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Q: There's this guy who says he likes me (on this site) and I have no idea how to talk to him. Because I don't know who he is...he sent me a personal question about a girl named milly, me thinking it was a quincedent answered and when he gave me feed-back he said i like YOU (my name is milly)...so what do?
I don't get in a relationship with someone I don't know and I don't meet with someone somewhere who I talked to over the Internet...I want to ask him why and a bunch of questions...
please help if you know what I'm talking about and trying to say...
help!
uh quincedent?

**coincidence**

Q: I like this guy a lot. And only my best friends know I like him. And I think I love him. We talk from time to time. But we arn't friends: he is popular and I have lik 20 close friends, but we're not popular, just really friendly. So we talk about hockey (Because we both play) and that is basically it. I was planning on telling him how i feel about him next time I see him.

But today, I was talking with my really good friend who I just told the other day (making her the 4th person who knows) and she said that he smoked pot. Now, this person isn't one to gossip--- she never does, doesn't say anything unless its true, but today, she said she was almost positive that ricky smoked pot.

My dad is very ANTI drug ANTI sex ANTI anything illegal. But he really likes this kid; they met via my hockey. He says we would make a great couple.

I would date him if he smokes, because I care for this guy so much, I think i might be able to change that *it sounds mean,-- i dont want it to* but my dad wouldn't stand for it.

I really don't know what to do. I'm sure if I tell this guy that I like him, he'll like he too, because everyone knows he has a thing for me. Please help me!
Thanks
just don't tell your dad he smokes, its not really a big deal. it should be legal anyways.

Q: Dan is 18, he never talked to me during school and then all of the sudden he started calling me a lot. As in every day. I tried to avoid talking to him on the phone because I don't really enjoy talking to him. I tolorated it, but now he wants to go to the movies with me. I told him I'd talk to him later about it, because I didn't want to crush him because I know how guys are when they get rejected. So yeah, I think he is calling today and I don't know what to tell him. I don't like talking to him on the phone and I deffinatly do not want to go to the movies with him. Any suggestions on what to do/say when he calls? (I'm not the kind of person that would say something like "STOP CALLING ME! IT'S WERID!" or "eww no i'd never go to the movies with you"). Thanks so much! =)
yeah i had the same problem a little while ago. just tell him you already like someone and you would rather just stay friends. he'll get the hint but at least its in a nicer way...

Q: i was dating this guy now first off i really love him. his personality and everything. hes a senior im a freshman. every morning he goes and gets high with a bunch of guys and at school he will ingnore me because he is high and it bothers me and hurts my feelings. because ill stand there be like hello nd he sitting there checking some one out. and then i no he doesnt mean it but when he is high he tends to hurt me like hit me or squeeze me till i bruse he is much bigger than me and muscle im only 5'4" ish and he is likr close to 5'10ish i supose. well i broke up with him yesterday and i miss him and he dont call me no more or anything
sorry i missed the question

Q: what's a good love song that tells someone how much you love them and miss being with them! please help!
making memories of us-keith urban

Q: This is going to be my first date in my life, so I'm not so good at this right now. We're just going to watch a movie at my house and I don't know of any good movies that we'd probably both like. I want something funny, but a little romantic too. I'd like any suggestions.
*win a date with tad hamilton
*50 first dates

Q: I am in love with this guy. We'll call him Zach. And I like this guy. We'll call him Elijah. Zach's in love with this girl. We'll call her Alli. Alli's in love with this guy and is in a lasting relationship with this guy. We'll call him Joe. Okay, now the problem is Alli has no feelings for Zach and she's told him so. Zach is still hanging on because it is so hard for him to let go. But he knows he has to. And he's told me that when he isn't thinking of her he's thinking of me. I am that girl that he will fall back on and I'm okay with that. But while I'm waiting for him to get over her Elijah really likes me. He wants to be the guy to make me smile. And the more time he spends with girls the more he thinks of me. I like him, but I love Zach. Elijah told me that he will wait as long as he has to but he will not wait if it will jeopardize his well-being. I don't want to lose him, but I don't want to lose Zach more. Zach tells me but he would be okay if I went with Elijah. But the problem is that if I get too deep in with Elijah and Zach decides he wants to be with me it will only make it harder to turn Elijah away. What do I do? I will rate all answers.
why is this question called "the bermuda triangle"?

Q: my boyfriend is the type of guy to cheat on his girlfriend. so me and him both have myspace accounts.. we both know the passwords to eachothers and everything. today, i was curious to see who he's been talking to because i don't really trust him. i saw him saying stuff to a couple girls and i'm really pissed. i don't know what to say to him, because i know if he found out i went on his account, he'll be mad at me. so what do i do? i can't just keep this in, and i know that i shouldn't of went on his name but i want to know if he's doing stuff behind my back.. help!
well what was he sayin to those girls? was he just being nice or was it like you're hot or something? if it was the 2nd one i'd dump him the first i wouldn't worry about it

Q: Me and this guy (lets call him Joester haha) are friends with benifits. His friend told me that Joester wants to make out with me. Part of me wants to that way I could piss off my x-best friend and because Joester is really hott. But part of me doesn't want to because after making out you do gross stuff that truthfully I dont want to take part in. Am I over reacting please help I rate really high
just make out with the boy! you dont have to do anything after

Q: I think ur hot.
aww thanks!!!

