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OK I know you get a lot of these questions but 1 more can't hurt! I cheated on my boyfriend of 5 months and I think he has a girlfriend. He gave me 3 chances and I messed them up. We're good friends. My question to you is should I forget about him? I'm always thinking of him and he moved on so quickly. I don't know if I want to move on so fast. HELP!!
It'll take some time but you should move on, dont necessarily forget about him, just slowly move on and start your life over without him.
my boyfriend says everything to me that i am his everything to me and that he loves me and no body else and how much he cares hor me! and he is in love with me. But there his his ex.. his first love and he swears that he dont like her that way any more and he is not going to break up with me for her and he promises on our relationship! i dont know what to believe though i told him i believed him and then i told him that i dodnt believe and that i was confused and i didnt know how to react! but i mean he tells me everything they say to each other and when she calls!
Okie...dont worry about it..he may have loved his ex but it didnt work out and now he has you and yes if he tells you that he is in love with you then you shouldnt worry about a thing because you have him and his ex doesnt..Just learn to trust him and belive what he says. Unless he has done something to prove you wrong, then you have no worrys.
hope I helped a lil.
-Samii
I'm 16 and I've never been in love. I'd just like to know if anyone else out there has ever been in my position, because I really feel alone. All of my friends throw around the word "love" after having a 2 hour bf/gf relationship. But, I'm scared when I'm older that I won't ever have that one person to wake up and want to be with everyday! It like scares me. Had anyone else been in my position?
okie..I just wanted to say that dont worry.There is someone out there for everybody. You will find that special persont wake up to everyone and love and be loved in return..Maybe ur one of the lucky people who havent been in love yet..love is the best feeling in the world and the worst feeling.You never want to rush love..Your lucky.
why do guys find the need to have a skinny girl? it gets me mad when a guy is attracted to some skinny girl when he could have great chemistry and a great relationship with a different girl who is overweight?
sam with girls i guess. but guys seem to have a more 'strict criteria'
all guys dont like skinny girls...I am one of those skinny girls but its good for a girl to have meat on her beacuse of alot of guys like that.
my bf and I never have things to talk about. What can we talk about?
You can talk about eachothers intersts..You dont always have to talk about a specific topic either..You can talk about anything..You can even be goofy with him and just try and make him laugh.Dont worry about anything you say that might sound funny or a lil dumb.
-samii
well there is 2 guys i like and they both like me but the problem is i dont know who to pick cuz i like them both and they are both really sweet and nice..i dont kno what to do???
well who do you have more feelings for or think about it as who you feel more chemistry or a connection with...it can be really hard when you like 2 guys at once...dont go by looks, go my peronality, who makes you happier, who you get along better with...if u need anything else just ask bc Im good at relationships and stuff like that..good luck.guys can be really tricky.
♥samii
Hey I need some help.. I am getting sent away soon and I am like in love with my boyfriend.. he is in a boys homeand I'm afraid I am never gonna get to see him again. I am afraid to tell him how I feel.. then there is this new girl coming to our school and she wants to hook up with him and he likes her too... i dont want to leave.. because I don't want to lose him.. please help.. i dont want to lose my baby boi
I am so sorry. If you dont want to lose him , then you shoudl tell him how you feel right away. What if he feels the same way about you, then you will be happy. Write letters or try and call him as much as you can.I am so sorry and I really hope that things work out for you and your boi. I kno how it is!Rate me! Thank you and good luck!
*sami
alright... well i guess you could say i just got dumped for the 3rd time by the same guy. but we didnt actually go out the third time. we talked about it and he decided he didnt want to. im not really over him and i havent been able to get over him for the past 2 mos we've been broken up. got any ideas of how to get over him?
~totally devestated
Well did you love him because if you did, then it is going to be very hard to.You can try and keep yourself busy, and that will keep your mind off of him. Hang with your friends more often and just let them help you through the process of getting over him. I know what you are going through.My boyfriend and I just broke up and I am not over him at all, and the worse part about it is, I have to see him everyway. Do you see you bf everyday?..hope I helped. Good Luck! You’ll get through it, trust me! Rate me!
samii Ann*
heyy! i wentout this this guy who was basicly my 1st real boyfriend..we broke up about a year ago, but though crushes and boyfriends have come and gone since then, i cant keep him off my mind! is it just a "1st love" kinda thing? i need help!
Maybe your in love with him.I know exactly what you are going through. If he is your first love it can take a long time to get over that person or maybe you will never get over them. Do you still talk to you ex bf and if not call him up and tell him that u want to see him and talk to him..rate me!
*sami
How can I get my guy friend, who I think likes me, to see that I like him back?
You can give him signals that you like him. Like flirt with him or look at him very passionatly. And if that doesnt work then you can always just come out and be like," hey i think we need to talk", and then tell him that you like him. Rate me! good luck!
sami*
err y is it that when love comes around that i always end up getting hurt...i really dont get it...i mean i think im doing what i think is right..maybe im not...what should i do...
