ok i have this guy friend,john, well john knows A LOT about me and we've been friends since like may, or something but anyways, he knows things about me that my friends that i've had since headstart and kindergarten dont even know! and hes like really hot and he has a girl friend and all but me and him are REALLY good friends, and anyways, the other day in class the was i was standing i could look at him and he wouldnt know, but im pretty sure i seen him checking me out, i mean he like looked at me from head to toe.. and he knows i think hes cute and all..please tell me what this could mean!!! im 14 female
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Rei answered Saturday August 28 2004, 11:17 am: lol firstly thanks for ur question, i would love to help. u asked, what his actions could mean. personally i think he might be checking u out too! u should pluck up all of ur courage and ask him. who knows how he might actually feel about ya right? but since he has a girlfriend, chances of him liking you back might be slim. unless he unreasonably decides he wants to dump her. im sure he aint those sort, but dun worry so much okay? afterall u two are good friends for so long already. moving into a relationship might hinder a healthy friendship. hope i helped! ps. much appreciated if u could rate me! thanx -Rei [ Rei's advice column | Ask Rei A Question ]
Here-To-Help answered Saturday August 28 2004, 11:15 am: Maybe there's a possibility that he could have feelings for you. Just don't read too much into it yet. Guys check other girls out naturally...whether they have a girlfriend or not..I mean, I know that sounds wrong but it doesn't mean they like the girl all the time...maybe they just like the girl's style or something...you get what I mean?
Maybe he could like you...I mean, he KNOWS you think he's cute...and if he knew that and didn't like you he wouldn't be giving you any hints as checking you out like that...
Sorry if this is confusing...but I hope I am helping so far.^
How is his attitude towards you? Does he joke around with you and all of that?
You said he knows a lot about you...that's definitely a plus...
No matter if he likes you or not, DO NOT go out with him while he has a girlfriend (obviously)...but, guys are very confusing. He could like you, but then again he could haev been looking for a totally different reason...or maybe he didn't realize what he was doing as he was staring...
But the way you described it DID seem like he realized it, so just smile at him in school and stuff and see if he realizes. You don't have to necessarily flirt (since he has a girlfriend and all) but if he smiles a true smile back...who knows? He may just like you...
Just again, don't read too much into it...since he has a girlfriend and all...
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