A guy that I don't know if we're ever gonna be more than friends.
Question Posted Sunday July 17 2011, 2:48 am
There's this guy & I really like him. We have talked before. The flirting & "I really like you & I hope we can date" kind of talking. Then he called everything off because I've dated a lot of guys in my past & because we barely knew each other. Then he dated his ex-girlfriend for about a month, then they broke up. & now we're talking again. I asked him why he did what he did & he said he doesn't know, but it was a mistake. I want us to be more than friends that make out & flirt. But I'm not sure if he does. I don't know what to do.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? LatinaAdvice answered Sunday July 17 2011, 1:39 pm: Urm i think your offering yourself too much to this guy, with all respect of course.. a guy likes a girl who is hard to get , to see that shes worth getting.
In all relationships us girls and boys want to make out and flirt but that is as time goes by , only time can tell if that would happen at its right moment.
Also i think he is right, if you barely know each other then there is no point in just rushing it and taking it fast? Get to know him more, show him that your a girl who has self respect who is to be valued not some trashy girl who wants fun cause then hes going to realise or notice that all you want is a 'good time' and thats not the way foward.
Maybe he is confused? he could like you, but maybe he just doesn't like the way you think? and when a guy finds out a girl has dated many guys it puts him off alot. Makes him think shes really easy? and gives her self to just anyone.
get to know him , and have more respect with yourself babe im sure its going to go better, also it can take time to go and like someone ? but just see how it goes. hope i helped :) [ LatinaAdvice's advice column | Ask LatinaAdvice A Question ]
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