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Im a 15/f, 16 in april.
okay for some reason i think its really odd to date a guy whos like 17. but then id love to date a guys whos turning 15. i know usually everyone wants to date guys who are older and taller then them but i mean i think its kinda gross well not gorss but just weird if i would date a guy whos like 2 years older then me or 2 years younger. is there something wrong with my brain or is that just my personality towards guys i like?
theres nothing wrong with you hon. it's just that you have differnt taste in guys. every girl does.
Is there any way to tell by a hug if a guy likes you in a romantic way? I've had many different types of hugs, but most hugs are from family and friends, that's the type of hug where it's friendly, but does not in any way feel sexual.
I'm asking because a guy that I'm just friends with, after giving me my birthday gift, hugged me, but when he hugged me he held on for a couple seconds longer than most hugs last, and then he started to to stroke my back really slowly with his hand. There was no one else around, and normally he's shy around me with other people.
Do you think this was his way of letting me know he likes me as more than a friend?
yes. He's all rubbin on you and shit. girlof course he likes you. A hugg tells everything.
So, I'm going out with this girl and everything is going well and everything. Yesterday we are talking on the phone, and she tells me that she is attracted to heavy guys, which I don't mind. I wouldn't consider myself obese, but she says she usually dates heavier set guys. Although she didnt come out and say it, she seemed to hint that she would like me heavier. Now, I'm willing to do anything for her, but I just spent last summer trying to lose weight! I'd rather not gain back that 25 I lost... Is there anything I can do that will satisfy both of us? For your information, I am 15 and male.
man dump her ass. You just lost weight and she wants you to basicly gain it back. Tell her if she wants a fat ass boyfriend then get one. I mean what if yall break up (which yall will ) then your stuck being a fatass and who the hell want's a fat ass am i right. hell i know i'm right.
There's a girl that I've liked for about 2 months. She's just about my perfect girl, but had been going out with this guy since I met her. I gave up on her about 2 weeks ago cuz he friends said she always has really long relationships. I moved on to this other girl and her and I hit it off. I told the 2nd girl that I like her today, and she said she liked me too. But not 10 minutes after that I found out the first girl was finally single. I think I might like the first girl more, but now it's like the 2nd girl expects her and I to go out. What should I do? Which one should I pick? And how do I not make myself look like an asshole either way? I'll rate high for good answers.
go with your perfect girl and if you find out she just wants to be friends then move on to girl number 2. So now you can have your cake and eat it too.
Do any other girls have a list of qualities that they want in a potential boyfriend? I have a list of about 20 things that I want a guy to have before I date him.
For example, he must be a non-smoker, have a good job, live on his own, be neat in appearance, have a vehicle, and no children from a previous relationship. These are just some of the things. I had one guy ask me out but because he lived with his mother and smoked I turned him down. Another guy asked me out and he had a 5 year old daughter, so I turned him down to. Some people say I being too picky, well I tell them I just have high standards.
Part of the reason for this is because my last boyfriend was a total loser. He was on welfare, he didnt have a car or a license, he was dirty, he smoked, and was financially and mentally abusive to me.
Do any other woman have high standards? And do you think I'm being too picky? Also do you think I'm scared of being hurt again so that is why I strive so high, and subconsiously I'm doing this so I won't have a boyfriend again?
No i don't think your standerds are to high i just think you want a good man. I made a list of things i wantd in a guy too but it's not that long on the count of i'm only 15. it was just 10 things and well the things that you listed is what alot of women want in a man. It doesn't mean your picky and it doesn't say that you'll never have a boyfriend because subconsiously you don't want to be hurt again. It's just saying that your a women who knows what she wants.
Whatst he best way to make a girl orgasem for the first time ?
if it's her first time sexually then it will hurt her more than pleasure her but if your talkiing about giving a girl a orgasim that has never come before than i think you should know what turns her on so you know that your doing it right.
how long does sperm live in the air can i still get pregenet
It can live in the air for a few hours. And you can only get pregnant if the sperm makes contact with your vagina
Ok I want to really please my boyfriend so this question is mainly for guys but if you girls can help me too that would be great. Ok so I want to give him something he will never forget sexually. What really turns guys on? Do they have favorite positions or favorite acts the enjoy being done on them?? It's our 3 year anniversery so I am really going to put all out. Thankyou for you consideration! I really need help
Well it depends on what guy you have. if he likes it rough be rough. And try alittle RP to spice things up or you could have sex in a public place. Most people get thrills from almost being caught. You can also buy sex toys, sexy langeri, special oils that are edible, edible under wear, or of course sex games!!!! the possiblitys are endless.But one thing every women is sure of is that men like oral sex. If you haven't given him oral sex before, then heres your chance. Knock his socks off by giving him the best oral he's every gotten. And to mention you have to know what pleases your man to actrully please him beyound belief.
My boyfriend just broke up with me 2 hours ago IN SCHOOL! he just wants a break so how can i make him want me??!!!
PLease answer!!
You can't. I'm not trying to be harsh but he broke up with you so leave it at that. you can't make him want you if he doesn't want you anymore and you don't wanna be the stocker ex-girlfriend so just move on. Who knows maybe the distance will make him want you back.
ok so there is this guy who is kinda friends w/ me and he has a nick name for me, and is always talking to me, and at school dances he always talks to me and then i ask him to dance he says yes and when we are slow dancing he grabs my ass, and he always brings up times when we had fun together.
i dont know if likes me or not and if he does what should i do should i ask him out or some thing?