First off tell me what happened. If you think you arent doing anything wrong then you probaly are not. I can honestly say that I know how you feel. Often times people do end up getting hurt in the end when it comes to love, but there are always other fish in the sea lol and you will heal from being hurt. Just wait until you find that right person and then you wont get hurt nemore. Rate me please!hope I helped!
*sami
This is mostly to the females out there: What is the most romantic- meaningful gift you've ever received?
Last year my boyfriend got me a pink and silver locket and we he put a picture of he and I in it. Something that really comes from the heart is a great gift! rate me!
*sami
OK. See me and my b/f have been going out for a little over three months...everytime i see him all we really do is make out. i mean he has gone up my shirt, but he hasnt tried to go any farther than that. im starting to get tired of the same old thing everytime i see him. why wont he go farther with me? another thing is... i want him to finger me and i know he wants to because he told my friend he wanted to but he never has, and he told her this when we had only been dating a month. if he does finger me tho im scared that he wont like it because i have hair... down there... should i shave it? what do guys perfer? does it really matter? plz answer ill rate sincerely confused
Yah! You really shout shave it if you have hair. My boyfriend and my other bfs hated hair. rate me!
Im 15 and this Girl that i like is 17, i will be 16 in june. she is a junior and i am a freshman, is their anything wrong with us being together? And how should i ask my parents what they think about this?
No there is absolutly nothing wrong with dating an older women. You must be very mature for your age. Age is just a number these days, what really matters is what you feel in your heart. If you and her think that it is right, then that is al that matters. If you want to ask your parents what they think of you dating an older girl, then you should invite your g/f over to your house and you both should sit down with your parents and talk them. Maybe have dinner first then a desert and over desert talk to them about it. Good Luck! rate me!
sami*
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for like 2 months,and he wants to kiss me, but I'm not sure if I should. My mom would freak out, but i really like him. What should I do?
Hey! First off how old are you?If you and your boyfriend have been going out for 2 months and you havent even kissed, then I say go for it. Dont let your mother find out if she is going to be mad about it. It is just kissing. Its very innocent. Good luCK!Rate me!
Sami*
ok, if this makes any sense, plz help. what are the levels in a relationship? i know there's like friends, dating, kissing, french kissing, etc, but what's after that?
well friends, dating, kissing, oral, sex....rate me!
Do you think it is possible to find "The One" you are going to be with for the rest of your life in highschool?
Yes I do! When I was only a freshman I found the guy of my dreams!Rate me plz! hope I helped!
Guys like to say girls are difficult but guys can be just as difficult too. There's this guy who no matter how hard I try to not like him, he stays in my mind constantly. I know most would say move on but the truth is I can't. He's not dating anyone at the moment but he loves to flirt a lot. We've been friends for awhile and it didn't seem like him, but he played me. He promised my bestfriends that he wouldn't hurt me and also he let them know that he liked me a lot but he never came around to asking me out. Should I still wait for something to happen even though it's been months, or just force myself to move on?
When you like sum1 you cant force yourself to move on your mind may let you but your heart never will. Just try and focus on other things besides him. Just give it time because if he likes you then he will ask you out. But never rush a guy because that can push them away. Good Luck! Rate me!
Sami Ann*
okay, me and my bf, well, i guess he's my ex now, broke up a couple of days ago. it was really hard for me because we both love eachother so much, and we still do. we were even planning to get married and stuff. well, since we broke up, i haven't been able to stop thinking about him and how wrong this feels. i know that we are soulmates, but i don't know what's happening right now. i just want him back, and he has said that he's willing to consider it, but he needs a bit of time to collect himself. without him i just feel so empty inside and like us being apart is WRONG. i've had boyfriends before and i've never felt like this when i broke up with them. i'm an emotional wreck, and i don't know what to do, please help me, i really want to get back together with him, and he says he does too, but he needs a bit of time. i have things i need to do, but i can't do them because i can't focus on anything but the loml(love of my life). anyone that can help me please answer this!! thanks.
signed:
hopelessly devoted 2 him
I am in the same sitation you are in. My ex bf an I broke up 3 months ago and we are madly in love with eachother but he had to move back in may of 2004 and we got back together in july and dated for a few months but I ended up breaking up with him and IDK why. You should just give it time, you you both really love eachother then you will be get back together. Remember the heart always finds it's way back to whomever it really belongs. Just have faith, thats what I tell myself. I kno how it is when you think about him every minute of everyday bc thats how it is with me. I dont talk to my ex bf bc it is too hard but I got to talk to him a few weeks and ago and he cried to me and he kept on telling me that he loves me. I promise you that it will work out if it is meant to be. I wish the best of luck for you both. Please rate me!
*SamI Ann
If I were to make-out with someone with braces and I have braces would anything happen? Like would the wires get stuck together?? Thanks! xox!
No the wires would not get stuck together. Did you see that in a movie or something. Nothing will ever happen if you kiss someone with braces and you have them, so dont worry about it. Just go for it and kiss him..LoL!Rate me! I hope I helped!
*Sami Ann*