Hey, my name is Ana Barrera. Im 14. I have brown/black hair, dark brown eyes. I basically give my friends advice when ever they need it, and my advice always helps. I like to dance, draw, and in the near future I hope to be a DJ at the hottest club in LA, California. I love to hang out with my friends alot. On my free time I give people advice.
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alright my ex asked me to prom, and hes a big dancer type and i dont really dance that way with guys other than slow dance.. i wanna go with him ALOT but im scared that hes gonna think im a loser if i dont dance like that with him..wut do i do?? please help me cuz i havent given him an answer yes or no yet.. (link)
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Just do what ever you think is right...if you feel comfortable dancing, then it shouldn't matter what he thinks! If you really don't want to be embaressed infront of him then just tell him! If he starts saying shit about it...then he's not worth goin out with...let alone got to prom with! Your prom should be spent with someone that really and truly cares about you!
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me and this guy went out for like 2 weeks, right. so anyways we did a lot of bad stuff but of course hes in 11th grade and im in 7th. i cry ever morning because i think of what we did. he dumped me the next day after we did it. and told me that he was using me to get down my pants. please help me on what i should do! you are like the only girl i can trust, and plus you are so pretty. i love you and thanks! please! (link)
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First of all let me say this...he's a complete asshole! Aright...try to go up to him and just start sayin shit about him. Or try to suduce him into doing it with you again and if that works then do the meanist and most HURTFULL thing you can think of (hopefully you know what I mean) and when you do that run as fast as you can away from him!
Thats what I would do!
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im 14/f, and i really need help. There is this boy that I can't get out of my mind. Whenever I think about him my heart beats faster, and I get butterflies in my stomach. When I'm around him I can't stop smiling and I get nervous. His voice sends shivers down my spine and when he gives me a hug my heart soars. When he so much as looks at me I melt inside. he's cute, funny, sensitive, kind, caring.. he's everything.
Two problems though...
1. he has a girlfriend and it tears me up when i think about them or see them together.
2. he's my best friend...
I've tried to get over him... i just can't. What do i do? Should I try and tell him how i feel? Could this be something that will end our friendship?
Thanks to anyone who can help (link)
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I had the same problem. Aright well if he is sensitive and open minded then you should tell him how you feel about him. If when you tell him he starts sayin stuff that sounds really mean then he's not at all worth it. Or if you really don't wanna tell him then just think about what it would be like if you two were to go out...if you've known him for a really long time or feel like you have, then you would realize that it would be really weird if you guys went out! So just to what ever your heart tells you to!
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i am 16 .. and a girl.. My ex boyfriend and i were together for a year and a half. we broke up 5 months ago and im not over him. we never really talk but recently we hung out and i still like him but he "says" he doesnt like me like that. how do i get over him or what could i do to get back together with him or atleast hang out one on one? (link)
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I don't think that you would be able to get over him. I mean if he was someone that you really loved then there is no way that u can get over him. If you want to hang out with him one on one then just ask him if he would like to go to the mall or something like that.
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My realy good friend went out with this boy but he broke up with her in three days. I've liked him since we were introduced (by my friend). My boyfriend of two months just broke up with me and the first person i thought about was my friends ex. im not looking for a rebound guy. i asked my friend and she says its ok and shes happy for me. Her ex already nos i like him. am i low? what else can i do? (link)
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You can't help it if you like your friends exboyfriend, so if she says that it's ok for you to go out with him then take a chance and go for it. Now if you don't want to hurt your friend then just decide who is more important to you, your friend or the guy that you like. That should help you choose what to do.
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I've never really been shy around guys but theres one that i like now but and really shy towards. he nos i like him but i just got my heart broke so could that be why im afrid to talk to him? (link)
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If you really loved that one guy, and you were really sad, then that is probably why you are shy around him, and you might just be afraid because you don't want to have your heart broken again. That is totally normal. So just take time then things will feel normal again trust me.
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my really good friend just called me and her cousin goes to my boyfriends sschool and she said her cousin said that MY BOYFRIEND HAS TWO OTHER GIRLFRIENDS........and that she seen him kissing on girls and stuff...... im so upset i dont know what to do..i was just on the phone with my boyfriend and he was like i love you so much and i was like i love you too and he was like no i love you more...hes so sweet i cant believe this....what do i do?? IM GOING TO CALL HIM UP BUT IM SO UPSET IM CRYING AND WHAT DO I SAY...=( oh my god...hes the only good thing in my life....this is aweful PLEASE HELP (link)
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Honey if he really loved you then he wouldn't be cheatin on you, and if your really good friend says that he is cheating on you, if you really trust her, then believe that he is cheating on you. I know its hard to imagine him cheating on you but u also believe he is then trust our instincs.
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ok well a guy found out i liked him and he likes me but im not positive i like him becuz i like other guys too. what should i do when i see him tommrow? AHH ill rate u a 5! (link)
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Just act normal around him, act like nothing is goin on. Then u should find out if u truly like him or not.
