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alrite so im pretty much awesome i guess i duno wat can i say i play softball and go to FMHS yea! and im gona be a sophmore this year and im 14 and summer pretty much sucks but yea i like listening to music and hanging out with friends because my friends are frieken awesome! but yea i can give good advice because i like to do it and yea as long as its not one of those fucking annoying preppy people ?'s like "like omg wat should i wear tonight" cus u dont need advice to figure that out and im pretty smart youll figure that outif you take the time to know me and i like to read lol

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I normally do not ask questions about guys on this site, but I just have no clue what to do.

My situation is that my boyfriend went out with this girl from his camp last year (they broke up b/c they wouldn't see eachother for a whole year). Well, this year he is going back to camp (she is too), and the camp holds a hotdog/hamburger barbeque thing where everyone pretty much has a date (although it's not neccasary to have a date, but everyone does have one). He asked me if he could go with this girl from last year. He told me that he "sort of" wanted to go with her (I'm guessing this is my language for "I want to go with her but I don't want to seem to eager about it b/c it will probably make you mad"). My problem is that I am afraid he is going to start liking her again, and I won't be able to do anything about it (after all, I will be miles away; I won't be able to stop them flirting or anything). I am just scared of losing this great guy.

My question is- am I being jealous and should I let him go with this girl to the barbeque? Or do I have a good reason to be worried?

Thanks I appreciate any answers!

you should be worried about it.. why dont you just confront him about it tell him that you think hes going to be flirting with this girl and ask him if he planned on doing it just ask him whats on your mind

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ok i am a girl 14 and my boyfriend is in arkansas (his hometown) and he hasnt even called me! friday was my birthday and his best friend called me and wished me a happy birthday but he didnt and he hasnt called me at all and i havent talked to him since the day he left for arkansas which was 12 days ago and i dont know if he his waiting for me to call or what ! i CANT break up with him i love him to much what should i do ?

well considering the fact that hes in arkansas maybe he doesnt have a phone to call you and you shouldnt just break up with some1 because they havnt called you thatd be pretty lame i mean when he comes back wat r u gonna go say "o hey were breaking up beacause you didnt call me" thats something fat people say

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My name is stephanie, and I bhave beeen dating my boyfriend for a month now.But here's the twist! My BF(Chris)asked me to hsve sex with him after a band dance. I told him no, b/c I'm not ready to sexualy active just yet! Unexpectingly he said ok I'll respect that b/c I love. I figured that excuse would by me time, and it did! But now he wants more reasons as to why I can't have sex with him. But see what gets me is is that he's telling me he wants to have sex, but when I say no he's ok with what I decide, but he asks repeating , but never makes any kind of action leading to sex. I'm confused! WHY IS HE GIVING ME MIXED SIGNALS?

ok he really does only want sex you can tell hes trying to give it off like he doesnt care but he really does thats all most guys want

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I love the intimacy of sharing a bed with my partner, but there's no denying that we get on each others nerves. I'm a reasonably light sleeper, and he snores. I also toss and turn quite a lot and take a while to get to sleep, whereas he seems to be a sleep (and snoring, keeping me awake!) within minutes.

Are we both doomed to a life of broken sleep, or is there a solution? Any suggestion on how to get him to stop snoring or to help me get to sleep more quickly would be appreciated.

u could try going into bed and falling asleep before he gets in there

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ok well me and my best friend(a boy) are really close. some of the time. well a couple of weeks ago someone asked me if we were going out and that we looked like a great couple and or we should go out. after that i started to see him differently. i dunno if i love him as my brother or as someone i would date. i think he mit like me though because he always says things like how i was so luck that he was my friend and would be luckier if he was my boyfriend or like when one of my friends asked me who i liked he would always say "me". plus like when we were hanging out at the prom he would like always be behind me just walking around with me. do i like him as my bf or as my bro ???i wouldnt want to have are friendship lost over this and i do like stuff about him . what do u think?????????

wow i can totaly relate to this ok well i had this best friend guy that i talked to every nite on the fone til 4 in the morning and we new everythhing about eachother and he always liked me but i always thought well hes just a friend well after a year after liking me he stoped but then i relized what a dumb ass i was for not seeing how great he was so i think you should go for it

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Ok well my friend and I when we were like 13 We kissed (she's a girl) because neither of us had been kissed before! But I realyy like this boy that likes me back a lot. We've gone on dates and kissed. But the kiss with him seem's real and when I kissed my friend it was just an example. Now my friend is OBSESSED with me, I mean I told her the kiss wasnt real and she is just obsessed! My boyfriend HATES her and now I'm starting to hate her! Please help!

is your friend a lesbian?????????? well if your getting anoyed with her all u have to do is tell her you dont wanna be friends with her

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ok, I'm supposed to ask this really hutt guy out tomorrow and i dunno how!! All my friends are like "write a note, tell him directly" but im too scared to give him the note because he'll show it to other people and im waaaaayy to shy to ask him directly. so how should i ask him out? and trust me, i need to ask him out tomorrow. i really wanna be his girlfriend!!!! hellllllppp!!

i rate 5's for good answers.

you have to get over your fear just ask him out personally itl be worth it when he says yes and its only like a whole 5 awkward seconds

