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prom situation
im a female 16 and me & my bf have been on & off for 2 years now we are long distance and it started out as a summer romance at the beach because my family spends the summer up there but turned into love. ok im madley in love with my boyfreind & when i talked to him the other day he said his freind came over and told him he should take this one girl he dated while we were seperated to the prom. i asked him if he was and he said he wasnt going to and he told his freind no but im kinda scared do you think hes still seeing this girl? do you think mabey he was hinting that he wanted to go to the prom and that mabey we should go? please tell me what you think.
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and if you ansewer you should go to prom with him well how how do i ask him really with out asking him flattly cuz im kinda scared just to come out and say it.
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um.. you could be like" you have a date for prom yet" he'll most likelysay no.you say " well who do you want to go with.and again he'll most likely say you. And you say "are you sure". And he'll be like" hella yea your my GF why wouldn't i"
well he problywon't say it like that but you get my drift.
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It seems like he's not seeing this girl. When you were on the phone with him, was he acting nervous/shady talking about this girl? If he was calm & cool about it then it means he's not interested in this girl. He might have been hinting about the prom, but let him take his time asking you. If you don't feel like waiting for him to ask you, just mention it to him. See if he wants to go to the prom and if he thinks it would be fun or whatever. Don't be obvious, just casual, you know? Long distance relationships are hard, I know! Good luck & hope everything works out hun xo
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Do what your heart tells you. if you think he is cheating then ask him if he says no and your heart tlls you no then ask him to prom
to ask him umm... be like " well since you arent going to the prom with that other girl why dont you come with me ?"
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Your story was a little confusing but i think i get the point. I dont think i got enough detail about him to see if he was still w/ that girl. Since you love him so much you should be very open with him. So my advice is to sit w/ him 1 on 1 and be serious and ask him if he is still w/ the girl, and take it from there. If he likes you as much as you like him, then there shouldnt be a problem. I hope this helps and im sorry if that was confusing!
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Your story was a little confusing but i think i get the point. I dont think i got enough detail about him to see if he was still w/ that girl. Since you love him so much you should be very open with him. So my advice is to sit w/ him 1 on 1 and be serious and ask him if he is still w/ the girl, and take it from there. If he likes you as much as you like him, then there shouldnt be a problem. I hope this helps and im sorry if that was confusing!
xoxo BLONDE911
communication is the key to every thing*
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Has he been totally honest and trustworthy in the past? If he has, then I doubt he's still seeing the other girl. I bet his friend suggested that your b/f should go with this other girl to the prom because you two's relationship is long distance.
I think that you two should go to the prom. The prom only happens a few times in your life. I think that you should go with your boyfriend and have fun.
Maybe you can hint that you wanna go like this "Prom sounds like it would be so much fun to go to!" or something like "What do you think about going to the prom?" (I know you said you are scared to come out and say it, but you can still try to ask that.) or something like that. You could give him hints or come out and say it. I would try to build up the courage to come out and say it if he doesn't get the hints.
If you do go to prom, have fun and be safe!
I hope I helped and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
*Manders*
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Hmm I'm sorry , its a 50/50 chance because when you asked him , he said no...But at the same time he could be lieing to you.And yes,He was most likely hinting that he wanted to go out with you because he said no to the other girl..But hmm i'm sorry thats all i have to say/and thats in mind, because my dad is rushing me , he wants to get online !! lol but , i hoped i helped you , I'm really sorry if i didnt ♥
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be upfront with him, if you don't like the idea of them going together, just try to hint it at him like "so you guys are going to prom together? Is there something going on that i need to know about? Would it be okay then for me to go to prom with (ex-boyfriend's name here)? How did you think I would feel about this?" this should build up your confidence about the topic, and then you could be like, "did you not wanna go with me?" something like that, but the long distance thing is really hard anyways. I'm sorry that you're going through this, but I hope my advice helps! Keep me posted! -Angel
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