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Ok, so there's this guy that I really like. I only met him about 4 or 5 days ago but he's really nice and he's a good christian. He had this thing in his AIM profile that said "single let me know if any of you ladies want to change that" and I told him that I could "help him out there" and as soon as I said that he was all "I was hoping you'd say that" He also told me, my cousin, and this guy that he thought I was hot and that I seemed like an awesome girl.

The thing is, everytime I try to make plans he never calls me back or anything. It really sucks... cause I like him a lot. Do you think he likes me? should I give up? please help! :(

.:.macy.:. (link)
thats so funny because im in the same exact position wid a guy. i dont know wheter i should give up or continue trying. I have this very good friend whos great at advice and i told her about this. She told me that if you really like a guy then you should never give up no matter what bc if u just have patience then the results could come out great. Also dont give up bc this guy could be your soulmate and just because of a little missunderstanding you culd be missing out on a lot of things. Im pretty sure he has good reasons why he cant call you back or why hes always busy. just talk to him and be ready for whatever comes your way. Hope i helped ya ^_-

XoOx--DeE


After all that sh*t happened i called mah bf n asked him to come over & i would explain everything.Everything was going pretty good until like anthony came outta his house n wen i saw him i got up & started to walk to my house.Then he sed and he apoligized blah blah blah,then he sed the real reason he was gunna talk to yesterday was cuz he saw mah bf making-out w/sum other chick!!And at 1st i didnt believe him and i asked him to leave.And then when my bf gott 2 mah house i noticed a hicky on his neck n im all wtf? who gave u that??i didnt give him a chance to explain or nething n i sed maybe i was lucki that anthony kissed me so now im not stuck with a sleezeball! And i went inside n closed the door. NOW i AM so thank ful for anthony! lol But should i go n apologize for everything i need help hurry!! (link)
well , yer boyfriiend might have gotten mad at yew and done dat for revrenge so yew knoe how it feelz..so juss let him explain himselff..if he haz a good reason den apoligize `nd if he doesnt have a good reason den forget about hym. GooD lUCk!!

xO ` DeE


17-f

I've been with my bf for almost 3 months, And I think I'm in love with him. I never get to see him though. No matter what we do together I have to go pick him up since he doesn't have a car, and he doesn't live that close (it's just getting annoying). The problem is that I thought I might still be having feelings for my ex, so I started talking to him again. It turns out he's still totally in love with me (I like him, but I don't love him). My ex is always there for me and can come over whenever. It's just really hard. Any suggestions? (link)
give your ex a second chance because everything happenz for a reason and theres a reason why he came back into your life for a second time. If you feel weird or bad cheating on your boyfriend or breaping up wid him den dont. because then you relle do love him. but i relle suggest you give your ex a second try..cuz everyone deserves a second chance. good luck wid wutever decision you make. -rate meh- xO dEe


well sum of u know im 13 n he's 14.So yesterday after i wrote this i went outside 2 get the mail n then i was gunna wait for mah bf cuz he sed he was gunna come to mah house.So when i was waiting anthony came n sat down next to me.(anthony-guy on mah str33t).And i didnt say ne thing to him but then i looked at him nreally quick he kissed me(me not knowing mah bf was across the str33t, so he just walked home)n then i smacked anthony n ran inside.n then mah cell rang, i picked it up n it was mah bf n he sed "i guess i wasnt the only one" n he hung up! Ok NOW WHAT SHOULD I DO!! anthony STILL doesnt get the point!And wut should i do anout mah bf?? plz help!!
XOXOalexiaXOXO (link)
okay now he took it too far. tell anthony that if he really loves you , then to tell your boyfriend the truth..which is he kissed you! and if he doesnt want to do it then be mad at him because he caused problems with you and your boyfriend. and den he'll most likely feel bad and then tell your boyfriend what happened. But be mean now to him and tell him " are you happy now? " and tell him how you feel. who cares about his feelings? its not like he cares about yours because then otherwise he wouldnt have kissed you knowing you had a boyfriend and knowing it could start shyt for yew. good luck and IM me if yu have nething else tah say [ lxbabeyxl ] or leave a message in my inbox. xO dEe


