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sports


Question Posted Thursday December 8 2005, 3:01 pm

hey im not really good at sports and have been on the bteam on every sport i play. this is totally fine with me but for once i made the a team. i was really happy but now i can't keep up with the players on the team. i don't know if im paranoid but i always feel as though they are talking about how i do not deserve to be there. i have never played with these girls before and we have only had like 4 practices but i don't want them or the coach who picked me to think it was wrong decsion. Once again i could be paraniod but i think they don't even want to pass it to me. I don't want you to get the wrong idea and to think i stink because i don't these girls just don't like change and have had no new additions to their team for about 5 years. How do i fit in and show them that i belong there? i will rate high.

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yourstik answered Friday December 9 2005, 2:21 pm:
I have had the same problem , but all I can tell you is that the best thing you can do is to practice and if they have a problem with you just egnore and move on. You can't make someone like you, but you can earn their respect in a game or whatever. Don't be afraid to ask stuff to your coach. If it will improve your game and stuff. I give you options in which I think would be your best interests. If not than more power to you.

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Melanie4981 answered Thursday December 8 2005, 8:29 pm:
Hi there,

Firstly if the team hasn't had much change then your coach would NOT have put you in there unless she/he thought you were one of the best!

Just practise hard and show them that you are A team quality and I'm pretty sure in no time you 'll feel a lot happier!

Good luck and well done!

Mel

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AlwAySz_h3r3_4_yOu answered Thursday December 8 2005, 7:36 pm:
just like act really nice around and to them. practice your hardest and try really hard. this should help a lot...just show them that you really want it.. good luck xoxo allie x3

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