(i rate 5s)
um let me think............thinking............still thinking......YES!!!!! how clear does he have to be that he likes you. Does he have to write i like you on your forehead. So ask him out already.
my friend Alyssa is a BIG liar, she always makes up stupid stories. and when i tell her shes lying, she gets mad at me and i have to apoligize. but anyway, heres the point: today in lunch, i was sitting with Alyssa, my other friend Cassi, and my other friend Jenna. Alyssa said she has a friend named Jake who likes me and she said i've hung out with him and i've never known anyone by the name of Jake. so when she left the table, my friend Cassi said "so...do you believe her about Jake?" and instantly i said "nope." so...should i believe her? im hoping shes right. she said he looks just like the boy who i like and hes HOTT! so, should i believe her or not?
I RATE 5'S FOR GOOD, FAST REPLIES!! :) bub byezzz
I think sh's lying. A liar always lies and maybe she's just trying to get some attention.don't belive her.
there is this Kid that i happen to have a crush on but of course my luck he likes my best friend. my friend dosent like him and he knows. he comes over to my house almost every weekend and hangs out with her and i, im really starting to fall for him what should i do?
You should move on. you shouldn't waste your time on a guy thats not intrestesd in you.If he doesn't like you thats his problem. Find a guy that has the same feeling for you that you have for him.
**PIXIE**
Ok so i am going out with this boy and its been 7 months and 20 days and he is moving to virginia and im still in florida and theres this boy named Doug and i really really like him a lot and i dont kno what to do??? do u stay with my bf which i dont see anymore or do i go for doug which i see every day????
-13/f if that helps
Thats an easy one. Long distance realtionships never work out.Go with doug. You'll see his ass every day!!!!!! instead of the boyfriend thats movin away. So i hope i helped :)
Okay...
I know this guy, and he flirts with everyone. We used to be pretty good friends until he became friends with this other guy who told my friend that I wasn't cool. However, lately, my friend has been talking to me more then he's been talking to his girlfriend. I can't tell if he likes my or not. He's always touching me, teasing me, and being so sarcastic (in a good way). Im a just a LItTlE BiT CoNfUsEd...PLEASE HELP ME! DO you think he likes me or not? I RATE HIGH!!
~*~Madison age 15/f
uh.. sure yea he likes you.and know yall can become a good couple but what about the girlfried? you don't wanna be a home wrecker, do you? ask himif he likesyou instead of asking us. and if he does tell him to dump his Gf and then yall can be happy. Butwatch your back his ex-gf might want revenge for you stealing her man or whatever.but yea i'msure he likes you.
im a female 16 and me & my bf have been on & off for 2 years now we are long distance and it started out as a summer romance at the beach because my family spends the summer up there but turned into love. ok im madley in love with my boyfreind & when i talked to him the other day he said his freind came over and told him he should take this one girl he dated while we were seperated to the prom. i asked him if he was and he said he wasnt going to and he told his freind no but im kinda scared do you think hes still seeing this girl? do you think mabey he was hinting that he wanted to go to the prom and that mabey we should go? please tell me what you think.
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and if you ansewer you should go to prom with him well how how do i ask him really with out asking him flattly cuz im kinda scared just to come out and say it.
um.. you could be like" you have a date for prom yet" he'll most likelysay no.you say " well who do you want to go with.and again he'll most likely say you. And you say "are you sure". And he'll be like" hella yea your my GF why wouldn't i"
well he problywon't say it like that but you get my drift.
im a female 16 and me & my bf have been on & off for 2 years now we are long distance and it started out as a summer romance at the beach because my family spends the summer up there but turned into love. ok im madley in love with my boyfreind & when i talked to him the other day he said his freind came over and told him he should take this one girl he dated while we were seperated to the prom. i asked him if he was and he said he wasnt going to and he told his freind no but im kinda scared do you think hes still seeing this girl? do you think mabey he was hinting that he wanted to go to the prom and that mabey we should go? please tell me what you think.
Maybe. With a long distence relationship you really can't be sureifyour spout is being fathful. But f he wants to go to prom the better date should be his girlfriend.
ook, just to let you know im 14/f, and i read your column and i really like your advice! and the ones i read were mostly about sexual things, so your a life saver! ook heres my question:
im not prude or anything, but i havent done much, i definetly want to, but it's like one minute i want to and the next i dont, like im scared, or something! how do i know if im ready or not? and how do you exactly make-out? i have done it before, but im not sure if i did it right! ples help me!
I'm glad you like my coulum and the answersto your quetions are this.If your afaried to do something sexual things you shouldn't. Because after it's done you don't want to have doughts or shame.And to make out is just to french kiss and foundle. I hoped i helped.
But what if he rejects me when i ask him out???
Then move on. You should never make a big deal out of a guy turning you down. And trust me by the way you describe how he acts around you i dought that he'll turn you down.
I really like this guy who lives near me, hes 14/m and im 13/f. Everyone tells me that he likes me but I dont believe them. Everytime he see's me he gives me a hug. And in school, between classes, he trys to hold my hand. I really want to ask him out. Should I? How do i know if he really does like me?
Um he gives you huggs and trys to hold your hand. It's like so obvious that he likes you.And yes go ahead ask him out.
... i love my boyfriend and never want to leave him .... its just sometimes ... i dont and i want to kill myself because he never seems happy with me ... he get irritated and even slaps me sometimes. But i dont want to break up! Please help ... I dont know what else to do
~ Hurtin' on the outside
I think you need to break up thats just my IMO and abusive relatinoship is not a way to go. He hits and makes you feel depressed and even makes you think of suicide.If he's not happy with you thats his problem. Dump him and find someone who will be happy with you.