I just recently got dumped by my ex. we were going fine then all of the sudden she dumped me, i still like her, and i want her to go out with me again. I am about90% sure she still likes me.
wat should i do? (link)
if yur sure she styll likez yew den ask her out agen. good luck xO dEe


15 female

theres this guy i like alot and he asked me out today (like 1 in the morning type deal)...he already meet the parents but my mom and dad said his to old...he jst turned 18 today...and ill be 16 in dec...my parents don't know where dating i haven't told them yet...and i kind of don't want to right know bC they told me a couple days agao that he was to old...and i wanna know wat can i do to get my parents to apporve of him so me and him can go out together...w/ out me haveing to sneak behind my parents back bout it!??

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make him meet yer parentz and maybe yer parents will think hez a nice man and approve of him.hope i helped =) rate me plz xO dEe


ok, my boyfriend really wants me to give him a lap dance. I really want too to. lol but there is one problem......I don't know how to give it to him! I'm even a dancer and i'm pretty good too. But i don't know the right moves or anything. And i dont' wanna look stupid or inexperianced. HELP!!!!




female = 15 (link)
LaP dAncEs Are BasIcAlLy JuSt rIdIng tHe diCk. l0l.So jUst siT On HiS lAp ANd MoVe YouR AsS ArOuNd. MoSt LiKElY hE`Ll HavE hIs hAndS oN yOur HiPz. If YoUr DoIng It RiGhT tHen YoUr goInG to FeEl His DiCk lIke ThroUgH yOur JeaNZ oR w.E. HoPe i HElPeD =) GoOd luCk nD hAVe fUn. RatE mE pLZ x0x DeE

p.S: DeReS dIfF. tYpEz oF lAP dAnCeS bUt tHe oNe aBoVe iS thE mOsT coMmOn wUn.


^15, female^

iight...i was w/ my firend and we were hanging out w/ some dudes all weekend...i knew one of them for a while and i had jst met this other 2 dudes and i only knew this one guy *Sam* for bout 2days and i lost *it* to him...i mean there where no feelings no nothing...i mean i don't even care that he hasn't called me or anything...but i feel like it's wrong..and that it makes me look like a whore cuz i did that...but i mean when ppl ask me i'm like yeah i knew him for 2 yrs(but i really only knew him for 2days)...cuz i don't want anyone to think bad of me!...but i did tell myself that i'm not going to have sex till my next boyfriend that i'm serious bout...so does it make me seem like a whore that i lost it to some guy i hardly knew?..and is it tru that you can go to hell for have sex w/ someone you don't love? (link)
n0 yer n0t a h0e. unless y0u d0 it al0t of timez. but y0u 0nly did it 0nce and y0u have bad feelingz ab0ut it s0 y0ur def. n0t a h0e. y0u w0uld be a h0e if y0u did it agen th0ugh. ab0ut the hell thing idkk..l0l..rate meh plz x0*DeE


