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I've had a bf for a little more then a month. i'm crazy about him and all and think i might love him but i'm wondering what are some ways to know if he loves me or just really likes me. (link)
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You probably don't want to show him how crazy you are about him. That could not be good, and he may get scared. Try being honest with him, ask him how he feels about you. You should expect the truth, and be prepared for it. Watch for the cute things he does for you, like holding your hand or your books. Men are strange but they have their little ways of showing affection even if it is not verbal.
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Heyy!,
Is it wrong for an 13 year old and an 11 year old to go out?..I really need someones opinion!!! (link)
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I don't believe that age should play a factor in your decision unless there was a drastic difference, but that is not the case. I think that you should focus more on trying to figure out if you match in maturity and intelligence. You do not want to be in the big sister position with someone that you are interested in. Make sure that you will not be bored when he is off playing playstation.
Good luck.
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so i have a boyfriend for over 5 months and i kind of want to break up with him because i want to be single but im scared because i know his family and like im afraid they will hate me and im scared because all my friends think that we are like THE CUTEST COUPLEand stuff but im scared cuz like i think that i will miss him.. but i really want to be single and just have fun im not ready for a major commitment so i dont know what to do help me please and if i do break it off with him what should i say??..... should i write him a note?? i dont know help me please (link)
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People will look down on you more if you are not honest. Never stay in a relationship for the sake of other people. If you break it to him gently and genuinely, then people have no reason to discriminate against you. If anything, they should respect you for you honesty and tell you that you did the right thing. It is not fair to stay in a relationship you are not happy in for the sake of both you and the other person. It is not right to lead people on. I would just write him a note or tell him face to face.
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I really like this guy that i have known sence i wuz 3 i havn't seen him in like 5 yrs. now we go to the same school. i see him every once in a while but never get the chance to talk. What should i do? tlk to him? or what just tell me wut i should do or how i should feel
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Nobody can tell you how to feel. People can never control their emotions. If you feel like this is a relationship you are interested in pursuing, then make note to speak to him more often. If not, then forget about it. Be careful however, you would not want to lose such a long term friend because of a trivial issue.
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im dating this guy...it seems like we are not goin out...i mean he is my ex-boyfriends best friend i think that he has be talking to him and they have been talkin about me saying all this shit about me and making my boyfriend not wanna go out with me why??? (link)
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Your ex-boyfriend is probably not comfortable with the fact that you are with his best friend. Maybe you should try talking to both of them. It is sometimes very painful to see someone who you cared about with someone close to you. Take that into consideration before you continue the relationship. You may really be into this person, but is it worth ruining a friendship?
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i made out with my bf the other day and he has been telling everyone about it ever since, but i only hear that from my friends. he has talked about it to my friends and stuff like that. i dont really like it, should i talk to him about it? i'm not sure what to do, i mean it is true... its not like a false rumour he is passing around or anything. i like him, he's sweet, but i feel like i cant make out with him anymore or else he's guna tell every one about it... also, for the boys out there, why do you think he talked about it so much? thanks (link)
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He probably talked about it because he was proud. If it makes you uncomfortable, I suggest that you let him know. The most important element in a relationship is trust. Just tell him in a nice way, and I am sure he will get the message.
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I was in an intense relationship with a pretty disturbed guy for 3 months. He frequently encouraged me to kill myself and was pretty abusive. I don't want to see him again but I still have his jumper and want to return it as I don't like it around and don't want to throw it out(it would give him a reason to contact me again, I've tried to sever all contact) --the only mutual friend we have is his ex and I never told her I was seeing him.
I would send it to him but he's moving house...any suggestions? (link)
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Do you have any friends that could possibly do the dirty work for you? Consider asking a man to do it. That way, he is really of less threat to them. I know this sounds like an easy way out but at least it is effective. It also gives him the message- you want ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with him.
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ok so you met this guy and you like fell in love with him and he liked you for awhile but he lives in a different city and you talk to him all the time and you see him occasionally but then he starts liking this other girl who is a slut and your still like in love w/ him and you cant get over him even though you have tried.and then you thought you were finally over him and then you saw him for a weekend and fell for him again and that is what happens everytime you see him. what do i do? (link)
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I cannot tell you how to handle this situation. However, I would advise you to talk to him and ask him how he feels about your situation. Then you will have an idea about how he views the whole thing. It is very common to have feelings ONLY when you see him. Is this simply a physical infacuation? Ask yourself this question. It is very important to distinguish a real connection from a physical one.
Best of luck.