Q: I think my mom is hot, what should I do?! this is a crisies! thanks, --kevin
haha i don't know

Q: does any1 kno any realllly good love songs
memories of us-keith urban
raining on sunday-keith urban

Q: Hi my name is jess i like this kid named Egore and i think he likes me to but the onl problem is that hes black i dont mean to sound mean but my dad says i cant date black people i mean i really like him but i dont want to disrespect him ehat shoul i do.
be friends w/benefits

Q: i have been going out w/ this dude for about 2-3 weeks.. he is REALLY REALLY into me.. but im not that into him.. i just went out w/ him so he wud stop bein soo sad.. and mad.. i wanna break up w/ him..but all his friends (that r gurls, which is ALOT!)said they wud jump me.. im sure they wud to..b/c he's really popular.. and he has ALOT of ppl on his side!! wut shud i do?? shud i break up w/ him? and how? or shud i not break up w/ him??

signed.. confused gurl
break up with him don't lead him on!! that'll only make things worse. uhh i doubt they'd actually jump you that would be really immature

Q: Okay so I met this guy (we are both 16) and we hit it off. spent like 10 hours together he was totally flirting holding hands cuddling and he would just stare at me and would always sit next to me and he tried to kiss me and such.. (it was a church retreat. We were helpers lol for the little kids) so at the end of the night when its time to leave and we are right next to each other in the seat but my friend is between us and he got up and kept looking back at me and then he just left no good bye and didn’t ask for a number or anything! what does that mean? What happened?
Maybe he was too scared to ask you for your number or he didn't wanna ask you in front of your friend, and maybe the reason he kept looking back at you is because he wanted you to ask him for his number or he wanted to say something. Its hard to say since i wasn't there lol but it sounds like he likes you, so since y'all were at the same church retreat he probobly goes to your church so maybe you'll see him there.

Q: Hmm, okey..
I was just wondering which one of these is best:
WinMx
Bearshare
Kazzaa
Imesh
e.t.c
I've heard some of them give you viruses?
So which one is cheap and doesnt give your computer any viruses?
I appreciate any answers =D
Sorry about the spelling mistakes, just that im in a hurry :P
Have a nice day ;)
limewire is the best

Q: ok, so i am/was really good friends with this girl. she was new to our school nd just because she was new and not totally ugly, every guy fell in love with her, and is in love with her. but, she really isnt that pretty at all , she has big boobs, but i have the same size, she is no skinnier than me, she is a size larger, and im a better cheerleader than her, but they still like her only because she is new. its not her personality cause she is kinda annoying. and she is leaving our school next year but for some reason they think they still have a chance with her. but, i still dont get why everyone likes her better? please help me understand. i rate 5 for not bad advise.
-jazelle
eh its just because shes something they haven't seen before...by this time in a few months from now she'll just be another girl that goes to your school.

Q: There is a guy I like at school and today, when the last bell rang, i saw him walking in front of me to the busses. He turned around and looked right at me. I was thrilled, so when we got out of the building, I watched him get on the bus and he looked at me 2 more times. does this mean he likes me? i need advice from both girls and guys to get different views! THANX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

its kind of hard to tell from just that is that the only time hes ever looked at you? maybe you had something on your face..

Q: Are you suppose to wash your hair everyday?Not Because I wash my hair everyday.Someone told me It like ruins the hair or bad for it.Thanx
i don't see how washing can be bad for it. i hear so much stuff liek that every day...washing your hair is bad...brushing it is bad...it seems like anything you can possibly do to your hair to try and keep good hygene is bad for it so i say who cares and do it anyway. i wash and condition my hair every day and brush it a lot and my hair is just as good as it always was. actually, everyone tells me ive got the best hair but maybe thats cuz its naturally straight don't need to straighten it(which IS bad for it!) but personally i think washing your hair everyday is bad for it is BS

Q: hey..

I'm a 15 year old girl and I have this big crush on my big brother's best friend.....this guy liked me last year but gave up on me because I didn't want to be more then friends....but since we havent bin talking all that much I'v realised that I really like him alot but I dont think he wants me because I didn't want him last year....how would I go about trying to get him?
thx in advance!
Actually i wouldn't try going out with an older brother's best friend...think how akward that would be! And im pretty sure your brother wouldn't like it too much and if he like came over to y'alls house he would hang out with you not your brother and he'd feel like he was losing his best friend and i just don't think things like that work out

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