(she's my friend too) what should i do...
hey gurl, theres nothing wrong with a girl making the first move to a guy!! in fact, i think guys actually prefer gurls to initiate first! who said u wouldnt be good at it, have u tried it out yet? try it out first! who knows it might work.. dun care about the other gurl who likes him, she should be seen as a factor, not an opponent or rival in love ;)
hope that helps, much appreciated if u could rate me and good luck when making the first move, let things go with the flow, take care! -Rei
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There`s this guy I like. I`ve known him for a couple years, just never talked much. Now he`s talking to me a lot more & stuff & he`s in one of my classes. How do I like start convesations & stuyff. I feel so stupid asking this. *blushes*
aww, dun feel stupid, its really not at all. in fact, majority of people find it hard to start conversations! (confession: even i myself sometimes are like that *laughs*) but since hes initating, by talking to you first, take the chance! its a gold opportunity and also a sign to show that hes interested in ya! dun let this chance slip by, just go for it! it wouldnt be as bad as it seems :)once the conversation is started, let it go with the flow. dun be tense up and worried about what to say or whats he thinking, etc. focus on his eyes, cause a person's eyes are usually the doorway to his souls and character. i wish ya luck and hope that u two can get to know each other better!
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