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Well, I have a boyfriend. And, when we're around eachother, I just don't feel anything anymore. I like him a lot, but he calls EVERY day and is always telling me how happy he is with me, and how important I am to him, and how much he loves me. I'm not that into hima s much. How do I break up without breaking his heart? :(
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I know how you feel. It can be hard when two people in a relationship are not on the same level. And I know how overwhelming it is when the other person seems to want to be with you all the time and you just want your space. It's a strange feeling. The only thing you really can do is tell him how you feel. If you aren't in the same place as him emotionally, then it's just not the right time for you two. If you think that you just need some time to yourself, then explain to him that you are just not ready for such a committed relationship. However, if you don't think there is ever a possibility that you two will get back together, don't give him false hope. Trying to cushion the blow like that will just hurt him more in the end. It's best to just be truthful. Make sure you tell him yourself and get it over with. tell him in person, because any other way will just be more painful for him.
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Just tell him that u r confused and just don't kno wat u want anymore, and ask if u guyz can still be friends.
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I had a boyfriend like that once. At first i thought it was really sweet but after awhile it got annoying and i broke up with him. Actually i had my friend tell him. He asked me if i really was breaking up with him and i said yes. I felt so bad because of it. After our break-up i realized how great of a guy he really is.
Just tell your boyfriend what is bothering you. Tell him it isnt working out anymore. Maybe tell him you want to be friends and then maybe one day you will get back together (maybe, maybe not). Or if you want, tell him that you need some time to yourself right now and that you need a break from him. That way you can date other guys and see if you like anyone else. I hope i helped.
~***Hannah~***
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Just tell him you want to take a break. Tell him that you guys might have a better relationship as best friends. He may still love you and he won't want to give you up, but he should understand. If he loves you enough, he'll be okay.
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