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okay theres this guy and me and him have been friends for like a year now. he dated one of my friends a long time ago and thats how we met. but anyway..we used to like eachother and we were kind of "together" but never really had the title of dating...and i always kinda had a thing for him but now whenever i see him i think i like him again and we end up making out & stuff like he fingers me or whatever but i cant tell if i like him or i just like him as a friend with benefits...i dont know if he likes me either...but i kinda wanna date him for real this time but i dont know if its for the right reasons..please help
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moving from friends to a new relationship sometimes changes expectations in people, why couldnt u tell him if u like him or just a friend? are u confuse about this? maybe u should ask ur heart this, sometimes ur mind wanders u off-course and leads u in the wrong direction. or is it maybe he is liking u only because his mind tells him so, and not his heart? often when people fall into liking each other because of "mind-games" the relationship isnt strong because true love isnt present. the two of u should work to a new beginning, talk him out first and find out if he still has something for you. dun waste this time, but at the end of the day, it could either mean 2 things, He's taking advantage of ya (because he has nothing to lose)or He's doesnt love ya as much as he loves himself. i hoped i helped, good luck and take care! -Rei
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Take some time apart from him, spend a week without talking to him or anything, but before you do so tell him that you want to see if you want him in that way, and when the week is up you'll be able to see if you really wanted him or it was just a lust
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the only way u can find out if u really like him or not is not messing around with him, etcetc...to be honest, if ur letting him touch u, etc, then thats probably all he wants to ya know?i would really stop messing around with him cause now hes prolly just use to messing around with u and thats all he expects of u ya know?? but if he wants to, u should date him and see if he really like him...
love kristin
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