ok Tori (my BF) has this friend (mike) who asked her out.Then mikes friend tyler likes me. so mike was like put your arm around amy and ask her out. now tyler is mad a mike for doing that and im mad a mike to. and tyler is ok but i dont like Him ALOT ALOT. i like him as a friend. Should i go out with him?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Work & School category? Maybe give some free advice about: School? hailebop answered Sunday August 29 2004, 6:18 am: You've answered this one yourself: you like him as a friend. Unless you are sure you feel something more for him, there's no point going out with him and spoiling the friendship you have together. It sounds like you want to go out with this guy just because it would mean you and your friend both had boyfriends who were friends, which would mean you could all go out together and have fun. In reality though, this is a bad reason to choose to date somebody - if you don't like them that much the relationship will be doomed, and if you broke up with Tyler, things would be akward between you and Mike, which could easily spill over into things being akward between you and Tori. For now, just get to know him. If you later decide you like him, then ask him out, but don't if you aren't interested. [ hailebop's advice column | Ask hailebop A Question ]
SweetAvenger102 answered Saturday August 28 2004, 2:05 pm: I dont think you should go out with someone just cuz they like you.Just tell him that you dont like him in that way,he may be crushed at first but he will get over it soon they always do!
mshonest4eva answered Saturday August 28 2004, 12:26 pm: no. you should never try to do something like that. Then you might feel forced to go out with a friend. Then, when u guys break up, you'll have one less friend. And then u'll be angry at mike... its to much trouble. Tell him that your his friend, and that it should stay that way untill you know him a little bit better.
cutie_babee answered Saturday August 28 2004, 12:06 pm: well no if you have a bf stick with him don't dump him and then go for this other dude..it'll fuck up your realationship with guys they'll think your a playa...so stick with your bf and if you guys ever break up and start to have feelings for Tyler go for it but don't dump a guy for someone else thats plein playa mode and it's not right...hope I helped [ cutie_babee's advice column | Ask cutie_babee A Question ]
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