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So, I'm a 7th grade girl with a problem: I have a crush on this one guy and I think he has a crush on me too, but I think he's losing interest because I don't talk to him as much because I'm kinda shy around him. What should I do? (link)
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Thats adorable! It's normal to feel like that especially at your age, if hes giving you signals then maybe he does, however you never know how a male really feels. But if you really like him you should start some conversations with him! Not always because you don't want to seem desperate or needy but it'll show you have some sort of interest, if he does the same with you then you know he wants to get to know you. Go for it sweety, better to take a risk than to not take one at all. Normal to feel shy around him especially if you have feelings, I'm sure he feels the same, but try talk to him as friends and see what he is about? Hope this helpss !!
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My girlfriend is always texting this guy see says is just a friend that comes into work and he doesn't mean nothing to her. They talk everyday all day while she's at work. Lately I've found her texting him to see what he's doing instead of him looking for her. When I asked her about it she just said I had nothing to worry about and see won't talk to him anymore but now she has him under a females name trying to cover up so I think she's not talking to him anymore. Am I just looking into this the wrong way or should I be worried? Thanks Taz170 (link)
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This doesnt sound so good honestly, your girlfriend shouldn't have to hide anything from you especially when it comes to texting males. Those who don't have anything to hide don't fear anything, if she has nothing to hide why is she trying to hide the fact that she has been texting this specific male?. Have you tried speaking to her about it on a serious level, she can't be playing you out like this. No if i was you i would be paranoid, or it could be just a friend. However if its just a friend she has no way to be acting this way when it comes to speaking to him.
If this continues, you need to seriously think about what is wrong in this relationship, either she continues playing you out or you drop her out. Relationships are mostly based on trust and seriously if you feel that you can trust her because your suspicious of her movements then you shouldn't be with this person.
Cheer up! & don't do anything spiteful just to feel better it's not worth it.
:) hope i could help !!
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Ok so I really like this girl for a long time. I always think about her which is kinda sad. We used to talk a lot, now every time I'm around her I freeze up and don't know what to say and I act retarded. And the worse part is, I think she knows that I like her too, so I guess she's always ignoring me. What do I do? (link)
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That sounds cute first of all, and i understand how it feels. However it\'s normal for you to feel that you freeze up, my advice to you is for you to actually tell her how you feel this is the only way you are going to know whether she likes you back or not, if she doesn\'t say anything back she\'s being a bit silly. You wouldn\'t know unless you try, if she says she doesn\'t like you i think you shouldn\'t force it, if you really like her just be a man and confront her about it because the longer you wait the more you\'re going to choke up and it\'s going to eventually come out..
If you say she ignores you then maybe she doesn\'t want anything to do with you? Sounds a bit harsh but you get hints when someone doesn\'t want anything to do with you, she\'s also immature if she doesn\'t give you a valid reason to why she is ignoring you, you never know she could feel the same way?
Just tell her how you feel ! you would feel way better afterwards even if she doesn\'t like you back at least its something you got off your chest.
hope i could help :D
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So I'm really good friends with this guy and he has liked me for 7 years. It is beginning to get awkward between us and I wish that he would move on to someone else. I've already told him that I don't like him like that and he should move on, but he won't. I'm just at my wits end about it. How can I make him move on? (link)
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you can't make someone move on darling, best thing to do is respect the way he feels towards you reason being is because your his friend. Yes it's awkward because you may feel a bit sorry for him? However he can't blame you for not feeling the same way.
Time will make him move on sooner or later, if your his first love believe me he won't ever forget you coming from experience. Just stay friends, communicate as normal put aside the fact he likes you, if he crosses the line with you then you know you shouldn't bother being friends but if the guy respects you and treats you like a queen then carry on the friendship.
Don't tell him to move on, you can never make someone move because it's their feelings and their heart.
Hope your friendship works perfectly :)
goodluck
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hi im bi and ive had a crush on my female bff forever now what can i do 13f fyi.not labeling self...just saying (link)
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I understand where your coming, have you ever considered telling her you like her?
On the other hand your still only 13 someone amazing is going to come along and offer you many things, and things you ain't ever experienced.
I think since shes your best friend you need to be open with her and tell her how you feel, it's only going to choke you up more if you keep it to yourself sweety.
Hope i could help :)
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Okay well first off, we aren't dating yet. We dated for a while and broke up. We worked out our differences and are almost 100% sure we are getting back together, just not yet because we wanna be friends for a little while. But we still kiss. We both have never done more than that. He wants to have sex but I don't feel like I am ready for that because of a few reasons. First off we are both 15, I am almost 16. Second, I don't want to risk getting pregnant, I have my whole life left to live! Third, we aren't dating yet, I don't want to have sex with someone unless I love them and they feel the same. I REALLY like him but idk if I love him yet. I feel like sometimes I do but I am 15 I don't know what love feels like. I feel like if I did end up having a kid, I would be able to take care of it but I don't want one now. Most of my and his friends have had sex and he feels like we are both missing out on it. But anyways my question is, what should I do? I don't think I am ready and I told him that but I feel bad because he really wants to. But that's also my choice to make, not his. Help! (link)
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well firstly you are very young to have sex , but who am i to judge? Babe if he really likes you or anything he will respect your feelings and thoughts, plus you two aint even dating so whats his problem?! he needs to start re- evaluating his life and start thinking of the consequences having sex can bring, its not even the fact your not ready its that he aint respecting you and thats the most important thing that he treats you like a woman.