ok .. ive been with the same guy for a year. thats good for me cuz i never do that .. but last summer i talked to a guy noname and we were going to date but we decided not too because our familys were best friends and we didnt want to mess that up if something happened. well me and my boyfriend are haveing some problems because i have a new job maken goood money and we never get to see each other because we have different off days. well my mom and i and nonames family went to see kenny chesney. last thursday. well boyfriend didnt like that to much and was being a rude asswhole.. which in return to that made me cry in front of everyone in the hummer limo!! my whole like was messed up .. well after i was droped off noname was helping me carry some stuff to my car .. he was being really sweet and was tryn to make me smile and i guess just feel better! well he told me he was going to call me i returned with you better because we are really good friends . well needless to say he leaned in and kissed me i was shocked i didnt know what to do but look away and say why? .. now he calls me every day makes sure everythings ok and my days going good .. his little cousin lives across the street and he told her that he really did love me .. thinking it wasnt true he even told his aunt which i know wouldnt like about something like that ... he comes by my house alll the time .. he even came by jus a little while ago. i keep having all these mixed feelings and i dont know what to do . i mean i do love my boyfriend but i feel that im just tired of the same ol thing i dont know what to do ....its been two weeks since i seen my boyfriend and im going to see him tomorrow .. but noname will see him 1st. they have to get sinor pic. done tomorrow and noname is still really mad and ive asked him not to say or do anything to him because idont want to make things worse. boyfriend knows about the whole kiss thing and he says hes not mad but i know deep down it hurts him but over the last couple of months hes really hurt me ... every time iget off the phone with him i end up crying. i dont know what to do anymore.can anyone help me? (link)
g0 0ut wid n0nayme. Try diff. pe0ple 0ut. It seemz as if y0u and y0ur b0yfriend need a break. Maybe y0ur b0yfriend will learn to treat y0u better 0nce he realizes that hes g0ing t0 have t0 fight f0r y0u. wh0 kn0ez? n0nayme c0uld be y0ur s0ulmate and y0u w0uld never kn0w because y0u never gave him a try. h0pe i helped. plz rate meh. =)

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i have gotten realli close to this guy lately and we are good friends. but i like him as more than a friend but i dont think he feels the same way. What should i do? (link)
i think you should ask him " do you ever see us going out?" and if itz a good answer then tell him how you feel but if itz not a good answer den it just wasn't meant tah be so move on. It's good if you do this bc you dont want to tell him you like him as more of a friend..den have him shut you down..cuz that will be embarrising and weird for the both of you. hope i helped =)rate me plz .



hey everyone, I am 15 and I need some advice...my boyfriend of 9 months is leavin and movin to Oregon in a few weeks. I live in Florida and I wanna try to do the whole long distance thingy but I dont think that he wants to. I love him soooo much and want to be with him. Does it really work? Should couples that are in love try it? Please Help ME!!! xo0x ~manda [ aka confused]~ (link)
well my cousin had a long distance relationship and she lives in Europe and she wus dating someone from a diffrent country and they never saw each other .. but they stuck wid it and now they are engaged. If yew think thats it`s worth trying to have a long distance relationship..then go for it..but if yu really dont see a future wid dis kidd den break it off now and try to get over him bc once he moves alot of pain will be involved. It`s better you get over him then deal wid pain. Hope i helped `nd good luck =) rate meh plz



I really like this guy. I like to flirt with him and stuff all the time. I think that if I told him how I feel, we would be going out. The problem is, it's my B/f's ex! I don't know how she would feel! Should I tell him I like him or what? (link)
ask yer friend how would she feel if yew went out wid her ex. And den if she says she doesnt care or whatever den go for it. hope i helped =)rate meh plz xoxo DeE


I have a boyfriend but my parents don't know! I'm only in 7th grade so I don't know if they will be angry. I'm the only girl in my family so my Dad may make me break up with him! Should I tell my parents? (link)
Yew shuld ask yer parents , " what wuld yew say if yew knew i had a boyfriend?" or sumthyn like tht and if they ask why say ,"no reason". Depending on their answer they give yew , yew shuld noe wheter or not to tell them. Hope i helped =) xoxo DeE