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17-F I've hung out with this boy Chris twice this week and we like each other but whenever he trys to kiss me I pull away. I have kissed him but I dunno I don't have any desire to do it again. This past summer I was used by this other kid. Since then I haven't wanted to do anything with anyone. What do you think is the reason I don't feel comfortable with Chris?? I do really like him and I think he's getting frustrated with it. (link)
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There is a pretty good chance that, that is the reason why u don't feel comfortable with him. Ur just afraid to get hurt again. So it shouldn't fustrate u at all, it's just a normal thing.
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14/f/9th grade
Ok my ex is stopping me from having a bf...
His friends like me and they wanna go out w/me, but they couldn't do that 2 him. This makes no sense b-c his friends say that he doesn't like me anymore, and we went out in 7th grade so I don't hink he likes me anymore! What should I do b-c I really want a bf right now, but HE kind of is stopping that...my life sux..HELP ME PLEASE! I will rate ya 5...seriously!
-cOnFuSeD-
P.S. I was in love w/this boy, and now I am like so over him, so what does this mean? (link)
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I think that ur ex would get really jealuose if u got a bf and might think that u belong to him, but it shouldn't matter wat he says if u want a bf then go ahead and get one, cuz if u don't then u will end up regreting it farther in life. So if u want a bf then go for it. Don't let him stop u from wat u want.
Hope I helped!!
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do you close your eyes when you give your boyfriend a lil' peck on the lips?! or even on the cheek? (link)
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When I gave my ex boyfriend on the lips I don't think I closed my eyes.But if u want to then close ur eyes.
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how come people say it is bad for a 13 year old to be friends or have a realationship wit a 16 year old? (link)
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I think that ppl say that becuz they think 16 years old ppl r more experienced. But it shouldn't matta. they probably also say that becuz they think that ppl should go out with ppl their own age.
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There is this guy i like and were really good friends but my other friend broke his heart about a year ago. But last night we had a school danced and we danced but i dn if it was as friends or what! I just like dont wanna do nething that ill be embarrassed about bcuz r moms r good friends. I have a ton of confidence around guys but this is alil different. What shud I do? (link)
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All i can tell is to try and don't think about it too much and u will find out wat the whole dancin was "just friends or more" u'll find out soon enough. Trust me!!
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OK well here it goes....I really really wanna have a relationship with a guy....a REAL relationship....But the thing is When it somes to the kissing part....I kinda dont know what to do..... I freeze. How do i deal with this? I am 14 and everybody is like way more experienced than me. I'm afraid. Please can you give me advice! Thanx in advanced! (link)
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When u are about to kiss sumnody try not to think about it at all cuz that might be the reason y u freeze. If u think about it too much then u start think of "is there a certaian way to do this or wat?" and the truth is there is no certain to kiss a guy, u just do. So whenever u come across the kissing part just go for it. Don't think about it!!
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So the other day I was talking to my crush and he told me that he liked me and I told him that I liked him. Then the next day my friend Dylan walked up to me and said that Wesley, my crush was shy and he wanted to ask me out but he thinks we don't talk enough. What should I do!!! (link)
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I think that u should just give u guyz together a chance and see how it goes. Who knos, if u start goin out u guyz might talk alot more than u do now. Let me kno how it goes.
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Well, I have a boyfriend. And, when we're around eachother, I just don't feel anything anymore. I like him a lot, but he calls EVERY day and is always telling me how happy he is with me, and how important I am to him, and how much he loves me. I'm not that into hima s much. How do I break up without breaking his heart? :( (link)
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Just tell him that u r confused and just don't kno wat u want anymore, and ask if u guyz can still be friends.
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This might be a stupid question, but how do you know when you're in love with someone? How does it feel? (link)
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There is kno right or wrong answer for that u just kno. It's like u feel like that sumone that u have been lookin for is right there and u feel like u neva felt b4. That's how I would kno if I was in love, I guess.
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I see a few guys in my school who look at me like theyre checking me out. We're good friends and everything, but how do i go about choosing one? I already know they like me, its blaintly obvious and ive learned to figure that out by now. But how do i know which one i should flirt with a little more, and get to know them so that we can be together? (link)
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Flirt with all of them at the same time or individually. That always works for me so it should work for u. Tell me how it goes.
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OK on Friday I'm going to my boyfriends away game. His mom is driving me there with her and I know im going to be so nervous. I dont want to say anything thats going to make me look stupid, but I know im going to end up doing that.. I always do. I was just wondering if you guys had any adivce on what I should do to be less nervous or not say anything dumb that I'll regret. Thanks SO much!! (link)
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Just be urself everything should be fine. Even if u say sumthin stupid it'll be fine.
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okay.. me and this guy have been talking for a while.. well.. last night he called me and was like.. " i like you and i wish you could have come to homecoming with me" and then he was like.. " we should hang out next weekend.. and go to tha mall or something.." and i was like.. omg.. i was so happy.. and then today i come up to mai friend kate and my friend kelsy.. and she was standing with them and all i heard was .. "were going out" and this other girl *hoo looks like a man* said it.. and i was like.. " who?" and she was like.. "marc" (the guy).. and i havnt seen him since.. but she was talking about the same one.. so.. yeah.. what should i do? ILL RATE! (link)
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Tell her wat he said to ya, cuz if u didn't find out that he was goin out with sumone then u would have gotten hurt even more.
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