Be straight up :)
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Hi I'm Female and I'm 16
Me and my boyfriend have sex regularly
We don't talk about it we just like do it
And I was reading a book about sex and there was pre ejaculation. I didn't understand it so please can someone explain it to me x thnx (link)
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It means when a guys sperm comes a bit before you having an orgasm , like he doesn't last. So thats why you should use protection even if you think a condom is quite boring its always the best way if you don't want to end up pregnant.
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i wished it was like that! but now he hardly texts me but i see how it is. hes going to regret it later on. (link)
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he is cutie , just smile always lifes short
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yes she delete it. But im just going to let it be. What ever happens just happens. I cant force it :( (link)
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well shes s bitch sorry to say , aww :( dont be sad lifes so short to be upset sweetie . cheer up !
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thank you! well today i when to the girls profile and she delete it her account. I wonder why. I talked to my friend today and he told me just to drop him because if a guy really liked you he wouldn't be doing this in the first place :( (link)
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Why would she delete it ? she must be hiding something, yeah I agree with you friend but hunny its also your feelings to be honest. Dont be afraid to let go if its not making you happy any longer.
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Hello there :) well this is my problem. I have a boyfriend we been together for 4 years. on and off. Recently there has been this girl on his Facebook that likes his pictures and also he starts liking her statuses. Last night i was going through her page and saw a comment her friend post on one of her status. It said "oh look who liked this status Jake" I automatically knew she was talking about him because they call my boyfriend jake. There was another status were they were talking about him. he goes to party's with them and his brother. I'm confused because i been seeing this random things on Facebook so if they do this in Facebook imagine in parties. i think im just going to end up breaking up with him even if it hurts. I know it will get better with time :'( (link)
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Heyaa awww this is sad, but i know what you mean ive got a boyfriend to and in a relationship there is always someone who wants to come and ruin it all especially a female. Personally i dont think on & off relationships are good at all they make them seem weak , for that reason you might aswell end it.
But what i think is that if he actually truly feels something for you and if hes proved himself then you should trust him always. Hunny facebook just ruins things for relationships , it would be bad if your boyfriend started liking this girls pictures but if he aint then i dont know.
I dont think he is committed to this relationship not 100% because if he was he wouldnt be out partying alot, if he cared he would have the discreet to invite you as his girlfriend spend time together.
You need to talk to your boyfriend before making any sort of decisions you might regret later on, yes it does hurt but if something strange is going on you have to get up off your feet and talk to him like a woman :)
Dont be sad because of this of course it hurts , no one has the right to make you sad cheer up sweetie !
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There's this guy & I really like him. We have talked before. The flirting & "I really like you & I hope we can date" kind of talking. Then he called everything off because I've dated a lot of guys in my past & because we barely knew each other. Then he dated his ex-girlfriend for about a month, then they broke up. & now we're talking again. I asked him why he did what he did & he said he doesn't know, but it was a mistake. I want us to be more than friends that make out & flirt. But I'm not sure if he does. I don't know what to do. (link)
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Urm i think your offering yourself too much to this guy, with all respect of course.. a guy likes a girl who is hard to get , to see that shes worth getting.
In all relationships us girls and boys want to make out and flirt but that is as time goes by , only time can tell if that would happen at its right moment.
Also i think he is right, if you barely know each other then there is no point in just rushing it and taking it fast? Get to know him more, show him that your a girl who has self respect who is to be valued not some trashy girl who wants fun cause then hes going to realise or notice that all you want is a 'good time' and thats not the way foward.
Maybe he is confused? he could like you, but maybe he just doesn't like the way you think? and when a guy finds out a girl has dated many guys it puts him off alot. Makes him think shes really easy? and gives her self to just anyone.
get to know him , and have more respect with yourself babe im sure its going to go better, also it can take time to go and like someone ? but just see how it goes. hope i helped :)
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Ok. So at school, not a lot of guys liek me or notice me at all. Can anyone please give me some advice on how to get guys to notice me and like me and eventually ask me out? (link)
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Okay, so i see where your coming from .. dont hesitate things , first of all notice that your a lovely girl and just cause no one in your school notices you dont mean your not worth it.
There are millions of guys out there that must be dying to be with you, however always try and be yourself ... if you want guys to notice you make new friends? with males of course. But don't show them what your looking for , that way one of them must notice you even if they don't ask you out you could end up having a really nice friendship with them.
don't try and follow them other girls out there, be unique - show them who you really are.
be more sociable :)
good luckkK !! xx
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ok i like these 3 guys and i dont know for sure if they like me or not. one of them has a girlfriends and the other 2 dont. like any other middle school girl i keep my love for them a big secret. my question is how to make sure i know that they like me or not. (link)
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first of all, i know you like all of them but its better off with out them.
second of all dont try and seem to desperate to talk to them just to find out if they like you, if one of the other 2 did like you it would be kind of obvious right? plus you got to see what sort of chemistry or connection you both have :)
see if they respect you as the woman you are, be the girl a guy wants , not the girl who is desperate to look for a guy.
also if one of them two do like you play hard to get ;) its always the best .