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Well okay. I want to break up with my boyfriend but i dont know what to say. like, i still want to be friends and i dont want to hurt his feelings, you know? Okay please help me! oh and if it helps i want to break up with him because summers comin up and i wont see him. thanks!

hey how bout you just tell him your not gona get to c him

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ive been dating this guy for 5 months&we really got to know eachother before we even started dating. he ended up getting grounded over the summer for failing spanish&we havent gotten to see eachother since then. we decided it was pointless to date over the summer if we never got to see eachother, so we went on a "break". i think he might be interested in this other girl he just met. she plays basketball with him&his friends all the time. i dont know if he just thinks of her as a friend or more. he said he wants to start dating again as soon as he's allowed to see me again, but i don't know if i should or not. what if he has or had feelings for the other girl? should i trust that he really does care about me&want to stay with me?

hey how bout you quit wondering and start asking just frieken ask him if he liked that other girl

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I have a bunch of guyfriends at school, but one of them I really like.
Unfortunately I have no clue if he likes me that way and my friend's ex-boyfriend talks to me and everything way more than her and he always did before too...so I'm a little confused.
Anyways he's moving soon so ya

Back to the guy I like- he hasn't had a girlfriend for a while now and I really like him but I don't want to be like every other girl in school who asks the guy out themselves.
It's like friggin' Sadyhawkin's everday in my school...-_-

who cares what other people are doing at your school if you really like the dude just frieken ask him out itd make things a lot easier

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there is this boy i rly love ...and he asked this other girl out. i was so upset about this that i became anerexic for awhile.
can u please help me figure out how 2 get over him!
thx,
anonomous

alright look just say positive stuff about yourself dont dwell over little things like taht in your life because that type of crap happens to all of us either way you have to deal with it so you might as well get over it and move on to the next guy just learn to like yourself and behappy you cant depend on other people to make you happy

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Okay,,,,,
I have this boyfriend(Kevin) that im madly in love with and hes in love with me. I am 13 and hes 15. We've been going out for 7 months!! Theres a problem though. My neighbor is the one i always hung with and i introduced her to him because he was my boyfriend and they have became close and she always im's him online and calls him on his cell phone. Latly i have been getting scared. Shes been saying maybe she will take him to the prom next year if she has noone to go with and crap though my boyfriend says he wouldnt go with her and i do belive him... and i think shes falling for him. Shes 16 years old too so shes closer to his age. She had alot of crap about him written in her profile saying stuff about there friendship. She doesnt have a boyfriend and im positive shes never had one. I know he wont leave me for her but i am afraid thats shes falling for him. How do i tell? Im scared because i dont want her too and if she does then i dont know if i can handle it. Shes been writing about a guy in her profile and she says she likes this one guy but i think she has some feeling for Kevin that are getting stronger. I think she flirts with him but im sure Kevin doesnt think so.... i donno please help I'm flippin out here!



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im thinking you worry to much about stuff i mean if he really likes you he wont pay attention to that other girl and besides your 13 i doubt your in love with him anyways

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i'm in 8th grade and everyone i know has had or has a boyfriend, but i have never had one. i am kinda shy and i'm friends w/guys but nothing ever happens withour friendships. but anyways i am moving at the end of the school year and there is this guy i really like how can i get him to ask me out or get a boyfriend before i leave?

p.s. i rate high

uhh just tell him you like him its as simple as that just tell him how u feal

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i broke up with my bf of 2 months today b/c of lack of communication. he wasnt crushed at all..i dont think we meant anything to him but anyway, its the second last day of school before summer. how long should i wait before i go with his friend? we both really like each other and he actually cares about me. hes my friend's ex and im his friends ex..any opinions? tell me what u honestly think...i wont take away from the rating. thanks!

just go out with him whenever you want guys dont normally care about that kinda stuff just girls because the majority of them are retarted like that and even if he does care i think he will live unless hes a fag that cries

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i'm 15 and my last serious bf was when i was in the 7th grade. i'm not shy, i talk a lot, i get along with everyone,i have a good sense of humor, i don't want to sound stuck up but i'm not ugly. my two best friends have bfs one of them has many pimples on her face, my other friend has been know as the ugly duckie. their bfs are really cute. is there something wrong with me, that i can't get a bf? i feel so alone and behind my smile there is a girl depressed that has a problem with self harm, and has no one to talk to, and feels unloved!

hey you dont need a guy to make you happy trust me the guys will come and go and theres most likely no way that any of the guys in highschool will turn out to be any1s husband i think you should just stop saying stuffa bout your friends and quit wanting one so badly its when you least expect it when youll finaly get what you want just focus on other things to make you happy

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how can i lose pounds fast?! ill rate a 5! i need help!

boy this is a tough ?.....not... look lady all you have to do is eat healthy run at least a mile every day do some weights and some abs i could tell you the secret to the work out called "continuous abs" but i dont care that much

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Okay well i got a my bf jacob a few days ago and i already have regrets about it. Its like, when i am talking to him, i like him but when im not, i dont like him. I kinda wish i would have never said yes. What do i do? wait a while then break up with him or like see what happens?

look idiot if you dont like him break up with him its as simple as that

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