My mom and her boy friend Daniel really have a connection between them. Do you think they might want to get married someday? (link)
If yer mom is divorced..den most likely she mite give it a try..hope i helped =)


me and this dude has been going on and off for about two years and i love him too death he's my everything. But theres a problem he does stuff that i really dont like, hes not cheating or w/e hes just doing something i think he shouldnt be doing, he says he loves me but right now he has to do what he has to do, since hes been doing that i really dont get to see him as often as i used to, so i feel really bad about this but i cheated on him and i have NEVER done that and i am afraid hes going to find out and then the two years of emotions will be gone, this dude is everything to me and he is the only one that has that special place in my heart and always be the one for me but what if he finds out? :'( (link)
if yew cheated on him den yew dun relle like him as much as yew think yew do. Also known as fake love. I know alot of ppl tht r in fake love. Yer in fake love unless yew cheated on him as part of a dare or if yew were stoned or drunk wen yew cheated on him. But if dat wuz da reason , den he shuld undastand .. bc den yew culdn't relle help it. `nd if yew 2 went out for 2 yearz den he shuld love yew enuff to understand y yew did it and forgive yew. `Nd if he dusn't..den its just not ment 2 b..hope i helped ya :) rate me plz.


i am so confused. i have written just about the same thing a lil bit ago, buts its not working. and i need help.

*i really like this kid, but he really likes my friend and just has a crush on me but he really likes this girl (my friend) and she only likes him because he likes her. but i truly like him and he doesn't even realize what shes doing to him. but theyve went out 3 times and shes broken up with him for another guy and yet he keeps going back and i wanna tell him what shes doing but its so obvious and i wanna tell her i like him but yet i don't!! WHAT DO I DO??
*so confused (link)
tell yer friend how yew feel..and ask her to bakk off for a while so yew culd get a chance. If shes a real friend den she'll do it and yew culd get yer chance on account of he has a crush on yew..But if she doesn`t den forget her!`nd If yew dun want to tell yer friend den make up sumthyn and sai omgg dys girl relle likez him 2 and she knoes wut yer doing and yer making her relle mad so i think yew shuld juss stop. y'knoe sumthyn creative like tht. Hope i helped ya :) rate me plz.


My boyfriend & I just broke up. It was the best relationship I ever had, even though we argued alot and were off & on many times. The break up was because of trust issues/cheating & that we tended to argue alot. It seems now that everything reminds me of him and I can't stop crying. I still love him and I'm pretty sure he feels the same. Our relationship was full of good, fun times and great, funny conversations. Do you think we could get back together if we gain more trust for each other and stop arguing so much or do you think a relationship like ours doesn't stand a good chance? (link)
i knoe yer position. I had dis ex-boifriend where everything i did and looked at reminded me of hym. Yew juss need to be patient and be positive. As for getting back together, i think it's possible. I think yew 2 juss needed a break for a while and that's wut wuz causing all the fitez. But if it's true love .. yew 2 will get bac together. hope i helped ya :) rate me plz


hi k see I just got this really funny nice and sweet boyfriend well I was talking on the phone with him yesturday and I was talking about these new friends and He asked if they were boys and I said yeah and he got made at me and saying that I shouldnt have friends that are boys. What do I do???!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!??????????? (link)
it soundz to meh as if yur new boyfriend is extremely jealous. I knoe alot of girlz who have dese problemz. Just let him know that there's nuthin for him to be jealous of because he's da only wun in yer life that yu relle love.Try to treat him more special den all yer other guy friendz. sooner or later he'll realize tht there's nuthin relle for him to get worried about. Hope i helped :) rate meh if ya can.


If a person is 14, do u think their 2 young 2 have sex? (link)
not as long as their ready and know what they're doing ^_^


OK i need sum advice! Theres this guy on mah street who i use to like n stuff.But at the time he didnt feel the same so i got over it.But now he likes me and he's kinda bugging me b/c now he likes me. I'm 13 and he's 14.And it sux cuz like whenever my older brother who is 15 has a guy friend come over the guy who likes me always starts talking to the guy n asking him who he's there to see! And im getting real pissed i dunno what i should do!! PLEASE help!!
(Alexia) (link)
it`z easy..just tell him real nicely to leave you alone and that you don`t like him like that. and if he styll keepz doing it then be like" look i didnt want to say this , but yu've led me to this..i dont like you..forget about meh..stop stalking meh..just forget about meh " and hopefully he'll get embarreseed and get the point and move on . rate me plz . hope i helped yew ^_^




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