&& be confident of yourself !
good luckk :)
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Hey there. Well my boyfriend is always super nervous whenever i dont text him back and whatnot. I tell him not to be but it persists.
Im 16 and female
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he is very insecure, maybe he cares alot about you but i think its going to get to the point where your not going to be able to take it anymore.
you need your own space aswell , he cant be up in your stuff all day , a text is fine but if hes worried cause you dont text him back to each text thats an issue. you should try and talk to him :)
im sure that would help (:
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I love this boy I loved him for about 11 months hes cute and nice though and my dad says I can't date him.Why? FYI:IM 11!! about to go to middle school!! SOS!! :[ (link)
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Urm, well i see where he is coming from you are 11 only but my first boyfriend i was like around 12 ... i kept it a secret from my family until i started to date another guy around when i turned 14.
Your dad could be trying to protect you may be the reason because your still a young girl not a teenager yet and hes a man , so he knows how male boys are even if they are the same age as you.
But you do have to try and talk to him tell him you like him alot , because honestly your quite young to say you love this boy? i'm just saying/
Have to convince your dad , also if this boy really liked you aswell he would talk to your dad tell him what his intentions are with his daughter, first of all it's your taste in guys nothing wrong with red heads .. tell him what you feel for this boy but dont pressure him some dads are really hard to convince..
Dont give up ! and dont end up doing something stupidd babe.
Good luckkk :)
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So i really like this guy alot, were not going out but i wanna kiss him, everyone is trying to get us to go out, so one of my friends (who is his to apperantly) told me that i should kiss him once then walk away, and that he will want to kiss me next time, but that i have to tell him that we cant kiss because were not going out, and that when i kissed him its cuz i couldnt risist, so here is my question should i do it? is it fair that i kissed him and i wont let him kiss me? please help im 13 hes 13 to and im really greatful for your answers (link)
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No you shouldn't , its always better when the guy makes the first move feels more special and i'm telling you this cause when i was your age i wanted to kiss someone so bad but i didn't wanna look desperate it's not a good look on a girl if she goes chasing a guy just for a kiss.
If he likes you he would take you out on a date , and when the moment is right you both will kiss.
your really young , you friends dont even know what they are saying !
good things come to those who wait just be patient :)
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im a girl, bi, sophmore
so i met this girl freshmen year we became really close and we ended up together (gf&gf). she then broke up with me during the summer. i loved this girl to death! everything i do and everything i think about is her!
there is not one day i go without thinking about her.she ignores me alot now and it hurts me alot. everytime she does something like that to me i end up crying most of the night cause of her. i would do anything to get her back. what should i do?? (link)
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If she loved you she would come back , if she doesn't you know the reason why she never made it into your future. You sound like a nice girl love , dont stress over someone who hurts you they ain't worth it.
I know you love her but when you think about all the things the person does to hurt you inside makes you dislike them.. i don't think she deserves you babe, your really young i bet loads of girls would want you . And i know you want her but you got to think about this , while she is out there having fun ... she couldn't care less , if she cared about your feelings she wouldnt have done anything like that. You should enjoy yourself and have fun babe :) good luck and always smile smile smile life is too short to be down :) xxxxx
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I'm not sure but I'm thinking about having sex with my bf. But i don't want my parents to find out. What if I'm at the doctors and the ask if I'm sexually active and my parents are there for some weird reason. How do I keep them thinking tht I'm a virgin (link)
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erm well iv had sex and iv NEVER told my parents until my mum found out and im 17 , i lost my virginity at 14 yes it sounds wrong but like you get over it cause i dont regret it ever!
You dont need to go doctors sweetie , when the time comes for your parents to know you had sex well they would have to accept it , yes they would be dissapointed but at the end of thre day if you lose your virginity you cant take that back .. if your sexually active thats cool but also be sure who your having sex with dont have sex just cause you want fun and your horny. Do it because your in love and you trust that person 100% if not then there is something wrong with you. If your parents are strict with you and your mother decides to take you doctors shes excited LOL because i know she cares for you but there aint no need for that once its gone its gone and no one can do anything about it. Im glad its your boyfriend and not just any random guy :) GOOD LUCK BABE X
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I'm 19 years old male, and I have never even dated anyone. I'm too scared to ask a girl out, or even talk to them. Any advice? (link)
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Aww i find this so cute :)
I do understand where your coming from especially because your a male , and really now a days everyone wants to find 'their half' but to bo honest you shouldn't chase girls .. if you really attracted somneone they would also make a move to you.
Sometimes its better to have a chat with someone your really close with a best friend or mum or dad especially dad because they have been though more things in life.
I think you should be more confident with who you are , be more man about it and more secure of your words ... the more natural you are the more beautiful your personality would seem to someone :) GOOD LUCK !! XX
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