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Question Posted Thursday February 3 2005, 12:39 am

heyy! i wentout this this guy who was basicly my 1st real boyfriend..we broke up about a year ago, but though crushes and boyfriends have come and gone since then, i cant keep him off my mind! is it just a "1st love" kinda thing? i need help!

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Thursday February 3 2005, 9:04 pm:
Well if you loved him you never really forget or stop loving your first love. That is always and has always been the most truest thing ever. So the best you can do is just try and move on and trust me you will move on and love someone again!! there is this quote and it says "Pe0ple are always lO0kInG f0r the right pers0n instead 0f BeInG the right pers0n." so try that and u will find the perfect guy that will help you get over your first crush!!-trix

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h34th3rr3n33 answered Thursday February 3 2005, 4:36 pm:
I'm in the same situation right now myself. I still think about my ex every now and then, but I'm pretty much over him now. I really do think that it's a "1st love" kind of thing though. I'm slowly losing feelings for him the more and more I'm away from him. I think it's best for you to try to not think about him and avoid communication with him because soon enough you'll find someone else and even though you won't entirely forget about your ex, things will get better for you and you'll start to miss him less and less.

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blond3star0fhop3 answered Thursday February 3 2005, 3:26 pm:
well if you still have a thing for him talk to him about it. He'll understand. And if you're luck, he'll still feel the same way too.
xoxo

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lilchica answered Thursday February 3 2005, 1:21 pm:
my first boyfriend was the same way and its been 2 years and i still love him i dont think i will ever get over him but now were friends and it helps a little you should try it.

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ShortNSweet17 answered Thursday February 3 2005, 1:12 pm:
With him being your first 'real' boyfriend it probably just is the 'first love' kind of thing whether it was even love or not. Your first will always remain there, that doesn't mean that you will always have feelings for him. It does take time to move on, but it will happen.

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Pain_Is_Love_101004 answered Thursday February 3 2005, 12:27 pm:
Maybe your in love with him.I know exactly what you are going through. If he is your first love it can take a long time to get over that person or maybe you will never get over them. Do you still talk to you ex bf and if not call him up and tell him that u want to see him and talk to him..rate me!

*sami

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orangebabi0669 answered Thursday February 3 2005, 6:54 am:
yeah its something like that. I was the same way with my first boyfriend. You will always have those feelings for them and always think about them I guess it's just kinda normal. But you will be ok.

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