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Okay how long should u wait for a guy who says he isn't ready for a relationship because he's busy? he says he likes me! (link)
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It is all up to you. Try to become better friends with him and give him a chance to come to you. Hopefully when he is ready, he will tell you and you both can work things out. Beware though, by procrastinating he may just be leading you on. Make sure that you don't fall into the trap of being someone who will always be there. If you do, you will be taken for granted.
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I know I'm in love but I don't know if my parents will except it they think we should be 15 before we date but I don't want to wait til I'm 15 to date the guy I love cuz I don't want him to go out with any one else before the 9th grade in June...What should I do obey my parents or do what's right?
-Jasmine (link)
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Jasmine,
Try to sit down with your parents and find a middle ground. If you act like a mature person, they are more likely to treat you as one. Just have a nice discussion and express your feelings for this person to them. Hopefully they will appreciate your being open with them and hear you out.
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ok my bestfriends is always in trouble and i cant go see my boyfriend with out her like i can but shes like i dont want any1 meeting him cz their related..right but i was supposed to go see him friday but now she juss called and said she may be moving bcz she juss screwed up with her mom ONCE AGAIN!!..i rly need to see him tho...should i go without her or juss wait cz i kno shes totally grounded 4 halloween! (link)
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Your friend is obviously controlling. You need to decide if your friendship or relationship needs more of your attention at the current time.
Maybe she is uncomfortable with her family member going out with her friend. I advise that you confront her about this and get a straight answer. Once you have spoken and considered what she said, then you can decide whether to wait for her to go visit him or not.
Best of luck, Jeanette
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I am 13/f. Ever since I have been dating my boyfriend, I have been thinking things I really shouldn't be thinking. I keep getting all these...desires to do things to him. I shouldn't be thinking things like that, I'm only 13!!! How do I stop? (link)
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You cannot control your thoughts. With age, sexual tension begins to come up. You then have the choice of acting on them or not.
If you want some sexual release, try masturbation. That way you are not risking your safety.
You can't control your thoughts. You can only control your actions.
Never think that feeling these things are wrong. It is perfectly normal. Most teenagers around your age are beginning to experience the same kind of thoughts as you.
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okay well.. im straight edge... and i didnt want to have sex. and hes older. and i told him it was ok,. weve been together 7 months. i guess i thought i wouldnt mind? or maybe i thought he wouldnt do it. but he did. and now i just dont know if i can trust him. or if i should try and get revenge. and it sucks cause the girl was/is? my friend and i told him how much i hated when the would flirt. so i just dont know what to do? should i dump him? should i ignore it? pretend not to care? get revenge? any advice at all would be great.
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From your question, I am gathering he had sexual relations with your friend. The thing to do is not to get revenge, but to deal with it in a mature way.
You first need to discuss this with him, and get a straight answer from him. It appears to be relationship that neither of you are comfortable with. You want to remain a virgin, and he wants to have sexual relations. I think that you cannot seem to find a middle ground, because obviously he felt he had to cheat on you.
Why would you want to be with a dishonest person anyway? You should find yourself someone who will be honest and true to you.
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Im falling in love with my best friend. I dont want to ruin our relationship, but i really want to be more than friends with her. We talked about it briefly, and she says she doesnt want to be, but she acts totally like she does. i dotn want to rush things, i just dont know if these feelings are true, or if i should be feeling them. help. im 18 m n shes 18 f (link)
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Girls are famous for their mixed signals. Females will flirt with anyone- I should know. It is a well known fact that people want others to be interested in them even if they may have no interest in pursuing a relationship.
If she really appears to be sincere, you can throw the idea out there in a manner where it is not obvious of your feelings. Maybe you could test the waters a bit, ask her if she is open to dating anyone at the present time. Inquire about her feelings- girls LOVE that.
It is very easy to have feelings for people close to you. I leave you with a couple of words of advice. Make sure you are willing to risk this friendship before you take a step foward. The results could be amazing, but you could also loose a friend.
Good luck to you,
Jeanette
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ok, i have liked this guy.. he knows it and basicly everyone knows it. including my best friend. now... one day i introduced them to each other. they liked each other and he asked her out... she said YES! what kind of best friend does that!? she knew i liked him!? am i crazy, or is that wrong?
please help!
what should i do!?
thank you! (link)
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If your friend knew that you really liked this guy then she is not a good friend. Good friends would respect another person's infacuation. I think that it is now up to you if you want to continue this friendship.
As for the guy, just forget about him. I can assure you that there are many guys out there. I know it may be difficult to let someone go, but it is better in the long run. Start going out to malls and socializing and leave out your radar for a new interest!
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