i was dating this guy now first off i really love him. his personality and everything. hes a senior im a freshman. every morning he goes and gets high with a bunch of guys and at school he will ingnore me because he is high and it bothers me and hurts my feelings. because ill stand there be like hello nd he sitting there checking some one out. and then i no he doesnt mean it but when he is high he tends to hurt me like hit me or squeeze me till i bruse he is much bigger than me and muscle im only 5'4" ish and he is likr close to 5'10ish i supose. well i broke up with him yesterday and i miss him and he dont call me no more or anything
Looking4princecharming answered Thursday December 8 2005, 8:09 pm: From the looks of things you really don't need this guy. Try and get over him, he doesn't sound like a positive influence anyway. Maybe his personality is really great and stuff but if he does those things getting hurt is not really a good result of being in a relationship. Its good that you broke up with him. You should talk to him and try to be his friend. At least be a friend he can turn when he will get in trouble. Not saying that you should go back out with him but just be there for him. If you really love him just do the best thing that you think is best for him and you. Hope it all works out. Tell me how it goes.
denajah5 answered Thursday December 8 2005, 6:57 pm: girl, you need to let him go. letting some guy over power you like that nd hurt you just aint right.dont worry about him calling you, cause you shouldnt be speaking to someone that would hit you, high or not.go find yourself a better man and forget about the rest. [ denajah5's advice column | Ask denajah5 A Question ]
AskAndy answered Thursday December 8 2005, 5:01 pm: Let me tell it to you straight, ok?
Do you SERIOUSLY expect him to call you after you broke up with him? He won't miss you because he's off getting high! How can you miss a guy who OBVIOUSLY doesn't care about you? Forget about this loser of an ex boyfriend and go make yourself look cute and find some guy 10 times hotter who cares about you. The only way to deal with missing someone you care about is to find someone else you care about MORE that cares about you back. Not some druggie jerk who doesn't do ANYTHING for you. Emotionally speaking of course. [ AskAndy's advice column | Ask AskAndy A Question ]
sizzlinmandolin answered Thursday December 8 2005, 4:57 pm: Being high is no excuse for hurting you. Drugs don't make a person bad. A bad personality is brought out by drugs. He was abusing you and breaking up with him was the right decision. It will take awhile to get over him, but you will don't worry :) I have faith in you. Love never really dies, but you can find love in so many different people. You need to find someone that you not only love, but who loves you back, and is a better match for you. He's out there, just keep your eyes open and soon enough you'll see an opportunity. I hope I helped you feel at least a little better and good luck! <3 [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
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